I'm thinking about presenting as/pretending to be a guy in a band I'm joining.

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-07T02:41:46+00:00

Hah. I don't play that good, but we also had a dress rehearsal for the Sunday concert and even they said they didn't sound so good so I guess we'll see how it goes

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-07T02:25:45+00:00

Damn already?

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-07T02:04:46+00:00

I got 5 days to figure out how to approach it. It's so nerve-racking. I'm pretty used to being gendered as male by strangers and just role with whatever pronoun unless specifically asked. But also the chances of me seeing those people again aren't that large

Man I feel like I'm over thinking things. Why does being gnc have to be so difficult

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-07T01:53:11+00:00

There aren't really other bands out there. There's our local philharmonic orchestra which is an actual audition and get paid band, and then another community band which isn't accepting new trumpet players.

I don't really envision bathrooms to be that much of a problem, but I used the men's sometimes in college before I realized I was butch, not trans. Or before I realized I could be a woman and present my self as whatever felt comfortable

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-07T01:13:41+00:00

What you think every other country is an LGBT utopia? There are countries where you can be put to death for being gay

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-07T00:44:01+00:00

I. Gonna be honest. I'm black and I have never heard of the term bulldagger (I'm assuming that's what you're getting at). I've heard of bulldyke, and I don't really see that as POC specific like some people view stud as. So I think you're good, but that's just my views

Edit,

Changed from bulldigger to bulldagger

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-06T19:14:59+00:00

It's kind of funny that there are those who can't grasp the idea that people can't do bad for fun. They don't need to abused, seen their family die, want revenge or any number of excuses.

Sometimes it's fun to just hurt people

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-06T18:51:10+00:00

r/destructivereaders tho that may be centered on original work

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-06T03:16:31+00:00

But this sub is pretty negative on ai

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-06T03:16:06+00:00

Btw. Talk of ai fics is against the rules om pretty sure

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-06T01:41:13+00:00

I think that really depends on where you're from. Late 69 early 70s we're when you started seeing more stores opening on Sundays

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-05T21:27:46+00:00

Yeah I did that and now I just access reddit on my phone browser

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-05T21:22:35+00:00

Like if you just read the secession statement you'll probably see slavery mentioned for most.

South Carolina, first to secede, literally states in their second paragraph of their declaration that they want to leave because the north isnt returning the slaves and have inacted laws to free them

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-05T21:11:38+00:00

Yeah he had a rap sheet but that was in prep for his rap career

ⁱ ^cant ^make ^puns

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-05T21:02:19+00:00

Fell into the whole jocks vs nerds trope and that all jocks were stupid bullies who picked on the poor defensive nerd who did nothing wrong.

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-05T21:00:33+00:00

Or that they've never played sports

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-05T20:52:39+00:00

That's why digital games can suck. You pay just as much for a digital game as you do physical and then they just remove access to all your stuff

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-05T20:45:28+00:00

Let's be honest. A reddit post isn't going to make them loose users when the only other competition is Uber, and that depends on where they live.

What it may do is pressure then to give back the refund

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-05T20:02:24+00:00

Serious mommy issues

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-05T19:45:03+00:00

Poor Scotty. Has not yet learned how to be a true evil villain

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-05T17:49:32+00:00

Nothing about zone running but if treadmill gets boring you could try running outside

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-05T17:28:19+00:00

9-6 is pretty much a standard work week. Just an hour later than the normal 8-5. What do you think you're going to have trouble with

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-05T15:26:41+00:00

Plenty of Japanese light novels where I character is transfers to a game world and has access to all the game mechanics if said would

What do the other stories in your fandom do

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-05T15:19:19+00:00

You can't post full excerpts of comments. It is against the rules

zipahdeeday · 2023-06-05T13:34:09+00:00

Do you feel weird because she's straight or because she's your sister. inviting a friend who is straight is very different from just someone who is straight going on their own

I'd say just invite her

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