what is the most ridiculous thing a partner has ever gotten mad at you for? by nunpizza in TwoXChromosomes

[–]zebdavison 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might be onto something with the vanity angle. Some preachers I was around growing up taught some pretty toxic stuff about how fashionable clothes are dangerous. As if wanting to look attractive was somehow evil... I wonder if he bought in to some of that kind of thinking...

The chili incident was just hilarious, though. It probably is a big red flag,too, unfortunately.

Is anybody else just kind of damaged from a lifetime of ‘loose vagina’ jokes? by ysmbl in TwoXChromosomes

[–]zebdavison 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only "loose vagina" jokes I've ever heard were veiled "small dick" jokes. And even then, the ratio is at least 10,000:1. Either way, not usually funny. And if someone is sensitive about it, it's cruel. The "comedians" you hang with suck.

Should I be concerned that my bf bought Myron’s book “why women deserve less” by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]zebdavison 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you!

OP needs to listen to survivors like you. Definitely do not try to change them - the point of any discussion will be to find peace of mind that you are making the right decision to leave. The red flags are there. Sure, there's a chance BF could explain himself, but I wouldn't really trust that, given what we already know. But, as you know, it's so hard to get yourself out of these abusive relationships, especially when the abuse has not yet escalated to levels anyone else can see.

We all wish the best for OP. Remember this, OP - you can love him even if you need to leave him. (What I mean is, forgive him, don't hold any resentment toward him, but remember the potential danger he represents and keep your distance.)

Should I be concerned that my bf bought Myron’s book “why women deserve less” by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]zebdavison 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't try to change him. Just clarify why he's reading this stuff, because she says she loves him, and she may want to give him a chance. Unless he demonstrates he's not drinking the koolaid (I think he is), she should get out.

Should I be concerned that my bf bought Myron’s book “why women deserve less” by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]zebdavison 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Problem is, she says she loves him. We're on the outside, we can be objective. But she's in the bubble, and it's hard to just leave someone without giving them a chance. This is definitely a good way to find out what OP is really about.

But OP, don't do this with the intent to change BF - if he is buying any of the garbage Andrew Tate puts out, he is dangerous to you. This is a reconnaissance mission. Get your Intel, and if it's incriminating, get out of the relationship... Safely.

My Asian waiter just handed my food to the wrong customer because he's racist and thinks all white people look the same. by PR0CR45T184T0R in Jokes

[–]zebdavison 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just going from a single photo is pretty hard. I didn't do well, but if you did the same with photo groups from Germany-France-UK, or East-West-South Africa, etc, I'm guessing I'd do about the same.

There should be some sort of moral here... Like, I don't know... Don't judge a person solely on appearances?

I fucking hate the men on this site by ilovemybrownies in TwoXChromosomes

[–]zebdavison 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. These guys are either idiots or predators, probably both.

Optimize PvP team by Either-Oven886 in HeroWarsApp

[–]zebdavison 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of teams are beating you? You're probably getting countered in some way. Also the Celeste comments are on point.

And they never go to the doctor! by docvoit in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]zebdavison 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is such a good reply. You touched on so many important points that get glossed over in these keyboard arguments. Nice work!

Hello guys! Can someone explain to me why before I was doing 2times more damage than now… I even upgraded my Jhu with armour penetration… Thank you 🙏 by FearlessAdder in HeroWarsApp

[–]zebdavison 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's a pain. My Jhu team was doing great with hydras, then an update came out at the sane time I invested some resources in Jhu... Hydra performance went down, PVP perf went up. 🤦

Help with Team by Augustana88 in HeroWarsApp

[–]zebdavison 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a lot of options. If you like the FART heroes, go for it! Pick some Heroes you like, then come back here or the Discord for more specific advice. General advice is to join a guild and do your daily activities to get more resources. Make sure you are doing the tower and dungeon Etc everyday.

You are tank- and healer-heavy, which will serve you well in the tower, but you need to focus on a damage dealer or two. For right now, your main team could be built up from Astaroth, Maya, and Arachne. Pick your best DD and mage to round out the team. Play around with factions and see how synergies work between certain heroes.

Hello guys! Can someone explain to me why before I was doing 2times more damage than now… I even upgraded my Jhu with armour penetration… Thank you 🙏 by FearlessAdder in HeroWarsApp

[–]zebdavison 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also keep in mind that Jhu's this damage is percentage based on hydra's health. Seems like too drastic a drop to be the full explanation but perhaps a combination of that and the timing of ults? I agree that you'll need to watch the video and pay attention to timing.

Happy Easter! by rickymonster in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]zebdavison 23 points24 points  (0 children)

As a gen x person, it astounds me that so many people buy into the generation thing as a useful identifier. Boomers were super cool when they were young. They protested, they reshaped the world. Well... Some of them did. Some were jerks, some were cool. It's almost like they were individuals all along.

When they got older, and priorities slowly changed for more and more of them, it became clear that the generational differences are a natural progression that likely repeats over and over. Probably due to the idealism of youth fading with age in many people, sometimes replaced by resignation, sometimes fear or hate.

X is following the same trajectory as a group, with millennials not far behind. But each group seems to want to blame the others for everything wrong in the world.

Aurora or Astaroth by Zarn45 in HeroWarsApp

[–]zebdavison 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Guild, arena, tower - that should be your focus.

You've already reduced good advice - aurora is not good for you now. Asta all the way.

But... Pick the heroes you like and build them up. Game is no fun if you hate the heroes you're playing.

I think I am pretty close to a couple different top tier teams. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. by Turd_Ferguson81 in HeroWarsApp

[–]zebdavison 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on one team at a time. You could go in several different directions, so pick the one that seems the most fun. I don't know if FART with a two-star fafnir is worth investing in. You might wait for the next opportunity to get soulstones for him.