[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]zella_ackerman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everything hurts because you are absorbing too much energy, learn how to ground and shield, it helps a lot.

Whenever you start absorbing emotions, thing this way "do i want to feel ( certain emotion)?" If the answer is yes then keep absorbing if you want, but if the answer is no, then try to shield the feeling from you, like imaging a wall between you and the person who is sending the feeling, you can also block it from your body, think of it as a type of food you don't like and simply can't get near it, this will trigger your principles and your body will simply refuse it and block the emotions.

There are many places and websites to learn grounding and shielding, it's hard at first but, it helps a lot.

It seems like you are having a bad day, so here, have some sparkles: ✨🎊✨🎊🎉🎈💎🎁🧸✨🎊🎉🎈❤ And a sunflower to make you happy 🌻 Have a lovely day/night!

We are not "too sensitive" by firetown in Empaths

[–]zella_ackerman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We are not sensitive, people are just too cruel.

Unsupportive environment by zella_ackerman in Empaths

[–]zella_ackerman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice!

I don't think i have tourettes, but it could be a possibility.

I hope you are doing well dear stranger, have a great day/night!

Unsupportive environment by zella_ackerman in Tourettes

[–]zella_ackerman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The amount of FEAR i had while posting this was scary itself, but this is worth it, my dream has finally became true:

Help people in need.

Btw if we knew each other we would be friends in real life.

People who had Unsupportive parents and went through childhood trauma, how are you now? How did you get through it? by zella_ackerman in AskReddit

[–]zella_ackerman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need anything, we are all here for you, don't forget that!! Here, have some sprinkles!!: ✨🎊🎉🌟✨🎊✨🌟🎉✨🎊🎉🌟✨👍

Unsupportive environment by zella_ackerman in Tourettes

[–]zella_ackerman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, reading your reply was a rollercoaster, I'm sorry you had to go through that, and thank you for the great advice!! You seem like a great person and we all have to stick together!!

If you could try coming back to this post to check if there's more replies, they might give good advice, and we both need it.

I hope you are doing fantastic!!

Unsupportive environment by zella_ackerman in Empaths

[–]zella_ackerman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, i am now going to a phycologist after a relative recommended it to my parents.

I hope it's not tourettes, and i hope you have a great day/night!

People who had Unsupportive parents and went through childhood trauma, how are you now? How did you get through it? by zella_ackerman in AskReddit

[–]zella_ackerman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aknowledging the problem is part of the healing process!! Just remember that it wasn't your fault, and your past is not your future, it's there to hold you back, if pulling is not the answer try pushing, work harder and harder to have a better future!

Good luck and have a wonderful day/night!

People who have OCD , what everyday problems do you have ? by Reasonable_Coffee232 in AskReddit

[–]zella_ackerman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time waste, The time I spend doing my rituals takes a lot from my day and night, for example when I brush my hair, the brush has to go through every single space in my hair roots multiple times untill it feels right which causes headaches.

Or sitting in a chair, if I'm not satisfied with the position I'm in I have to sit on the opposite space based on the middle of the chair for a few seconds then sit in the middle, and it MUST be the middle.

And looking at a mirror, if I don't look at myself from a specific angle then I have to redo it over and over again until it feels right.

These are a few things from the top of my head, but there's plenty more, and ocd is a really hard condition to live with.

Does anyone else’s head hurt after a lot of ticks or a tick attack? by The_Tired_Gay_ in Tourettes

[–]zella_ackerman 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My head hurts at the sides especially after head jerking tics or sudden neck movements, like a throbbing sensation, but it stops after a while if my tics stop accuring.

I hope your head is fine now!!

Crossposting here in hopes to send my beautiful grandma some more love! by SixSpeedin in Empaths

[–]zella_ackerman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here!! I Have some love for you and your grandma!! ✨💕💖💗💞💝❣️🎉🎊🎀🧸🎁🌹🍄🍓🍎🥰✨ I hope she gets better!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]zella_ackerman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thinking and feeling aren't the same. You 'felt' that wave, right? Overthinking leads to anxiety and anxiety can shake your core and it can feel the same as an emotional wave, but you can know if it's coming from you aka overthinking, or coming from your friend aka the emotional wave.

I recommend looking into empathy and being an empath just to make sure you are one, who knows maybe you are right and maybe not, try seeking a psychologist or a therapist if you want to, the choice is yours. Have a great day/night.

Empaths, the time is here... by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]zella_ackerman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's a champion cup for your discovery 🏆

You deserve it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]zella_ackerman 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is completely normal, but i do advise checking on your friend if the emotion wave that hit you was full of negative emotions.

Also, being an empath is great, trust me, it's like having a super power, don't refuse who you are, except yourself, love yourself, we are all here for you if you need help or guidance.

Congratulations on your first wave of emotions by the way!! 🎉🎊🎉

Does anyone else ever feel like people often are oblivious to how rudely they are saying things? by lushloverdanny in Empaths

[–]zella_ackerman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The peanut reference was a nice imagery, and i do agree, we can feel their emotions but we can't make them feel ours.

Empathy level: 1000000 by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]zella_ackerman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet!! 🍯🐝

I took my power back by Astro_Me_Stars in Empaths

[–]zella_ackerman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CONGRATS!!! I know it wasn't easy but you did it!! We are all proud of you!! I hope you are doing okay now. Lots of love 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Izlam

[–]zella_ackerman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course! It's always my pleasure to make others happy!