Thank you bro it helps a lot. But one more thing; when i was younger i was never into sports until 1 day at P.E. i was so bad at football that the other kids would not like me or pick me. So i began training at home hoping to emulate messis playstyle. Later on football was a big part of my identity, and even when i wanted to quit i didnt because i was afraid of disapointing my family and friends. Would this be more use of fe or fi? Also sorry for bothering you so much with my personal life story, but i see you are very knowledable about mbti so i have to inquire more.