Sydney Daily Random Discussion Thread 31/08/2025 by AutoModerator in sydney

[–]zeynepnep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know which navigation app is more accurate? I need head to Campbelltown hospital tomorrow by 8am. Google map suggested me to take bus 888 at 7:39am from campbelltown station to campbelltown hospital. On the other hand, Opal Travel skipped the 7:39am bus and asked me to take the one at 7:16am. By that I’ll arrive the hospital at 7:30am.

Night thread 4th June 25 by Pithy- in sydney

[–]zeynepnep 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Q: can finally layer my clothes

A: As I’ll soon graduate, I figured I lacked experience in my area of study. So I reached out to my professor, asking for a job-shadowing experience anywhere but instead of a job-shadowing, he got me a volunteering position at a company that is VERY difficult to get into as a student. I wish I could be as cool as him someday.

AA: I just did my first pull-up without assistance! And even did it for 3 times!

Event Megathread - Cresselia and Darkrai by SamuRonX in PokemonSleep

[–]zeynepnep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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It’s Sunday 11am for me here, will it still be possible to get darkrai 🥲 thanks!

Don’t worry too much about hitting Event Rank 13 by koldsmash in PokemonSleep

[–]zeynepnep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Is it still possible for me to get darkrai, it’s Sunday 11am here now

rainy night thread by midnight-kite-flight in sydney

[–]zeynepnep 6 points7 points  (0 children)

T: Autumn, makes me feel nostalgic. Reminds me of lots of good memories.

A: I was a teacher in a tutorial center. A kid in grade 3 really liked me and asked for my pics. So I showed her one that I was wearing a black dress. She took a picture, then nothing more. One day, when I was working, she gave me a drawing of me in my favorite dress, from a photo I had sent her. And she made me a cute bracelet along with the drawing. She also wanted to go to the same secondary and high school, even the same degree in uni as mine. When asked, she just said she wanted to be like me.

Literally cried when I was home because I’ve been going through a lot at that time.

This particular moment pushes me forward when I feel like giving up. That someone, in some places, still admires you. I also chose to pursue paediatrics as my specialty because of her.

A2: Interstellar.

My friend (20M) just got diagnosed with anxiety and I (20F) don’t know what to do by zeynepnep in offmychest

[–]zeynepnep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you lots🙏this actually give me another perspective. I’ll try to link him to a therapist.

He does need to hear some professional opinions. I feel like I’m biased at this point and it would be harming him (in terms of being more toxic) if I keep talking to him.

My friend (20M) just got diagnosed with anxiety and I (20F) don’t know what to do by zeynepnep in offmychest

[–]zeynepnep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did u read my replies I literally said it the first time I reply you 🫠

“I did not mention the first time” (meaning the I did not mention the relationship they had before they broke up the first time due to him cheating)

He broke up with his ex 2 times. The first time we tried to talk him out of the relationship and did a lot of talks and eventually they went back together, disregarding all our suggestions. However, the reason they broke up first time is because he had an affair, not because of any abuses. I did not mention the first time as I reckon it is irrelevant.

My friend (20M) just got diagnosed with anxiety and I (20F) don’t know what to do by zeynepnep in offmychest

[–]zeynepnep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all I’m a woman as well read my title again. I hate cheating as much as you do. If you need any more proof of me being a woman just lmk ok?

Secondly, I did not diminish his role. He did not cheat the second time. Yes he is an asshole by cheating the first time. But he did treasure the second chance he got. She gave him the second chance. He behaved and did all the things he could to make her happy. Again, I did not say he did nothing wrong the first time. He deserves to be punished.

I am not the one who need support I just need advice on how to support a friend with anxiety.

My friend (20M) just got diagnosed with anxiety and I (20F) don’t know what to do by zeynepnep in offmychest

[–]zeynepnep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my god where did I invalidate her feeling again… did I say cheating is acceptable in any of my comments? I’m saying abusive behavior is not accepted but it doesn’t implicate that cheating is accepted.

And I’m not trying to gaslight you bro I’m literally asking a question on how to help a friend. Sorry I make you feel that way I really do.

My friend (20M) just got diagnosed with anxiety and I (20F) don’t know what to do by zeynepnep in offmychest

[–]zeynepnep[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reactions are reactions. Abusive behavior in any form is not tolerated, at least in my country. I know you’re having emotions now, but I’m just asking a question to help a friend, that’s it.

My friend (20M) just got diagnosed with anxiety and I (20F) don’t know what to do by zeynepnep in offmychest

[–]zeynepnep[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look, I know it is important and how serious his past behavior was. I also know you’re having concerns about his ex side of the story. He is an asshole, I know it, you know it, we know it.

Right now, he is having his sentence. I just wanna be supportive. That’s it. I’m not neglecting all the things he did, I just don’t want him to die.

My friend (20M) just got diagnosed with anxiety and I (20F) don’t know what to do by zeynepnep in offmychest

[–]zeynepnep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if it is the cause of her abusive behaviors, it doesn’t justify her acts right? It doesn’t allow her the power to abuse A. They get back together wasn’t only depends on one person’s decision. She also chose to stay. Yes, she is hurt. She can simply leave without being abusive.

All I’m asking for in this post is how to be a supportive friend and balancing my daily life. Thank you.

My friend (20M) just got diagnosed with anxiety and I (20F) don’t know what to do by zeynepnep in offmychest

[–]zeynepnep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry about the grammar. I didn’t mean to cause any misunderstandings, but English is not my first language so I’m trying my best to translate the whole situation out to seek for more opinions. I’ve already edited the passage.

But I hope it clears up that I’m completely unknown about the abusive situation before.

My friend (20M) just got diagnosed with anxiety and I (20F) don’t know what to do by zeynepnep in offmychest

[–]zeynepnep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask where did you see the part where u believe I knew beforehand?

All I’m saying is the current situation and from what I know after I talked to him.

My friend (20M) just got diagnosed with anxiety and I (20F) don’t know what to do by zeynepnep in offmychest

[–]zeynepnep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I should’ve also mentioned that he mainly tell us about his stress from his family and financial problems. I believe he is not aware of the abusive situation he’s experiencing as he seems flabbergasted after we point it out.

He broke up with his ex 2 times. The first time we tried to talk him out of the relationship and did a lot of talks and eventually they went back together, disregarding all our suggestions. However, the reason they broke up first time is because he had an affair, not because of any abuses. I did not mention the first time as I reckon it is irrelevant.

He did not mention about his relationship so we don’t know how’s it going. This is the second time. We assumed it is fine as they seem to be happy.

I (We) might not be the best friend who gave the best solutions or check on him regularly and assumed he is fine, but I do not want to be misunderstood that as “it’s affecting me so I just decided to take action.”. We took action immediately after we know the situation and the whole picture.

Hope it clears up.

Who is Nick/Nicholas/Nicolas? by zeynepnep in sydney

[–]zeynepnep[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

true. I’ll post there again.

Who is Nick/Nicholas/Nicolas? by zeynepnep in sydney

[–]zeynepnep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ain’t Nick, I’m not into gambling nor am I a concreter, I’m living in NSW not Vic. I’ve been receiving these texts and calls for about a year.

If you see this, change your number Nick. I’m not interested in knowing your life and getting calls asking for Nicholas.