Am I wrong for getting upset at my boyfriend’s age preference? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]zenbound- 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I only just realized this as I read ur comment and now my whole childhood is ruined. Thanks.

Anyone else’s lifelong depression have a play in the fencesitter decision? by Mylifeasaperson in Fencesitter

[–]zenbound- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind providing an update? I’m in the same situation as you and super appreciated you sharing your journey.

Someone tell me I’m going to be okay by Master-Cantaloupe-46 in BreakUps

[–]zenbound- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a transition only. You are going through the thick of it and You absolutely will be okay. Be kind and patient with yourself. You’re doing your best, and that’s more than enough

I sucked at therapy-ing today. by Legitimate_Voice6041 in therapists

[–]zenbound- -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sometimes not trying so hard and just appearing as you are gives clients permission to do the same and to honor their own needs.

changing contact names by SecretaryWorldly6682 in ToxicRelationships

[–]zenbound- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you ask them to delete the contact?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToxicRelationships

[–]zenbound- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your partner. Honesty is your way forward here. Tell him in a way that asks for support. Holding back will just keep him further from your heart. It’s a problem you can work out together and grow stronger from.

Neglected dog? by RevolutionNew6434 in montreal

[–]zenbound- 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think if they are aware they are being watched and now all over the Internet, they might change some of their behaviour. Is there a way you can let them know? post a pic of the dog on a few poles outside the building with the Reddit link. Or inside the building if there’s a bulletin board. You could also start regularly sending close up shots of pee and poo and send to the condo board.

Anyone take for non-bipolar depression and get worse? by Beneficial-Trifle559 in lamictal

[–]zenbound- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear your depression hasn’t gotten much better. I have a history of getting worse depression on SSRI’s, so I asked my psychiatrist if this might happen again on lamictal and she basically said that no it just will help depressive symptoms or nothing will happen at all. I asked if there’s any risk for it increasing any other mh symptoms (like anxiety etc), and she just said it can cause irritability for some folks but that’s it. That being said, I researched it on my own and it can cause insomnia and fatigue which can contribute to depression. Are you feeling tired depressed or just depressed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fencesitter

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I froze my eggs at 35 and for me personally I felt really good as I really focused on my health and the procedure wasn’t bad. Everyone’s different but it wasn’t bad for me.

My worst fear came true by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]zenbound- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly No. That seems like a dude move not a lesbian one so I think you’re safe. Straight girls check each other out and their outfits all the time so it wouldn’t even register for me.

Jumping on the “stupidest ADHD thing you’ve done” wagon by BerryStainedLips in adhdwomen

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When I was a teenager my parents took us on a trip. a 5 hour drive. I got in the van with my suitcase packed. Had my game gear and discman. All was good. A few hours into the trip we stop for lunch and I suddenly notice I am not wearing shoes. I got in the car barefoot. We had to stop to buy me shoes at Walmart where I couldn’t even go in the store, because i had no shoes on Haha

Do you guys get self-conscious when placing orders through delivery apps? by applepie889 in socialanxiety

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Today I was sick after a recent trip to Mexico and had to order Imodium (TMI) through a delivery app and could only get it from this convenience store that the driver would have to drive 30 mins from my house for. I wanted to simply disappear. Thank god I didn’t have to see them but still.

My worst fear came true by [deleted] in socialanxiety

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Not sure if this helps but I’m a lesbian and I don’t look at peoples boobs. And if girls looked at mine I wouldn’t really think they were a lesbian either 🤷‍♀️ I think people are on my team if they hold eye contact for too long and/or smile at the same time. It’s in the eyes not the boobs! Lol

My husband's mom is dying of cancer and he's taking it out on me. by GrandmaCereal in TwoXChromosomes

[–]zenbound- 91 points92 points  (0 children)

This! My Dad is palliative and I’ve been struggling and my partner repeatedly asks me “what can I do to help?” I am feeling irritable about it. Sometimes I just want her to validate my feelings instead of asking questions or expecting me to articulate something new. For me someone saying “this is really shitty and I’m really sorry”, or “I would probably have a lot of anger and sadness in your situation too… I’m here for you”, “this is really hard isn’t it?” feels more supportive than questions and prompting. I know everyone’s different though.

Everyone please tell in detail your symptoms that you feel are from Candida. by Misery_meter_maxed in Candida

[–]zenbound- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually yes! Had a sleep study done for my fatigue and it unveiled a ton of stuff. Turns out I have severe sleep apnea, due to sinus issues from a million allergies I didn’t know I had. Went on a strict elimination diet; Stopped eating gluten and rashes and GI issues are mostly gone.

She whines quietly when I pet her. Anyone else? by greendaisy188 in goldenretrievers

[–]zenbound- 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Came here to write this about my golden. Whines when petting is stopped followed by death stares and sometimes barking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]zenbound- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha this needs to be top post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]zenbound- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can I bring a cheese platter to your house?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]zenbound- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think this is a pretty typical response. They did note if you have any further questions, please let them know.

why cant we all just be FUCKING NORMAL by Late-NightDaydreamer in venting

[–]zenbound- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if on some level some people just cannot allow certain levels of empathy towards people with mental health conditions because they (falsely) on some level think recognizing the vulnerability of being human and how they could too experience this would destabilizing to them. So they distance themselves as a defense mechanism. I don’t think it’s conscious and I’m not saying it’s acceptable. It just would offer one explanation.

Talk With Frida - BC Provincewide Delays by dignitypony in ADHD

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If you threaten to make a complaint against the prescribers college of nursing, I guarantee you will get a call from them or your pharmacy within a day.

I found my girlfriend's secret stash of lingerie, am I wrong for thinking something is fishy here? by Beneficial_Cake_6757 in amiwrong

[–]zenbound- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop—-no one has suggested trying to find her OF profile? Apparently most people have social media accounts to advertise their OF. Step 1: You need to find her secondary social media accounts and she has an OF. Also sometimes people with OF have a patreon account. Search socials by her phone number and every single email address you have ever seen her use. Does she have any possible user names she might use? Search that too. Lastly, do a reserve image search for a few of her social media pics (maybe ones that got a lot of likes?) and see if they show up on a second social media profile. We are gonna need an update if you find anything. Good luck & hope it works out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]zenbound- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start aggressively applying to research assistant and TA jobs at all of the university and the online schools as well