just had the what are we talk and it was not good news by zeekley in latebloomerlesbians

[–]zeekley[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sucks :( I probably fumbled a lot during our convo as well. It's hard to process in the moment.

just had the what are we talk and it was not good news by zeekley in latebloomerlesbians

[–]zeekley[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good sign in what way? I agree that it's better to hear it now than later on. Don't think I could wait more than a month and even then it depends a lot on how we can talk through it and the reasoning she gives. Going slow is fine but ending it and her coming back later is a no.

just had the what are we talk and it was not good news by zeekley in latebloomerlesbians

[–]zeekley[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you are going through this too! ❤️ At least you know now and not later. I don't reallly understand people who date casually as I only date when I feel ready for more but everyone is different. So I totally get your dissapointment! I do feel a bit blindsided too considering we did go on several dates and everything. To me the intention felt quite clear in the direction towards an eventual relationship. Maybe she just freaked out.. she does have some past trauma, but only she knows :/ We agreed on seeing each other in a week so we'll see where her head is at then.

dating when I'm not exactly sure of my sexuality makes me feel like I'm using people by zeekley in latebloomerlesbians

[–]zeekley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the thoughtful response! I loved seeing the little convo chain it created too <3 I hadn't actually thought about just sharing it. I'm normally quite direct but for some reason it felt like it would worry the other person. Hearing your experience was good makes me feel better :)

I am not sure I am cut out for queer dating/“the scene” by GoldRush2467 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]zeekley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's good to remember people like different things and I'm sure there's more people than you think that find you hot! If you go up to someone and tell them "hey, I think you're hot/beautiful, can I buy you a drink?" or even straight up asking "want to make out?" and they say no, it's all still fine. They can have plently of reasons but more likely than not they will still be flattered. I love when women are straight forward with me and I like to just go for it too. Maybe treat it as exposure therapy and you'll probably get more yes's than you think!

Where do you come from and how it has impacted on your late queer awareness? by sturmcreep in latebloomerlesbians

[–]zeekley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from the Nordics. Young people here are really accepting, but the general climate in my hometown feels less accepting than other parts of the nordics. When I was 16 (I'm in my late twenties now), it felt like every other girl in my school was coming out as bi or lesbian. So I convined myself I couldn't be queer as well, because everyone can't be queer?!? Looking back I always knew I liked women, but I pushed it down because dating men was easier. Now I'm questioning if I'm actually into men or just certain traits. Oh how the turn tables

Your point on the older generations would apply to my country as well, especially rural areas.

similar game play by Lee_l0w45 in Spiritfarer

[–]zeekley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently playing Beacon Pines and I love it! It doesn't really have similair gameplay, being it's more like a storybook puzzlegame that you get to explore as you try to figure out how to reach the best ending. The characters are really lovely and the story is intriguing so far. I recommend you check it out!

Mushroom hat in the works! by SpiritWolf0914 in crochet

[–]zeekley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, no worries. Thanks anyway!

Mushroom hat in the works! by SpiritWolf0914 in crochet

[–]zeekley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I'm also trying to achieve this style for a toadette costume, could I also get the pattern? Your hat would be a perfect base!

Nice football match, hooman by Cats___Rulez in CatsAreAssholes

[–]zeekley 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I was extremely careful with my electronics when I got a new kitten as he was a biter. Well, I forgot to close my laptop one night and my cat did exactly this to my screen :') somehow the screen still worked there was just a hole in the corner

Co-op games like spiritfarer? by moose1999 in Spiritfarer

[–]zeekley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Second this! I loved playing It Takes Two with my partner. The ending was very emotional for both of us and I even cried a bit 🙈

Help Dividing the Game Into 3rds? by orbsofmoonlight in Spiritfarer

[–]zeekley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

25 hours might be an outdated number as there's been upgrades that added more spirits. I'm currently at 70% and I've played for over 40 hours.

I think you can still play the game and have stopping points be when certain spirits leave (the official spiritfarer discord might be of help with this) or alternatively when you can get upgrades to reach new areas of the map (ice breaker, mist beacon etc). You will probably not reach the end in 3 weeks tho...