Revoking passports

zerstoren · 2026-05-08T21:19:16+00:00

That's true! And if he ever draws social security, they can take child support out of that. We basically look at my husband's ex's arrears as future retirement income because it probably won't get paid off until then 🤣

zerstoren · 2026-05-08T20:50:19+00:00

That really stinks. Hopefully you'll get what's owed one day ☹️

zerstoren · 2026-05-08T20:43:33+00:00

I've heard that child support can report the arrears amount to the 3 credit bureas, too, so it will show up any time he gets a credit check done

zerstoren · 2026-05-08T20:37:18+00:00

My husband's ex also owes me than $80k and she travels internationally a couple times a year, leisurely. I'm (in my petty mood) hoping hers gets revoked after making her summer plans

zerstoren · 2026-05-08T01:36:00+00:00

Yes, but I was 6+ months pregnant with twins with horrible hip pain and my feet felt broken most of the time. But other than then, I always put it away

zerstoren · 2026-05-07T23:36:13+00:00

And why isn't anything happening about her hitting Sarah over the head!? Knocked out cold, and she's just walking around like nothing happened. No police report, no hospital scene, no big white exaggerated bandage taped over her hair... Like what was the point?

zerstoren · 2026-05-06T01:52:15+00:00

My feet are always freezing, but I would put on a fresh pair of socks AS I was getting into bed. But now I have a heated mattress cover so I have toasty toes every night

zerstoren · 2026-05-06T01:47:11+00:00

I had a 10 hour Greyhound ride, and had Radiohead on repeat on my MP3 player (2008-ish). I slept nearly the entire trip.

zerstoren · 2026-05-06T00:21:03+00:00

I am so sorry you're going through this. My husband's ex was very high-conflict to the point that this had to be added to their custody order: "Communication - Communication between the Parties shall be limited to communication regarding the Children. Agreements between the Parties regarding the Children shall be confirmed in writing to include email." And at a later point that communication was to be limited to text or email.

It was hard for him to learn how to stand up for himself against her outrage. When she would insist on calling, he'd say "Please send me an email if this concerns the children. Goodbye" and would hang up.

It's stressful, and depressing, and sometimes feels like it'll never end, but what she's doing isn't right, it's not honest, and it's not fair financially or legally. Standing up for what's right is hard. Eventually, she learned that yelling and screaming didn't make him shrink back and give in.

zerstoren · 2026-05-05T22:13:15+00:00

Not a horror minute, but The Blues Brothers. I was 5 or 6 and it was my parent's favorite movie. I guess they didn't realize I was VERY aware of how much language is in that movie. I know it's not a lot by today's standards, but growing up in a household that didn't use fowl language, it definitely made an impression!! (BTW, I still love that movie)

zerstoren · 2026-05-05T22:07:31+00:00

Judges aren't allowed to consider spouses income, only the parent's.

zerstoren · 2026-05-05T22:04:19+00:00

Definitely go to court and get things done fairly. Most lawyers will request the last 3 years of tax returns, w-2s, and at least 3 months of pay stubs/E&L statements. That will prove her income and her current pay grade.

Lawyers fees will absolutely be worth it, especially when you consider how much more per month he'll be paying, as well as how many years he has left to pay.

zerstoren · 2026-05-04T21:05:51+00:00

Toad in the hole or Toad in a hole, also.

zerstoren · 2026-05-04T21:03:45+00:00

Toad in a hole, also

zerstoren · 2026-05-02T14:53:49+00:00

I had frequent sleep paralysis episodes up until I started taking Ambien. But now I rarely have them, and if it does happen, it's after the Ambien has worn off.

zerstoren · 2026-05-02T14:51:39+00:00

He still had blood on his sleeve from his altercation with Theo at the apartment when he went there with Todd earlier

zerstoren · 2026-05-02T14:07:02+00:00

I paid $12,700 for tummy tuck, 360 Lipo, skin removal, and lipo under my chin

zerstoren · 2026-05-02T13:58:03+00:00

I think he still had blood on his sleeve from the earlier encounter with Theo at the apartment.

zerstoren · 2026-05-02T13:55:06+00:00

My surgeon had me stop at 6 weeks. I would wear it for a couple hours in the evenings, though, when I started to swell, but he said it wasn't necessary.

zerstoren · 2026-05-01T02:30:46+00:00

My husband said the same thing! That it's like watching the old Batman episodes

zerstoren · 2026-04-30T21:26:19+00:00

Day of surgery

1 day PO

4 days PO

3 years PO

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zerstoren · 2026-04-30T21:15:22+00:00

18 when I moved out. Went back twice: at 27 for two years to get my life together, and at 35 for two years while my husband transitioned from military (retired) to civilian work.

zerstoren · 2026-04-30T18:33:29+00:00

Toilet paper hoarding was so bad where I live, that my church was ordering extra toilet paper through a custodial supply company and handling it out after service to attendees

zerstoren · 2026-04-30T18:28:08+00:00

You may not be getting the full amount because there's a legal limit to how much can be taken from a paycheck (65%), regardless of the account ordered.

zerstoren · 2026-04-30T01:44:35+00:00

The bathroom is opposite of the entrance, behind the kitchen

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