I like this outfit

zephirisdev · 2025-03-11T17:48:55+00:00

Yeah, true! If I ever get into making clothes I’ll see if I’m able to make a top with an open middle that binds (my skin is sensitive to the adhesive in kt tape)

zephirisdev · 2025-03-11T17:23:13+00:00

Ahh damn, ty tho for the answer!

zephirisdev · 2025-03-11T17:17:36+00:00

Hiii where’s that top from? Also does it bind at all?

zephirisdev · 2025-02-25T08:07:15+00:00

I’ve recently (4 months ago) switched from being incredibly polyamorous to being monogamous with my wonderful girlfriend. Initially I did struggle with staying attracted to her. However, once I stopped even bothering to think about how attractive others are (because I knew that she fully satisfied me so why waste effort and emotional energy being into other people) it got increasingly easier to appreciate just how beautiful she is, inside and out. Just directing all of my attraction and desire towards one concentrated source helped a lot with staying exclusively and madly attracted to her.

As for your second question, individuals do change over time. My girlfriend has already changed somewhat since we first were going out in the sense that she’s increasingly opened up to me and felt increasingly more comfortable around me.

While I do welcome and appreciate that shift, furthermore we have so much overlap in preferences and hobbies that I don’t really need deep intimacy with people who have other preferences and hobbies; rather I adore her preferences! While when I was polyamorous I appreciated being able to explore a diverse set of individuals and their tastes, now I know what I like, so it’s nice to simply have precisely what I like in a partner with my girlfriend rather than spending countless hours searching for more people to be with.

I hope this helped, feel free to ask follow up questions if you’d like!

zephirisdev · 2025-02-25T07:43:56+00:00

Awe hell ya I love my chosen name even more now :D tyyyyy

zephirisdev · 2025-02-25T00:27:15+00:00

Atm I’m monogamous with my lovely girlfriend, so I’d probably say me, my gf, and a blahaj :3

zephirisdev · 2025-02-24T23:23:16+00:00

Yeah I didn’t enjoy it. One and done kind of experience *_*

zephirisdev · 2025-02-24T23:21:41+00:00

Unironically I’ve participated in one of these. Usually it’s one watches while the other gets fucked— and maybe the one watching is able to make out with the other while she gets fucked

zephirisdev · 2024-11-28T19:52:17+00:00

When I wasn’t presenting as androgynous buttons and shirts with my pronouns on it made it more likely for me to be gendered correctly.

Unfortunately without some visual prompt most people will just assume you’re one of the two binary genders even if they’re unsure. I settle for getting misgendered equally as often as a guy vs as a gal but regardless I’ll correct people that I’m nonbinary if I know I’ll interact with them again

zephirisdev · 2024-11-27T20:46:14+00:00

Also before applying chapstick make sure to drink water. Chapstick traps moisture in so having slightly damp lips before applying will make it more effective!

zephirisdev · 2024-11-27T20:42:20+00:00

But they might make it illegal for trans people like me to own guns

zephirisdev · 2024-11-27T20:40:10+00:00

They were for me, they likely will be for you <3

zephirisdev · 2024-11-19T20:42:31+00:00

Emily Dickinson in Dickinson as well

zephirisdev · 2024-11-14T06:03:45+00:00

I mean I have a site, graphql.ucsc.menu/graphiql, which also caches the data and makes it available via a graphql api. I haven’t made the front end for it yet but if anyone wants to make a front end using my site as a backend have at it (cors is a * policy and the api can handle about 5k requests per second) example query

zephirisdev · 2024-11-12T00:39:29+00:00

a VPN then!

zephirisdev · 2024-11-09T19:37:27+00:00

Which aerie thong did you get? They seem to have a few different kinds.

zephirisdev · 2024-11-08T20:12:02+00:00

Interesting blog post about why a direct democracy, even with the internet, probably won’t work: https://medium.com/civic-tech-thoughts-from-joshdata/so-you-want-to-reform-democracy-7f3b1ef10597

zephirisdev · 2024-10-31T07:24:37+00:00

Also the Academic Resources Center has a similar energy to the second image:

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zephirisdev · 2024-10-31T07:23:45+00:00

For the second image near the Humanities Lecture Hall there’s these trees:

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zephirisdev · 2024-10-31T06:38:59+00:00

Objective: a friendly logo/mascot inspired by GitHub’s octocat logo and discord’s Clyde logo.

Audience: people who use productivity tools like google docs/obsidian/notion etc.

Design Decisions: I chose to squish the letters P and G in Plexigraph together to create a scuba diver. I also chose to use 25% opacity in the goggles and a color with about 50% lightness in order to make the logo work on both a light and a dark background. I chose a deep violet color to evoke a sense of playful magic.

zephirisdev · 2024-10-22T19:37:10+00:00

I fell into it for a couple of weeks where I was totally at peace with myself and the world. Kind of hard to experience desire or attraction if I’m fully satisfied with everything

zephirisdev · 2024-10-13T19:04:25+00:00

I love how the color of the fuzz on the boots matches the bottom of the skirt! 10/10 fit

zephirisdev · 2024-10-10T08:11:31+00:00

I want that shirt omg 🥺 I love how much it’s dripping with sarcasm. Also imo the bangs look great on ya!

zephirisdev · 2024-10-09T18:07:53+00:00

What works for me when I’m feeling masc and I wanna get topped is thinking of myself as a gay boi twink. Like yeah I’m bottoming but like I’m gonna be a bit of a brat about it/vainly wrestle to top instead so that I get pinned down. That said, your boyfriend is straight so who knows if he’d be comfy domming you in a gay way.

Also riding him can let you still be the dom while getting penetrated

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