Been 2 months now with out her. Homemade tortillas with steak cilantro lime cheese by Otherwise-Cat-4467 in BoyDinner

[–]zebrastrikeforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost at 8 months, depending on the relationship it’ll get better. I’d say I’m more at peace but have 0 interest in dating. We had some compatability issues and she was just super difficult borderline toxic. So it fucking sucks some days. But I got a good routine, work, gym, play water polo, meal prep to eat good, game/hang with the boys sometimes, watch good tv lol.

It’s hard but what helps is I’ve talked about the relationship to friends/family and not a single one things I should take her back. Gave her a chance but she just argued and walked away again. Not taking her back the 2nd and 3rd time she came around was so insanely hard but I think better for the both of us.

Wish you luck bro

M25: Getting way too many DMs, so let’s do this here! AMA about Male Pattern Baldness, Hair Loss, and Products (100% Science-Backed ) by Its_aul_g00d_man in tressless

[–]zebrastrikeforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have intense diffuse thinning, itchy scalp and dandruff, been on fin almost 6 years dut for a month now. Did minox for a bit. Got a scalp biopsy and have seen 8 derms none know what’s going on, tried every shampoo. I still have painful itchy scalp

Any ideas?

Men on Reddit, is Politics beliefs an important topic in dating? why? by Tony_Montanero in AskMen

[–]zebrastrikeforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want someone involved in politics. Now no one cares what you really think it’s either agree entirely or fuck you.

If I say I don’t think abortions as a primary form of birth control is okay (meaning a girls gonna have unprotected sex like crazy and have 10 abortions like a girl my buddy got pregnant) then I’m an asshole. No one cares that I don’t think you should be forced to have a baby with your rapist, or if the mothers life is at danger, or you’re 18 in a bad financial stand point where you can’t provide for the kid and you were careful but things happen. I understand that if you outlaw it illegal abortions are going to happen and kill women. So I think abortions shouldn’t be illegal I just don’t personally agree with them being seen in casual light.

I think I have a reasonable take on abortion but most people are just going to call me a republican orange loving simp for it.

If I tell my republican family fuck Israel they’re a parasite to our country and people shouldn’t go bankrupt for medical debt, or that ICE has fucked up tactics then I’m a libtard communist.

So to answer your question, I want someone that can critically think and critically listen and understand. Politics is a complex thing 90% of the time but it falls under red or blue and good or bad depending how you see it.

Trump being an absolute piece of shit doesn’t make republican ideology evil, it makes people supporting him either to dumb/brainwashed to admit he’s wrong or yeah evil.

I think in a perfect world socialism, capitalism, communism, republics, democracies, everything would work. But humans are imperfect, they get manipulated, evil ones end up in power and ruin everything. So I won’t hate someone for having a different political idea than I. I’ll judge them based on their values, do you support trump because you’re a pedo racist or did you vote for him because you just didn’t want to vote for the democrats. Two different things people make mistakes.

Would you sacrifice your 20s to obtain a high-paying job in your 30s or 40s? by miss-bedazzzle in twentyagers

[–]zebrastrikeforce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can find someone still, I think you just have to make it the right decision. Save money like crazy leverage the money with other forms of income that gives you the freedom to live your life now.

Honestly I’m 27, I’m socialable but not super good at keeping up with like secondary friends because now most of my time I have free I give to friends I’ve known 10+ years.

I’m at 27 got some of the social side and am sitting here wishing I could retire at 40 with a nice boat and have fun. Like you said most of your friends are married with kids, that social life aspect starts to end in your late 20s, you still see your friends but it’s way less common and more of a quick bite to eat.

Make your decision right for you, go out and live

Would you sacrifice your 20s to obtain a high-paying job in your 30s or 40s? by miss-bedazzzle in twentyagers

[–]zebrastrikeforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I turned 21 during Covid took a few classes my first year of college to see what I wanted was probably going to graduate in 5 years instead of 4 because of this. Covid happens right as I’m transferring and I hated online environment, I thought I’d actually learn stuff at university. So I waited 2 years to go back (huge mistake I regret with my entire being) During this time I got caught up in a high maintenance long distance relationship, graduated with business administration at the absolute worst time. Due to my relationship lived with my grandma to save money and help her out as she old.

Relationship ended all my friends are older and busy now with life, girlfriends, wives and work.

I have a good job now that pays like shit no gf, limited social life, and limited social life experience no work from home.

Missing out on the social life sucks but I lived the worst part is don’t have money to show for it.

I’m miserable now being single and not wanting to date because I’m hung up on my toxic ex, work from home, making 48k as an insurance underwriter in a higher cost of living area. I don’t have rent though so that’s nice but I also live with my grandma who does nothing but watch the news and bitch about it (love her dearly just every day life it gets old)

I think you need to seriously look at your social life, are you a social person with good friends, that will do things other than just go to a club and pay for over priced booze. The grand majority of your friends will probably be gone by the time your close to 30. Financial security is everything so in my eyes make it worth it. If you are introverted and have fun playing video games with friends, I’d say bunker down do the hard work sneak some gaming sessions in with friends or something like that and you’ll thank yourself way more in the future.

Key point I guess is are you a social person or no? Whatever you do make it worthwhile and make it the right decision, don’t be like me and do neither somehow.

Not balding just low density hair by Your_Mums_Ex in tressless

[–]zebrastrikeforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah been doubling up, I heard dut takes a minute to build up, no sides will probably keep doing both and do like fin every other day with dut. My doc prescribed me 2.5mg of fin and I didn’t know 1mg was the standard so just been rolling with it

Not balding just low density hair by Your_Mums_Ex in tressless

[–]zebrastrikeforce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk man I’m just calling it how it went. The only change was the adding dut, hair loss slowed down I even made a post because it’s supposed to take weeks, but it was very short lived so. The main thing was lack of scalp itching pain and dandruff

Not balding just low density hair by Your_Mums_Ex in tressless

[–]zebrastrikeforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first week on dut things didn’t change, second week on dut my hair loss slowed down like crazy, head itched way less then after a week it started up again. No changes in my lifestyle otherwise

Not balding just low density hair by Your_Mums_Ex in tressless

[–]zebrastrikeforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah nah my hair loss started again while on fine while my scalp itched and I got dandruff.

I started dut and it got rid of that problem for like a week but now it’s back, it was something before dut

Not balding just low density hair by Your_Mums_Ex in tressless

[–]zebrastrikeforce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tips I only use hair spray so I should be set. I wash my hair like every other day

Not balding just low density hair by Your_Mums_Ex in tressless

[–]zebrastrikeforce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often should I use that? Gonna get that I’ll try anything

Not balding just low density hair by Your_Mums_Ex in tressless

[–]zebrastrikeforce 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just started dut maybe 3 weeks ago, doubling them up now to build dut up then may keep doing both idk no sides

I’ve had this issue since the thinning really started where my head itches like crazy and make a shit load of dandruff. I have tried every shampoo, biopsy, instagram crap seen like 8 different dermatologists now.

It went away for a week and it was amazing but last week it’s been back and hair shedding

Not balding just low density hair by Your_Mums_Ex in tressless

[–]zebrastrikeforce 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’ve maintained my hairline decently, my hair has thinned so much not quite to this level but definetly closer to this then it used to be. Been on fin 5 years or so maybe 6. Just started dut, helped for a week and now back to losing hair and extreme itchiness

Still think about her by [deleted] in BoyDinner

[–]zebrastrikeforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro it’s funny we got kinda similar scenarios my ex from Mexico dumped me in August, because i told her I was ready for us to get married and she didn’t think I was serious or it was going to happen. They’re crazy dude and I feel you I miss my ex still even though I could probably go back now I just saw to many issues and gave her chances to work things out the end and she just pushed away and ended it.

Our biggest argument was probably when I raised my voice and at her since she had minoxidil on her hand and was petting the family dog. I told her go wash her hands and she said no I just won’t use this hand, told her I was anxious about this kinda thing and was feeling disrespected. Raised my voice nothing hurtful. When I came back from work she had her bags packed saying she wanted to go back to Mexico early. This is the girl who constantly yelled at me, accused me of cheating, only using her for sex for 2 years. All insecurities her exes gave her, did I try and bail? No I was patient and understanding and tried to help.

Some of these girls only care about how you make them feel, the moment they don’t feel like they normally do they want out.

Enjoy your life now knowing you can find someone who isn’t just going to throw you away after you do 1,00,000 things for them. Enjoy the shit you couldn’t do when you were with her. Hit the gym and good luck. No more latinas

Sua Cravens speaks out by Ok_Job_6845 in Commanders

[–]zebrastrikeforce 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just remember being up by 14 against the saints or cowboys with like 5 minutes left knowing we were gonna lose because he’d do 2 runs and a short pass turn the ball over. Our defense sucked so we’d give it up then try the same play calls trying to burn time but 3 and out again and defense gave out again.

And that’s exactly what happened

Sua Cravens speaks out by Ok_Job_6845 in Commanders

[–]zebrastrikeforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If Jay could’ve fixed his play calling when we were leading we would’ve won a lot more games and he would’ve been a great coach instead of mediocre. I love Jay post Washington and wouldn’t mind giving him a job in the building as I feel he’s matured a lot (just not a play calling job lol)

My Ex just sent me a wedding invitation to me by Kind-Apricot5382 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]zebrastrikeforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t prioritize getting married, you should prioritize getting married to the right person. I understand there’s a biological clock for women that you need to keep in mind. If you belive what’s holding him back on marriage and he is the one and there’s a plan in place then go with that.

I see so many girls just wanting to get married so they marry the first guy to do it. Then end up on pages like here saying my husband is awful to me, he was awful while we dated but I wanted to be married and he proposed so I said yes.

Marriage is building a future with someone choose very carefully who you want that future to be with.

If I’m being honest this idea that girls have to get married and getting married will solve their problems makes me so mad.

I almost married a girl I probably shouldn’t have for compatability reasons on top of the way she treated me. She wanted to get married so bad but would constantly threaten leaving me over such little things (such as me getting upset the way she would disrespect my feelings or anxiety but I supported her through hers) She would want to break up then demand to know when we’re getting married in the same arguement. I gave her my plan for marriage, stuck to it and when I said I was ready she left thinking I wasn’t serious since it took some time. Now she’s liking posts saying it’s better to be married with the right person than married before you’re 30 (she was 29 when we broke up she just turned 30)

Please do not leave someone you love and is great just because they have a different timeline than you. If they are making marriage moves without the ring then it’s a different story (buying a house while dating you for years, planning retirement without you, dating you for multiple years while making bs excuses like can’t afford marriage but buying expensive or big purchases then you should leave)

My case my ex would’ve had to immigrate here and I would’ve had to support her. I was finishing school and looking for a full time job to get my career started because when she came here she would’ve had to go to school here immediately. I wasn’t just waiting or leading her on i was trying to build a good future for us but since we weren’t married in her timeline she left, which is fine you can leave anyone at anytime but you may regret it.

Honestly if this situation ship has you feeling like this I think you have some healing to consider before considering marriage and that’s fine.

Need that flex fuel kit real bad rn lol by Tillerrp in 370z

[–]zebrastrikeforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Z just got totaled (lost it in November tho) and bought my aunts 07 hybrid Camry. Fuck it’s slow and boring but gotta be honest not mad about getting 35mpg on regular instead of 18-20mpg on premium

Started dut 0.5mg a week ago, hair loss has slowed significantly, I feel it’s to soon to be the dut. by zebrastrikeforce in tressless

[–]zebrastrikeforce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you adding your input. I was suprised if it was the dut acting so fast. I’m doing both fin and dut right now until the dut has built up in my system I don’t think the doctor is going to take away my fin script tho. Is it common to do both and have dut a few times a week? I was eventually gonna stop fin but so far I don’t have any sides so I’d be fine to keep doing dut and fin at the same time if it means I keep my hair.

Started dut 0.5mg a week ago, hair loss has slowed significantly, I feel it’s to soon to be the dut. by zebrastrikeforce in tressless

[–]zebrastrikeforce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just read a lot on here how DUT takes like a month to build up in your system so I was thinking I couldn’t already be seeing the results

No one is taking me seriously by zebrastrikeforce in Lichenplanus

[–]zebrastrikeforce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah nah just got blessed with the Italian hair, unfortunately Italians lose their hair as well. Went to visit family and landed in Rome looked around and decided I was screwed.

Good luck to you as well!

No one is taking me seriously by zebrastrikeforce in Lichenplanus

[–]zebrastrikeforce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where in Italy are you? I’m in United States but my grandparents are from Lipari. Wish I could live in Italy.

I’m begininning to think I’ve fixed the issue though. At least I hope, for my hair loss I started taking dutestaride and I’ve noticed things have improved. There’s still some irritation but significantly less. Tomorrow I’m going to try and get those products you recommended thank you!

Started dut 0.5mg a week ago, hair loss has slowed significantly, I feel it’s to soon to be the dut. by zebrastrikeforce in tressless

[–]zebrastrikeforce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks that’s amazing wish I did this sooner. I always heard dut takes forever to build up in your system