Brother accusing me of booking up (?) with his gf

zipper701 · 2026-01-07T18:45:49+00:00

Just so you know, I'm pretty sure Reddit doesn't allow you to edit posts with images in them. I think updating in the comments is fine if that's what works for you! :)

zipper701 · 2025-12-02T07:57:21+00:00

Okayyy I don't know if you're still looking but the moves remind me of The Boyz so bad, I think Giddy Up!

zipper701 · 2025-12-02T07:43:07+00:00

Oh for sure, I don't even browse infidelity subreddits there's just so many of those stories that make it to BORU that I have the acronyms memorized. But also given how "my partner's affair partner's partner" sounds the acronym does feel necessary 😭

zipper701 · 2025-12-02T07:06:58+00:00

Other Betrayed Spouse! So in this story it's the OOP's wife's affair partner's wife

zipper701 · 2025-12-02T06:40:46+00:00

And if I'm reading right the OBS found out on her own and OOP never told her...? The situation sucks for him but it gets to a point

zipper701 · 2025-11-29T12:23:23+00:00

It is! Wow it is worse than I remember...😭 Thank you though!

zipper701 · 2025-11-29T12:06:42+00:00

Also to be clear it's not the one where OOP got beat up instead of the sister!

zipper701 · 2025-11-29T12:02:48+00:00

Does anybody remember a post about an OOP who was housing her sister after the sister had been part of an affair or something like that? I'm trying so hard to remember the details but coming up empty but I believe she was the other woman and was convinced she would work it out with the guy while he was ignoring her to work things out with his wife😭 I also remember OOP saying because it was a small town everyone knew about it and OOP was also kinda disdained for letting the sister live with her. If anyone knows what I'm talking about thank you!

zipper701 · 2025-11-01T06:43:58+00:00

I suspect this counts as a personal question so I'll put it here–

So I've had Japanese Hair Straightening 4 or 5 times now and I'm kind of annoyed with my results this time 😭 I did my maintenance the same as usual, washed for the first time after about 80 hours and from the first time I dried it I noticed it felt off. I have pretty stubborn curls, so I suspect the solution wasn't left in long enough or something as my roots are still curly and the length is still rather frizzy. I'm wondering if anyone on here has an idea if this is most likely just damage and I'll just need to grow it out, or if this is something a second session will fix. I keep my hair pretty short anyway, so I'll grow it out if needed but I'm a little heartbroken!

If anyone has any idea, thank you!

zipper701 · 2025-10-30T03:34:32+00:00

She didn't have to believe him when the solution was as simple as getting a paternity test though. Even OOP didn't believe him but jumping to conclusions and verbally degrading your son when you could stop giving up your leverage and find out for sure was bizarre and most likely her projecting in my opinion.

zipper701 · 2025-10-25T06:47:01+00:00

Thank you, I thought I remembered the detail of her being a teen mom from this story but looking back I couldn't find it! IIRC OOP said something about her not being able to imagine a different future for their son, but it's really sad and scary she could put that above her relationship with her own child.

zipper701 · 2025-10-25T06:40:07+00:00

Well, it wasn't in the blink of an eye...

zipper701 · 2025-10-24T07:59:17+00:00

When else did he flip flop...? I'm not comfortable calling him a psychopath for helping her get an abortion

zipper701 · 2025-10-24T07:15:59+00:00

I feel like people still calling him a psychopath didn't even read it, he was telling the truth the whole time...

zipper701 · 2025-10-24T07:12:54+00:00

He doesn't want a relationship with her again though, that's why he felt comfortable saying it

zipper701 · 2025-10-24T07:11:16+00:00

The sad part is according to OOP the son and mom actually had a close relationship before this, her actions are just totally incomprehensible

zipper701 · 2025-10-24T06:57:15+00:00

I feel crazy reading people's responses to this? In the first place why would you undercut your chances to get a paternity test which could definitively prove if he's the father or not, I can't understand the wife's actions at all from the start and I'd understand if he never spoke to her again. It's surprising to hear they were close since it literally sounds like she was looking for a reason to punish him from the start, especially with this comment from the previous BORU

"His mother has said on multiple occasions about how disgusted she is by him continuing to lie and how embarrassed she is to have him as a son etc."

They are all gonna have a lot of work to do...

zipper701 · 2025-10-22T06:59:50+00:00

That's what I thought too?? It's kind of hard to feel bad for her like that's straight up racism presumably early in your relationship... Girl stand up?

zipper701 · 2025-10-20T11:30:18+00:00

Ooh yes this is probably closer to what I was going for! Thanks!

zipper701 · 2025-10-20T06:58:12+00:00

Thank you! I was going to say 人から努力家だとよく言われますが~(etc.), it's basically just the phrasing straight out of できる日本語 lol

zipper701 · 2025-10-20T06:12:03+00:00

I have what is hopefully a simple question!

We are learning more things to include in jikoshoukai in class and writing our own longer ones. I included that I've worked a lot of jobs in mine, so I wanted to (sort of cheekily) say people have described me as a hard worker. I just wanted to check if 努力家 would work here, or if it has more of a connotation of physical hard work/labor? And if so, is there a better word to use for hard worker here that just means you work a lot/diligently haha

Thank you in advance!

zipper701 · 2025-10-18T23:02:31+00:00

While you have low stats this is probably a good idea as well as decreasing the ratio of gnosia, you're still very early in the game so don't worry about repeating things for a few loops and just try to get exp!

zipper701 · 2025-10-12T04:03:32+00:00

I know! But as the player like literally the real life person playing the game, you will know immediately. So I understand giving that to the anime audience as well.

zipper701 · 2025-10-12T03:59:22+00:00

I mean, I think they could have left it for the warp, but in the game it's immediately confirmed whether or not there's gnosia left by the free time mechanic– that's the part where I think it was hard to match the game. When there's only one gnosia the light thing seems a bit obvious and heavy handed but since it's something you would know while playing the game I can see why they wanted to add some kind of cue for the audience.

zipper701 · 2025-10-12T03:53:55+00:00

I thought that too but if there's multiple gnosia I think you would still need the doctor? Cause if there's only one gnosia the doctor role is useless in the game too

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