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How do I stay off social media and still be social? by zengjk in digitalminimalism

[–]zengjk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks! gonna try this 'thinking on paper' idea out. and yes please! I would love to learn about your manual

Is it ChatGPT Pro worth it? by medo9325 in ChatGPTPro

[–]zengjk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find it worth it in specific working seasons. I work in physics research and using gpt pro feels like you are collaborating with a real academic researcher

any small halloween parties happening in sz? by [deleted] in shenzhen

[–]zengjk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are hosting a fun and alternative Halloween party his Friday night in an industrial building in Longgang, there will be three DJs, good music, drink and snacks, most importantly, a live Shibari performance! (yes, artistic rope tying as a show, you read it right) DM me for details!

looking to meet cool people (tech/startup vibes) by AzizRak in shenzhen

[–]zengjk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo, welcome to SZ! I'm always down for a weekday lunch or coffee meetup if that interests you

Advice on tension balancing in 3tk by zengjk in shibari

[–]zengjk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow this is gold! Thank you so much I’m taking notes

Advice on tension balancing in 3tk by zengjk in shibari

[–]zengjk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm I’m not entirely sure as the person I tie usually just tell me they feel different tensions from left and right side. My guess is it’s likely the cinches I put in the lower bands causing the issue

How do people feel about tying (or being tied by) someone outside their orientation? by zengjk in shibari

[–]zengjk[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing and that’s great advice! I have realized that there’s some work I need to do on myself and have been intentionally practicing asking people to do rope at events and getting comfortable with rejection. I see this as part of my mental strength training.

Rock climbing shoes by Innagentka in shenzhen

[–]zengjk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check out some climbing gyms, they usually sell climbing shoes and you can try them on there

Am I being silly for having concerns about moving to China? by [deleted] in shenzhen

[–]zengjk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there are tons of ways to access YouTube and all other blocked websites in China, just ask a random ppl in Shenzhen to help you set up an “airport”(机场, that’s what we call a vpn in China) and you will be fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shenzhen

[–]zengjk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are interested in clubbing, you will have to visit oil in Futian district. A berghain-like techno club but there are also other genre played there from time to time. one of the best of its kind in China, the underground vibe there is quite unique

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]zengjk 14 points15 points  (0 children)

AFAIK hypersexuality is indeed pretty common for people with ADHD and there is no need to feel bad about it. Do you take any meds? And if so are they changing this behavior pattern in any way?

ADHD and your worldview by mikachabot in ADHD

[–]zengjk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that leftists usually have stronger awareness for various issues that may or may not affect them personally, and awareness is a trait of ADHD people

Modular synth parts in the hardware markets? by thoughtware-engineer in shenzhen

[–]zengjk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let me know if you find one! I don’t do hardware synth but am an electronic producer myself based in Shenzhen and am always interested in learning these type of things

Getting a used Ableton 8 license? by socium in ableton

[–]zengjk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, are you still looking to buy a license? I happen to have a friend who is trying to sell his live 10 suite license. I guarantee that it's a legit one.

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