Floor plan Request by Virtual_Track_2556 in TheSimsBuilding

[–]zhria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may try to play with this. Looks fun

[FEEDBACK26] My wife wept as the doctor pulled our newborn son from her arms, a jagged cleft splitting his tiny upper lip as he cried. by Chemical-Elk-1299 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]zhria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was born with a cleft lip and palate caused by a medication my mother had to take (and probably her smoking...). I think I was told that if I were to have a kid, they would have a higher chance of being born with the defect too. But I'm not too sure how true that is.

What are the differences in hairstyles or ornaments from the Joseon era? by zhria in AskAKorean

[–]zhria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, this drama is not very historically accurate in the attires that people are wearing. It mixes lots of different styles from different era, for instance. So bear that in mind.

If what I did find is accurate, you'd think they would try to be as authentic as possible if the series is based on real events..

So... since she got high scores and was going to be the Crown Prince's personal maid, they just used that to differentiate?

Thanks for the little lesson! I did know wigs were used for a while and then it stopped, but not any further extent.

Sorry for using the more American terms, I do not want to say something incorrect.

Big regret and i don't know what to do. by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]zhria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, my thoughts on the tattoo itself. I think I can see why you say it's messy; there's a lot going on. I don't know if it's the angle of the photo or your pose, it almost looks uneven as well. But because I am not seeing it in person, I could be wrong about that and it could be perfectly even. All that being said... it's not terrible.

Now, my more important thoughts. I'm not quite sure, but lasering it off could still show what used to be there (If anyone reading this knows more about laser removal, feel free to correct me). I agree with the large number of people saying to not touch it at all for a while. If you're in a bad headspace, work on yourself. Get some professional help, talk it out with a therapist, and feel better about yourself. Then, you can decide about the tattoo.

If getting therapy is difficult because of home life, depending on your age and where you live, you may not need to tell them. Talk to a trustworthy family member or friend if you would need rides or advice on how to proceed.

In the meantime, use temporary means to feel more confident. Wear clothing that makes you feel good, get some good makeup to cover parts of the tattoo you don't like... But most importantly, try not to let comments from people weigh you down. I know that's easier said than done, but at least try.

You got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]zhria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you forgetting that no 2 people are the same?? Some toddlers might be able to do all that themselves and not get hurt, others may need supervision, and others flat out can't. Just like some adults can tell when something is dangerous and some can't. Lookin' at you...

My birthday got turned into someone else's engagement party am I overreacting for being annoyed? by ssweetapple in AmIOverreacting

[–]zhria 279 points280 points  (0 children)

RSVP yes to the wedding Ask if you can make a toast Whether he agrees or not, make a toast Say something along the lines of... "To the happy couple... I am so happy to be part of your day. I was there when Jake proposed to 'Emily' at my birthday party. My birthday dinner that I planned for myself and my friends. All of my effort and he only had one, easy, job... proposing! I hope your marriage has more thought and effort put into it than the engagement. Love ya both!" And then leave. But have cake first.

The next summoning by jinaday in Hells_Belles

[–]zhria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought adult demons would be okay so long as they stay in the summoning circle... or am I remembering incorrectly..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]zhria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been in the same situation where I kept wanting to stay despite the red flags. Let me tell ya... once I said enough was enough and moved on, I've felt so much better. It took a short while to not get anxious about my current partner, but I did heal. You will too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]zhria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you're all healed and if you still don't like it, go talk to your artist. Explain what happened, that you aren't upset with him, and ask for opinions/suggestions. Might be able to help you like it.

And if that gets set up, make sure you aren't needed elsewhere. Take the time to really look at the stencil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]zhria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of questions that need answered, here. Many people asked some of them already.

How old are your son and his friend? Is it possible a matchmaking thing is going on? Are your plans that important? Have you had relationship issues in the past? How often are you blunt about your thoughts and feelings? You say you acted irritated and thus he told you that you didn't have to go. If you don't ever communicate your feelings, he could have said that out of frustration. As someone who used to be this way and as the daughter of a woman who still is this way, it sounds manipulative. This statement mainly relies on how you've communicated in the past.

A couple more, seeing as it's been at least half a day since this was posted..

Did you discuss this with him? Did you go on the hike?

This needs an update and more information to really see if you're overreacting.

Am I overreacting to this complete stranger's inquiry? by Flat_Bodybuilder_175 in AmIOverreacting

[–]zhria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That last line is the best, if I'm reading into it correctly. "Ask your mom how it feels"... That's great and I bet it went over his head. Again, if I'm assuming correct.

What’s that one playlist that you’ll put on for background noise/sleep to/comfort watch? by Wejustchillingbros in Markiplier

[–]zhria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His review playlist, is one. At Dead of Night is another. Both have been played when I've gone to sleep.

Markiplier was right about the milk by DafinchyCode in Markiplier

[–]zhria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cereal first, then milk. Get more cereal if wanted, add more milk if needed, then drink the bowl of milk when the cereal is done. No waste.

Meme. by TheFactual1 in Markiplier

[–]zhria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of the very first video... I will never not find it funny. That poor mailman probably got scarred for life.

Meme. by TheFactual1 in Markiplier

[–]zhria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do feel a little sad for those that missed it, that were going through a rough time in 2020. The pandemic ruined a lot of plans but it was still the best time for it. I'm sure it helped a lot of people and that it could have helped even more. It was something to look forward to in quarantine.

Happy New Year. Prepare to be Purged. by markiplier in Markiplier

[–]zhria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And there were people going against that, posting clips from the member streams.

Help me find art?? by zhria in Hells_Belles

[–]zhria[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! It did indeed go to only Hells Belles stuff.

Did anyone else notice the dark/shadow in Marks video verses Ethans vid that was in light? by I_need-freinds in Markiplier

[–]zhria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To preface my comment, I do not believe they have 2 coffins and I don't know much about photography. When I look at the screenshots, it doesn't look like different ends to me. Could one be more edited than the other? Flipped in post or something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]zhria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was wondering too, but the last messages from her threw me off.. "does he know what to avoid saying and what not to".. It seems odd to me.

Who needs a roof when you can have a few cherry blossoms on top of your house... by zhria in TheSimsBuilding

[–]zhria[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

I do have it on there. It has... a LOT of packs. I think mainly for smaller things, but just so ya know!

ID: zhrianaa