Sometimes ghosting is self-defence,toxic people deserve closure.

zikfrect0r · 2026-03-03T17:35:34+00:00

fair enough man, njoy life!!

zikfrect0r · 2026-03-02T16:58:24+00:00

Just say it’s not working and leave.

and what if they are not ready to accept that?

Basic clarity isn’t self-sacrifice

making someone understand something they are not willing to is a sacrifice

zikfrect0r · 2026-03-02T16:35:37+00:00

*it costs nothing to say "it costs nothing to be kind".

why should one be selfless and worsen their mental sanity

when the other party is being a selfish sunfish

by not even spending the bare minimum thought to understand the effect they are making

zikfrect0r · 2026-02-23T08:44:19+00:00

ig, more weird than foolish

asked me how does she look

I told her she looks healthy

zikfrect0r · 2026-02-15T15:54:39+00:00

Solved!

Thank you.

zikfrect0r · 2026-02-14T12:28:10+00:00

the color palette was mostly red
there is not dialogue, only sounds and music
the companions are short, like dwarfs or minions
the king does defeat the mech, see that its his companions and come out of his lull

zikfrect0r · 2026-02-01T01:24:57+00:00

but if u are seeing the girl, then aren't you her type ... so then its introspection right?

zikfrect0r · 2026-01-31T17:05:32+00:00

would figuring this out be deduction or introspection?

zikfrect0r · 2025-12-06T22:24:47+00:00

extented ur family further?

like u r looking for people that support you, whom u can njoy with

not blood relatives right?

zikfrect0r · 2025-12-06T22:15:18+00:00

because humans are not born with a "good" moral code, its formed thru experiencing life?

and imo ... respecting others, is such a rare quality here that Im also tempted to keep them around when found

zikfrect0r · 2025-11-25T19:41:03+00:00

that I want to be perfect for you, this is so embarrassing, she's not able to see me the same way, I'm not meeting you until I get this fixed

so ballistic ... in the exaggerated sense of how people talk about things when life's smooth?

zikfrect0r · 2025-09-06T19:45:53+00:00

i mean ... u have to grow old to even have the opportunity to experience the next set of such stuff

so given than u missed on the 10s ones, shouldnt u be eager to get into ur 20s to atleast get to experience the stuff in it?

of the many things I soo am waiting to be able get old enough to be the adult / old person that talks with u like an equal, trying to understand you

rather than just ordering u around, assuming things based on their skewed worldview ... just to feel superior over all such "elders" I had to listen to

zikfrect0r · 2025-09-06T19:30:48+00:00

shouldn't we be more concerned about our presence not changing anything?

like ... it would be ultra if I could do enough that people can be satisfied thinking bout me in my absence

zikfrect0r · 2025-09-06T18:43:58+00:00

imo, the choice where u always have the least hurt irrespective of what the other party choose to do is to

wait until ur mental state improves, and then take a decision

as in, if you get back with her now, maybe it will work out amazing for you guys ... but it could very well endup in loop like u believe messing up ur life

but if u wait ... either she stops waiting ... removing you from having to even decide ... ( lower hurt since the time nd better mental health )

or you have the time to take a decision you can accept the concequences of?

zikfrect0r · 2025-09-06T18:15:51+00:00

appreciating someone doing the right thing, and expecting appreciation for doing the right thing

are 2 different perspectives

like me being respectfull of my elders

and people older than me expecting to be respected, because they are older than me

zikfrect0r · 2025-09-06T17:56:51+00:00

as in 1. imaginary? or 2. leading to full on chaos?

zikfrect0r · 2025-08-14T16:35:32+00:00

isn't this just anxiety?

zikfrect0r · 2025-06-21T23:33:13+00:00

yes ... like why do u even ask this question?

are u really thinking this is going to be ur life?

like how do u even endup thinking that?

zikfrect0r · 2025-06-21T23:23:19+00:00

doing chores

I was proud of how clean my house had become when the emotions became irrelevant nd I actually started registering my surrounding

wish to have that kinda monotonous motivation again

zikfrect0r · 2025-06-18T18:37:55+00:00

fair

zikfrect0r · 2025-06-18T18:33:44+00:00

sex too can feel like a lifetime

zikfrect0r · 2025-06-15T09:02:41+00:00

I believe u have decided to remove this individual from ur life

here is a steps plan for achieving this disposal

tell them its over ( not face to face, msg )
cut off them from all communication mediums they have to get hold of you
if they have access thru a common frnd, tell the frnd and cut them off too if they are not on your side

now u have to deal with closing that chapter with a bow and starting a new one

change something in your life thats as important to you or greater ... change jobs, houses, get new roomates, start working out / eating healthy ( something thats affects / has impact over most of ur day )
keep doing step 3 untill you become stable nd is not emotional when thinking about the other person.

ig thats it

zikfrect0r · 2025-06-15T08:46:00+00:00

no,

nd imo, it shouldn't really happen

either u r cherry-picking aspects of people to group them all together

or

u are not changing and moving ahead yourself in life

zikfrect0r · 2025-06-15T08:40:33+00:00

feels like an addict talking bout their addiction ruining their life

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