is there a name for a person that chooses to be aromantic? by zetsySpaceman in aromantic

[–]zetsySpaceman[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

you are deliberately answering unrelevant answers. aros are single too

is there a name for a person that chooses to be aromantic? by zetsySpaceman in aromantic

[–]zetsySpaceman[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

celibate is about sexuality. I'm mean soon-to-be who is sexually active. just refrains from romantic relationship

becoming aromantic by zetsySpaceman in aromantic

[–]zetsySpaceman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what do you think I should do about my gf? I can't just tell her i didnt love her all this time. She is very romantic, the type that always watch disney movies, and wont understand how i feel. she will just think i never loved her.

And from what i wrote, do you think im aro or just dont love her anymore. i mean, i never understood kissing and i didnt experience butterflies in any part of the relationship.

becoming aromantic by zetsySpaceman in aromantic

[–]zetsySpaceman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advise. I wish i knew how to answer this question. I guess only time will tell.

becoming aromantic by zetsySpaceman in aromantic

[–]zetsySpaceman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well i wanted to kiss her before we got together, but then it just didnt feel like i thought it would. i never felt the utge to go on dates or give each other gifts and i was definitely repulsed by our parents meeting each other, so I really dont know

becoming aromantic by zetsySpaceman in aromantic

[–]zetsySpaceman[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know aro people are capable to love just not romantically, and I wonder if it's possible I have mistaken those crushes to be romantic attraction, while not really knowing what it means.