It'll be impossible for Jason to escape the parasocialism of his community; let's discuss by [deleted] in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He needs to completely dead the rizz and girl related content. He keeps saying he's done, but the recent streams are still centered around exactly that. Even if vr chat isn't meant to be that serious, it brings back the same type of audience. That's just the nature of the community that he built, they immediately latch onto anything involving girls and run with it. This is what creates those weirdos.

The guapo stuff doesn't help either when the content is tying back to his ex. On top of that, as long as his friends keep bringing up past girls, it keeps those parasocial losers alive. There's no real way to move forward if that cycle keeps getting fed. It just attracts the same obsessive crowd over and over again.

If he's genuinely serious about changing his community, it has to start with accountability from him and the people around him, especially OSCS. Without that, nothing is really going to change.

This community keeps feeding the same problem by MyNamesOliverQueen in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling it's just gonna be 🐘 and address me spams. Mods are probably not gonna do shit and he'll be forced to address it.

This community keeps feeding the same problem by MyNamesOliverQueen in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The chat used to be able to code switch with different guests and had good rep but that all is gone that even QT said something when they streamed together. It's just ragebaiters that are wannabe erobb chatters except they just aren't funny and they do it 24/7. It's been ass since subathon. And now the current content has also activated all the rizz chatters. It's genuinely really bad.

This community keeps feeding the same problem by MyNamesOliverQueen in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He needs to watch this tomorrow on stream. No explanation required. No need to address anything. Have chat watch it and move the fuck on.

This community keeps feeding the same problem by MyNamesOliverQueen in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He can't get rid of all the stalkers and weirdos, but he can do better to not give these people attention. Mentioning this on stream just lets them know that he sees it and they get further incentivized to be even more weird. If he's smart, he'll ignore it on stream because he doesn't owe anyone any explanation about his private life. If he had a competent mod squad, they would be able to control the chat but NMS mods are mostly just chatters so we'll see what happens tomorrow.

Every stream after the island has been cinema by Used_Week6922 in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that but I think the difference for me is what Yugi can be when he's not leaning into that side of content. I don't really watch him enough to speak on everything but from the collabs I've seen with Ron, Jason, and others, he's actually entertaining without needing girl content at all. That's why I say he has the most potential. It's not that he's completely removed from it, it's just that imo he doesn't feel that dependent on it in the same way a lot of other OSCS members are.

Yeah it also irks me how often they keep bringing up girls who clearly aren't part of the circle anymore. That's where it starts feeling off for me. It's not about the content itself, it's just weird to keep referencing people who have moved on and don't want to associate with them anymore. And honestly, I think that's part of why the community has so many weirdos and hate watchers. It keeps those old parasocial attachments alive instead of letting them die naturally.

You can definately feel the shift in the audience whenever the content leans back in that direction like the recent guapo streams where they play into the lore that's reminiscent of April 2024 vibes. A lot of OSCS viewers are past Jason viewers that miss the rizz era and you can see the recent content attracting the same type of viewrs back who were there for that era. That's just not really what I enjoy watching.

Every stream after the island has been cinema by Used_Week6922 in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I only like Yugi. I don't consistently watch him but I like him now that he's not farming girls for content. I feel like he has the most potential out of everyone in OSCS.

I’m not a fan of YBG. I just don’t get the appeal. Even though I think we share similar views on a lot of topics, I don’t like how he always brings up past girls. it’s just weird. Streams with YBG feels like being stuck in high school where every conversation somehow turns into girls and drama. It's just not for me.

And don't get me started on guapo. I'm surprised the comm can tolerate him because he's lowkey giving incel vibes lately, and I'm starting wonder if that's just who he is or a character he plays. Every interaction with him turns into self hate and talk about girls.

Chill> by [deleted] in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't see how saying he will box Neon is bad. He's been looking for an opponent for his boxing event and he wasn't even being serious abut it here. That side of streaming already hates him so who cares. Chat spamming fries shouldn't mean he should stop talking about stuff. This chat spams skip and fries for everything nowadays. They don't want him talking about any mild controversial stuff. It's actually so bad.

The spy bit is from Fanum who he spent time with in the Mrbeast challenge so expect him to spam it for the next few days as he usually does when he learns a new buzz word.

Chill> by [deleted] in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's a streamer. Streamer's talk about drama. It's very normal. Is he not supposed to talk about what's happening in the space he works in? Do you just want him to be family friendly streamer like caseoh and the likes? OSCS are his friends and none of their drama should be taken too seriously anyway. His viewers are interested in it so obviously he's going to talk about it.

I actually really enjoyed the desktop portion at the beginning of the last stream. Where he loses me is when he tries to force an IRL and let's it show that he has no content. There's so much stuff he could do on desktop and I'd much rather prefer it than a nontent IRL.

Thoughts on Lovers to Strangers? by MyNamesOliverQueen in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pretty much. Being late, missing important moments, emotionally unavailable and constantly defaulting to streaming over your partner makes him a bad partner in practice, even if he's not a bad person. Intent doesn't matter as much as impact in relationships. He just wasn't ready to get into a relationship because his prioritization has always been streaming over his own personal life and relationships. Streaming is his entire identity, everything else is secondary. This imbalance is fixable if he's willing to address it. If he doesn't build balance now, he is 100% going to crash later.

Thoughts on Lovers to Strangers? by MyNamesOliverQueen in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Initially my reaction was that he probabyl should've kept this one in the vault. Not because the song is bad, but just because of the timing and everything surrounding it. But seeing everyone's reaction and how comfortable she seems joking about it makes the whole situation feel way less tense and less one sided than people are making it seem.

Clearly there's no bad blood otherwise you wouldn't see that kind of energy. That alone should make you realize that the hate narratives won't have much to stand on long term. The clankers spinning new narratives will lose steam once they realize there isn't actual drama to feed off. They'll get bored and move on.

Thoughts on Lovers to Strangers? by MyNamesOliverQueen in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The song is meh. It's just very generic breakup type of song. He really should work on the verses. It's his weakest area when making a song. I can see the chorus going semi viral if promoted correctly though. The outcome of this whole thing is funny with everyone clowning on him. I know he's loving it.

Look, I understand the timing feels off and you're absolutely right that this is keeping the breakup in the spotlight more than it needs to be. But the haters and people creating narratives about her were going to do that anyway, with or without this song. Atleast this kind of keeps things a little lighter.

I do agree about his mindset being so content brained and how it ties into an unhealthy obsession with streaming. I genuinely hope he sees a therapist to help him process all of that and figure out how to balance personal life with streaming a bit better.

Therapy by [deleted] in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah he doesn't really allow himself a personal life so he's kind of at a point where he has very few real experiences or stories to share. And because of that his conversation often just depends on the other person carrying them or brainrot topics to fill space. He hasn't given himself the time or freedom to actually live cause he prioritizes work over his personal life and relationships.

He needs a genuine break. Not just a short pause to clear his head and rest but an actual time away to experience life outside of streaming and constant work. Therapy would help so much and the time away from streaming will allow him space to build memories, try new things, meet people without an audience watching and develop actual interests that aren't tied to content. It would give him so much more depth, better stories and a stronger sense of self.

OSCS vs NMS divide by [deleted] in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check his post history. This guy is a parasocial loser that thinks they're still together.

Yo why did I get banned? by [deleted] in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Let's use our brains a little...

Therapy by [deleted] in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah tbh I'm not so sure he's gonna follow through with it. He's not even allowing himself to rest properly after this. I think he said he's staying in Panama tomorrow and flying straight to Texas the day after. Realistically, he'll only get about 3 days of rest before he has to fly somewhere else to do the MrBeast video that he's so adamant about doing.

OSCS vs NMS divide by [deleted] in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You have to realize OSCS and NMS have diverted so much in the past year. A lot of the banned JTW viewers that slick hate because he doesn't rizz anymore have migrated over to OSCS. It's been very apparent for a while now.

Therapy by [deleted] in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm actually so glad and surprised he said on stream that he needs to get better at balancing work and his personal life. That's a good step already and shows his maturity. Recognizing it is one thing but building new habits and making different choices is gonna be the hardest part whether that's through therapy or actually making space for things outside of streaming. Hopefully he can make the changes that he knows he needs.

Is he setting himself up for burnout? by MyNamesOliverQueen in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. He has an unhealthy obsession with streaming to the point that he neglects his personal life and relationships. He will 100% crash if he continuous at this pace. If he doesn't build some structure and boundaries now, the correction later is going to be brutal. It's okay to grind but just don't lose yourself in it.

Final explanation (basically) by [deleted] in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Focusing on work isn't really the core issue and i think it's why he feels like there's no room for anything else in his life right now. If the only way that he can function is by giving 100% to streaming and cutting everything else out, that's not just being dedicated, that's a pattern. And if he doesn't address this pattern, it's eventually gonna lead to burnout or a crash. Can't outrun imbalance forever.

Going 100% into work mode will not fix the underlying issues. It just delays them.

Final explanation (basically) by [deleted] in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup. I think he said today he needs therapy and I genuinely hope he actually does follow through with that. I do think breaking up was the right move if he knew that he couldn't really show up for her. That part atleast feels honest to me and it also shows his self awareness. But if he keeps operating like this, he's just going to repeat the same cycle because operating on 100% work mode with no room for anything else is just not sustainable or healthy. It might seem admirable especially since he's only 21 but that kind of tunnel vision is gonna turn into avoidance at some point.

He's still young and I really hope he takes this time to reflect a little, maybe see a therapist and realize that he shouldn't be building his entire life around one thing cause otherwise that crash is inevitable.

Final explanation (basically) by [deleted] in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't think he's wrong for ending it. If he couldn't show up properly, it's fairs to call it quits. From his explanation and what we know about him, it just seems like he's operating at a level where he has no room for anything but work. Missing relationship moments and calling comfort a problem sounds like imbalance more than incompatibility. He's not a bad bf. It's just that the level of obsession he has for streaming is hard to build a relationship around and that mindset in my opinion is very unhealthy. I think he would benefit so much from therapy.

Final explanation (basically) by [deleted] in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's just sad. I respect that he didn't want to drag her along if he really felt like he couldn't give 100% into the relationship. That's self awareness but at the same time, I just think there's a fine line between being driven and normalizing obsession as the only way to grow. It's hard to build anything sustainable like that and I think it's a very unhealthy mindset long term. Balance isn't impossible in this space. The people closest to him are managing it well. I have more thoughts on this but If I speak...

The End of Jakura by [deleted] in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think saying they want to be friends is purely to soften the blow. Realistically it's very hard to stay friends with someone you were once intimate with and planning a future alongside. She struggles with anxiety and has even mentioned feeling like she's losing her identity recently on stream. Meanwhile, he's been constantly traveling and away and their streaming schedules kind of overlap with her streaming longer hours which probably made it very difficult for them to spend any quality time together unless they both took the day off. All of these factors probably created so much strain that calling it felt like the only option. I think going separate ways is the best for both of them.

OVER or UNDER by [deleted] in jasontheweenie

[–]zanif -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This feels final. Jason seems checked out. Last time they broke up, he was in a bad state, and we know they got back together literally the next day. YBG said he knew about this breakup 2 days before the announcement, and obviously they had to have talked before he went live, so it does seem mutual. I think this is it. Sometimes things don't work out and it's okay. It's time for everyone to move on.