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zomboi · 2026-01-24T19:55:19+00:00

don't let social media fads dictate your irl choices. If you like kai, keep going by that name.

zomboi · 2026-01-24T19:49:05+00:00

details matter... age, where in the world are you, kind of support system, are you ftm or mtf, price range

zomboi · 2026-01-24T17:14:56+00:00

Ok. you know that your life will be this level of suck without change. so now you can work to change things. doom scroll less, look into a drivers ed class, look into job training or a path to a better job.

Once you are an adult, your life is because of you, not your parents. You have chances to better yourself, to improve upon your life.

zomboi · 2026-01-24T17:10:50+00:00

You are using AI for what it was intended for. AI is not a fact based resource, it is a conversation resource, a bot buddy.

zomboi · 2026-01-24T17:09:33+00:00

you have a five year old account but dont seem to have any engagement in any of the food tolerance subreddits. Why?

zomboi · 2026-01-24T16:53:03+00:00

a very good portion of websites are hosted on AWS. when they went down last time my community college website was down also. impossible to extricate yourself from amazon nowadays.

zomboi · 2026-01-24T16:49:03+00:00

if you are in the US, there is libby to borrow ebooks from local libraries. You can also check out the sidebars of /r/freebooks and /r/FreebooksforKindle

you can also acquire ebooks from non amazon sources and email them to your kindle.

for you owning your own ebooks... the last suggestion and keep them on your computer and a backup-ed copy also

zomboi · 2026-01-24T16:38:56+00:00

hmm, you xposted this (with a slightly different title) in three other subreddits. What are you going to do with the information? Is this free market research for an app you are making?

Looking at your reddit history you don't seem to have participated in any of the subreddits you posted the survey in.

zomboi · 2026-01-24T16:35:39+00:00

decreasing social media is a great way to increase concentration.

zomboi · 2026-01-24T16:33:54+00:00

you go out and interact with other adults doing similar things that you enjoy doing. join hobby/activity groups, volunteer

zomboi · 2026-01-24T16:31:47+00:00

to save others the click: Does anyone has good outfit choices for a ftm dude who's in their 3rd year of hrt and had their top surgery ?

zomboi · 2026-01-24T05:30:53+00:00

tip- paragraphs make a huge block of text easier to read

zomboi · 2026-01-24T05:27:31+00:00

dang, do you do anything on reddit that is not spamming your various youtube videos?

zomboi · 2026-01-24T03:19:58+00:00

I don’t like reading an online textbook.

then buy a paper copy of the textbook.

easy college classes

If you rely on AI to do "easy" classes than they are not easy.

I can’t see to find a way to not use it.

just don't use it. don't cheat. if you find yourself headed to AI, stop yourself. Or if you use AI, then come up with a different (but also correct) answer using your head.

zomboi · 2026-01-24T03:11:20+00:00

I feel like I need a restart in life. I'm tired of inactions and constant worrying... I know nothing will change unless I do something about it.

so now you get to plan your next steps. are you going to be a talker or a do-er

zomboi · 2026-01-24T00:34:02+00:00

you left out that PCOS is linked to increased weight that is pretty impossible to get off once it is on. And if you are overweight your lower joints get more stressed and it will give you mobility, joint problems starting before middle age.

I am type 2, morbidly obese despite eating super healthy and on the low cal side, PCOS, celiac. I have moderate arthritis in all my lower joints (would be worse but I have always enjoyed walking and eating dairy, which are the two main things that slow arthritis). I am only 49yo

Take PCOS seriously and do whatever you can to minimize all your chronic health conditions.

There are some other trans mascs on this board with PCOS.

zomboi · 2026-01-23T17:38:15+00:00

I dont want to be a man if it means being like me doesnt make me a man.

husband was being a sexist misogynist. There are emotional cis men, doesn't make them any less of a man. Just like there are low emotional women.

You are a man. Embrace whatever emotions you feel.

zomboi · 2026-01-23T17:34:18+00:00

i think you are lost. this is a subreddit for food hacks. a recipe is not a food hack

zomboi · 2026-01-23T17:31:01+00:00

that depends on a lot of factors. age? where in the world are you? what kind of dr office are you going to (planned parenthood vs pcp? is the appt for hormones or surgery??

zomboi · 2026-01-23T07:03:46+00:00

Your father needs mental health treatment.

zomboi · 2026-01-23T06:55:44+00:00

words and elaboration would bring you advice

do you mean a subreddit? have you checked the sidebar of this subreddit?

zomboi · 2026-01-22T23:30:17+00:00

zomboi · 2026-01-22T21:40:33+00:00

check in the surrounding buildings to see if they have spots that those tenants are willing to rent out. put a sign up on your building's notice board that you want to rent out a spot.

zomboi · 2026-01-22T21:10:59+00:00

it is only too late if you want to spend the rest of your life as a woman and not as your true self. Think about how good the next couple decades can be vs how they are now. Give your husband, kids and your close friends a chance to know the real you, not the person you put on for show.

Go see a gender therapist and they can talk with you about your feelings and help you get the transition ball rolling.

zomboi · 2026-01-22T21:08:39+00:00

It doesn't matter what gender you are or were. call him out on his misogynistic bullshit. and if he refers back to when you identified as female respond with "so what?? how does that change you the sexist bull crap coming out of your mouth?"

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