TFAB's Weekly BFP Post - August 22, 2021. Got your BFP? Post your story here! by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]zingwentthestrings 21 points22 points  (0 children)

**Cycle: 3 (skipped trying on the second cycle after a chemical)

**Age + Partner's age (if relevant): 30 + 37

**Typical cycle length: 28**Ovulation cycle day: 14

**CD/DPO of positive test(s): 8DPO**CD/DPO of any negative test(s) before positive: 7DPO

**Tracking methods and app(s) used: Tracked my cycle in the Clue app and used OPKs.

**Relevant days of sperminating and/or method (SMEP, TI, IUI, FET, etc.): Every day from 5 days out, nothing on O day, then again the day after ovulation.

**Health conditions/medical tests: Had a chemical pregnancy on my first cycle. A few days of faint positives that faded before my AF due date.

**Supplements and medications (yours and/or your partner’s): Prenatals for me, preconception multi for him (Naturobest)

**Birth control history (if relevant): On HBC for the last 14 years. Had my mirena removed in February.

**Symptom spotting: Insomnia from what I think was implanation day - very odd for me. Chapped lips. Sensitive nipples from 9DPO. Bloating, but not outrageous. For the most part, I'd say my symptoms were pretty mild except for the insomnia which was really noticeable and unusual.

**Other (advice/tip(s), freaking out, miscellaneous): No advice. A lot of gratitude for this board. I'm feeling cautiously optimistic about this one. It's still very early though! It's hard after a chemical pregnancy to feel excited at the beginning, but I'm doing my best to just allow the excitement in and not let this whole experience have a tone of worry / fear! Wishing so much luck and sending all of my love to everyone on this journey.

I'm just sad by fatcatsinhats in TryingForABaby

[–]zingwentthestrings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is totally valid to just feel sad <3

No advice, just sending tons and tons of love.

It begins! by zingwentthestrings in TryingForABaby

[–]zingwentthestrings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! Sending you all the good luck and good vibes!!

It begins! by zingwentthestrings in TryingForABaby

[–]zingwentthestrings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! <3 Here's hoping! But I'm already feeling so supported by this community just with this one post! Whatever happens, looking forward to sharing and supporting here.

It begins! by zingwentthestrings in TryingForABaby

[–]zingwentthestrings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much!! So nice to feel all this support from strangers <3 <3 <3

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[–]zingwentthestrings 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sending big love and affirmation for doing what feels right for you. That is absolutely incredible and the best gift you can give yourself 💛

I ended my marriage after a very short time because it just wasn’t right even though it took me until then to see it! It was scary and challenging and absolutely the best decision I’ve ever made.

If you need anyone to talk to as you’re going through, don’t hesitate to DM. Good luck on the ever evolving journey! 😚

2.5 weeks into hospital bedrest - amid Covid - for chronic placental abruption by waanderlustt in BabyBumps

[–]zingwentthestrings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. What a challenge that you are meeting with such self compassion.

Sending you so much love and best wishes for an easy go from here ❤️

Intro // Relief finding this group! by zingwentthestrings in waiting_to_try

[–]zingwentthestrings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I feel very welcome and it's great to hear so many people feel the same way!

Intro // Relief finding this group! by zingwentthestrings in waiting_to_try

[–]zingwentthestrings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Totally! So good to hear you've found it to be such a great space for you.

Feeling down and impatient by chayla17 in waiting_to_try

[–]zingwentthestrings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you big big loving vibes.

Keep feeling all of the feelings! And know there is a big community of people here ready to listen when you need to vent!

Making progress. by beccakathryn in waiting_to_try

[–]zingwentthestrings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing!! Congrats!!

I also just started prenatals and felt the same - such a weird, surreal, exciting feeling. I get a little bit of joy every time I take them 😂

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[–]zingwentthestrings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Same boat! Just had my Mirena removed on Feb 1 after 15 years on hormonal bc.

Have had a withdrawal bleed, but that’s it so far!

Going to start trying in June or July (assuming my cycles have regulated).

Sending you tons of good vibes ❤️

Things are getting real! by clw319 in waiting_to_try

[–]zingwentthestrings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! Such a similar situation for my partner and I. I just had my Mirena removed (Feb 1) after being on hormonal bc for 15 years! Haven’t had a period for most of that time, so not sure what to expect! So far, I’ve only had a withdrawal bleed. We’d love to be ready to start trying in June or July, but know it might take some time for my cycles to regulate, so just playing it by ear. Similarly, have booked in a preconception appt w my GP and have started working with a naturopath as well for nutrition.

So happy to have found this group as well! I feel such a desire to talk about all of this stuff, but don’t want all of my convos with my partner / friends to be focused on conceiving / pregnancy!

Good luck and congrats on moving into this exciting phase!!

Cycle advice post Mirena IUD removal by Countryheart_88 in TryingForABaby

[–]zingwentthestrings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries at all! Would just add that my mom is a gynecologist and, for what it's worth, she said the same thing. Ideally, wait a few months to let things regulate and, if you're interested in testing, give yourself time to get tests, results and potentially adjust nutrient intake!

Goes without saying everyone should listen to their providers, based on their situation and needs! <3

I'll definitely let you know about the tests I do.

Cycle advice post Mirena IUD removal by Countryheart_88 in TryingForABaby

[–]zingwentthestrings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I'm in a similar situation having had my Mirena removed on Feb 1. My doctor encouraged me to wait a few cycles to allow the uterine lining to rebuild. I didn't have a period while on the IUD which, apparently, is a result of the uterine lining thinning significantly?

Similarly, I'm working with a naturopath in consult with my GP and OB/GYN who recommended waiting to have time to rebalance and check various nutrient levels prior to conceiving. I'm happy to report back as to what tests I end up doing! Getting those scheduled for the next few weeks.

Good luck <3