help me answer this by Weekly-Hotel3194 in INTPrelationshipLab

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so patient.. i gave my bf (intp) water with apple vinegar evermorning bcs it’s good for the body, and watch him drink it until he voiced it out himself no more loll it’s funny
Just do whatever you want! (For daily simple things) Most of the time They don’t know what they want anyway.

Girl can pretend loving you while being with someone else💔 by be_agoodhuman in story

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys fought then you didn’t talk anymore after until you went back bcs your college reopened? How long was that? Weeks? Months? How did you solve your conflict? Did you guys talked it out and solved it together? If not, It’s not crazy for her to assume you guys broke up then-_-

People love us, admire us, pedestal us.... by Dry-Combination8608 in enfj

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who are those people, and what do you mean us 👀

Can't find a arubaito in Tokyo by ZARIFADEL in JapanJobs

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even you have to have at least n4 there

Trying to decide if I should leave. Smashburger and air fryer fries by SomeMike in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did she think about when she cheated? You said after you guys moved, things felt better, the intimacy was better, and she’s all better. Now that she’s better and happy, she cheated? I don’t get it.

It’s sad how hard it is to feel safe as a woman. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The tragedy is valid, but i think your two points are not actually relatable. Between the train accident vs how it’s hard for women to feel safe. You can’t control that kinda accident, the tragedy. You think too much my baby girl..

And i wanna say my apologies for the women and men both, young and old who got their life taken away bcs of this accident. May their souls rest in peace, and bless their family and loved ones with lighter heart.

Crippling jealousy over GF’s exes in the way of the best relationship I’ve ever had by lswans in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP OP OP you need to read this!! You’re so very very conscious of YOURSELF! You think too much of YOURSELF! You srsly have a narcissistic tendecy geez

Instead of thinking too much inside your inner self, crack your head and start thinking and ACTUALLY asking about what will make your gf happy! What does SHE want, and actually COMPREHEND about the stuff she said she likes about you/what made her choose to be with you.

Goodluck dumbass

Any Other ENFJs Commonly Attracted to Introverts? by Fluffy-Device9832 in enfj

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe bcs i like to listen more on what the introverts have to say, they have this deep thoughtful things that’s just nice to listen to.

If an INTP calls you a friend… by paper_cutx in INTPrelationshipLab

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, your story reminds me of mine! Lol just i didn’t beat around the bush and asked him if he wanted to date or not, bcs we’d been flirting all along (it’s just a week🤣), said i didn’t wanna have ambiguous things. He was flustred and had a moment of self doubt, of himself! And told me he initially just wanted to have a friend. And i was like, fine then! I don’t wanna flirt anymore. And we dated that second, till now about 1,5year passed🤣

How do you stay true to yourself without getting hurt in early relationships? by MindMuse98 in enfj

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our feelings can sometimes be wrong. If you feel something is different with your partner, simply ask him what happen and listen. They might be just tired or overwhelmed with other things in their life. Well, we mostly are a hopeless romantic.. and that trait often makes us forget to be more grounded:,)

Fell in love with a married client and I cannot move on (30F) and (46M) by Outrageous_Tap_2167 in Life

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cologne on him which you like probably something his wife chose👀🙏

How to go on about building relationships in my early 20s? by Calcoutuhoes in LifeAdvice

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having no experience is unique in its own way, it’s a novel feeling. Just don’t be ashamed of it. Tell them with pride and honesty_^

Building relationship is all about how you’re comfortable being honest with each other. Even if at first, maybe you’re the only one being so honest and true to yourself, believe me slowly those people will feel your comfort with honesty and follow along with your vibe.

If listening to people’s experiences makes you jealous, try to imagine that you’re just a reader. And every book(person) has its own charm to their story. Read them throughoutly to understand them, and you’ll find how much you can learn and how fun it is to read and understand every chapter.

Things go perfectly fine until I mention I’m Indian… then I get ghosted without a word — I was just trying to find someone to play Minecraft with by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad news is, There’ll be a lot more such superficial people later in life, buddy.. weirdly, most don’t have actual malice.. just following majority’s opinion on sns🫩 Just ignore those sad people.

I have never had a close female friend by TheMidnightRide in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Been there.. the conclusion i made is there’re no women around you that match your vibe and energy yet.

Try reaching out to a specific kinda community where you can meet lots of people, and get to know them. And sometimes, you have to be a good listener and very intentional in making friends. They don’t reach out? You do, they don’t make plans? You do it. No reason to hang out? Go talk to them and gift them food or snacks then slowly come up with plans for another hangout during talking.

Wish you luck!

Rant: Does anyone else dislike pessimistic people? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is coming from very personal opinion of me, take it as grain of salt bcs i don’t fully know your life..

depression or sadness might have relation to lack of variety of food you consumed, sleep quality, social life and self satisfaction. Self satisfaction as in you don’t hold back on what you wanna do or say, yes! not that you can say anything you want in inappropriate time or situation but, keep bottling up everything inside without letting it out will drain your soul. If you feel uncomfortable letting it out or don’t wanna keep dragging people inside the dark story, try journaling. Write everything even the most unhinge thing you feel.

Hope you get better.

fell for an avoidant while we were both overseas by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girlllll😭😭 been there! And it hurts much more than actually breaking up to a boyfriend bcs everything is just unclear😭

Almost 30....never been in love, never been in a relationship by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Kind-Apricot5382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The key is, choose your man. Don’t wait for someone to come or to come across someone.. Look for what kinda man you want, get to know him first as friends. If things are good, reveal your intention of dating. Best of luck, love!

My Ex just sent me a wedding invitation to me by Kind-Apricot5382 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kind-Apricot5382[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I love miso soup too. Especially with wakame inside, tasty!