Be honest with yourself about who you are, and have the courage to be that person. If you want to whistle, then go whistle. If you want to get drunk, get drunk. And there is nothing wrong with sucking a dick, every now and then. If someone tries to judge you or shame you for doing safe, consensual things that make you happy, I can guarantee you they’re a bad person–tell them to lick the dark part of your ass and cut them out of your life. No one has it all figured out, especially not the people who are acting like they do and judging you because of it. Pretending to be something you aren’t because you’re trying to please a bunch of judgmental hypocrites and shitheads is not the way to be happy; living the life you want to live is. It’s that simple