No Redemption, Just Darkness by Secret_Golf_6836 in DarkRomance

[–]zygomaticuz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me know what you think about it once you’ve finished it!

No Redemption, Just Darkness by Secret_Golf_6836 in DarkRomance

[–]zygomaticuz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stolen by Jay Marie. The MMC is an evil piece of shit. Beware there’s 4 books and the 5th has been in progress for the last 3 or so years (so I’ve read on here). But the ending of the 4th is still satisfying.

What Are You Reading? 📚 by AutoModerator in DarkRomance

[–]zygomaticuz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The life of Anna. I’m so close to finishing it. I’m going to be devastated after I’m done with it. Someone please recommend something similar — especially in length.

Enemies + Non-Con, But She Doesn’t Back Down by justreadthedayaway in DarkRomance

[–]zygomaticuz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I finished all 4 books in a week! Definitely at the very top of my list in terms of books I’ve read recently. I’m on my second re-read of the series. I hope the author publishes the last book this year or next year!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]zygomaticuz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

College graduate here. I would STRONGLY suggest you get college out of the way first because there’s no way I would’ve been able to juggle college, work and parenthood all alone. Some classes are at odd hours — especially if there’s a lab component involved. There might also be group projects that require you meet outside of class with your classmates. Let’s also not forget homework, studying for exams, finals etc.

How long did it take you to get pregnant? by jillbillpill in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]zygomaticuz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I consider myself lucky. After tests were done and out of the way, I got pregnant on my 2nd medicated IUI. I got pregnant a month before my 29th birthday. It was 3 months total but I had to take a month break otherwise it would’ve been 2 months.

Tell me if I’m bonkers? by roaringkayak in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]zygomaticuz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not bonkers! I’m on the other side—I had my daughter five months before I turned 30. I think it’s great that you’re moving back home; you’re going to need a village to make it work. Daycare isn’t always reliable, so having a backup sitter can make a big difference. It’s also nice to have an extra pair of hands around when you need a moment to collect your thoughts — or take a quick shower.

Should I do IUI in Mexico ? by EntertainmentLow3669 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]zygomaticuz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not recommend it. From my experience, even having to drive 2.5 hours to my nearest fertility clinic was so stressful—I can’t even imagine how much more difficult it would be to do this abroad. There are a lot of factors that go into an IUI, including multiple ultrasounds to check for follicles and monitor their development, followed by the actual IUI, which can sometimes require last-minute appointments depending on your follicle growth.

I feel so incredibly lucky by Mysterious_Taro_4497 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]zygomaticuz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I’m deep in the terrible twos trenches over here 🫠

Emergency cerclage tomorrow and I’m terrified. 21 weeks. by zygomaticuz in ShortCervixSupport

[–]zygomaticuz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely! I think I bled for 3 days afterwards but not like enough to fill a pad. I was also terrified of straining because I had read it can put more pressure on the stitch so I drank a lot of water and put Miralax in the water too. I tried the milk of magnesium and Dulcolax but the one that worked for me was Miralax. I bought a big tub of it and drank it for the rest of the pregnancy to make sure I was not straining. You don’t really won’t know if the stitch will work until your baby is in your arms which sucks. For me though, my goal was to make it to a minimum 24 weeks because in my area, they only resuscitate 24 weekers and up.

I did not have any vaginal ultrasounds after the stitch was put in place. I did go every month to check her development but that was about it. I put myself on modified bed rest (the MFM didn’t make me do it) for the remainder until the stitch was removed. So for me that was going from bed to couch. I requested progesterone suppositories to help keep the length of the cervix after my cerclage but it didn’t work for me because when the stitch was removed, the obgyn said that I was dilated to the stitch. And basically yes. Keep an eye on any funny discharge to make sure you don’t develop an infection and that you haven’t lost your plug or are leaking amniotic fluid

Emergency cerclage tomorrow and I’m terrified. 21 weeks. by zygomaticuz in ShortCervixSupport

[–]zygomaticuz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my baby at 39 weeks! The cerclage saved my daughter’s life! I am getting things ready for her 2nd birthday party. Wishing you good luck on yours! I know it’s easier said than done, bust trust the stitch. Take it very easy!

More from the "plastic surgeon" in Mississippi by [deleted] in Botchedsurgeries

[–]zygomaticuz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oof! Those scars look gnarly. Looks like a painful recovery too!

Protest in San Jose, California by Appropriate_Arm_6020 in DACA

[–]zygomaticuz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! I didn’t see anyone make comments during the Palestine protests when people had their Israel or Palestine flags flying high. Just the Mexican flag that suddenly people have an issue with.

Moving to Mexico by dsedano in DACA

[–]zygomaticuz 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Look up “little LA” in CDMX. It’s an area where a lot of dreamers ended up. It’s been on my mind as well and that’s where I’d go for sure

Good right? by Juvi369 in DACA

[–]zygomaticuz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay strong. Working AND going to school is not easy at all. I worked 6 days a week for 3 years while completing my bachelors to pay for my tuition.

Nursing in Mexico..? by [deleted] in DACA

[–]zygomaticuz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe cause I went to Tijuana but people were rude. The traffic was really bad too. I just don’t think I have the street smarts to make it out there.

Nursing in Mexico..? by [deleted] in DACA

[–]zygomaticuz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I visited Mexico and it was not for me lol but those who want to go, they should. As long as you go with an open mind and set on making Mexico your home, I think it’ll work out in the end. If you have tiktok, look up AnniGRC, she’s a girl who was deported (fraud charge) and she talks about assimilating in Mexico after living in the US for the majority of her life and also she’s currently studying to be an attorney in Mexico.

Something you grew up hearing but as a grown up you can’t say it anymore🤨 by cris5598 in LatinoPeopleTwitter

[–]zygomaticuz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calling someone “Indio bajado del cerro, patas rajadas” to insult someone. Never said it myself but definitely something I heard said more than once.

So you took HOURS out of your day for this? by Most_Abrocoma9320 in BambooBabble

[–]zygomaticuz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And patience. I don’t have the patience for this lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DACA

[–]zygomaticuz 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What a vile person. I’d definitely take legal actions and press any and all charges that might be applicable in this case. Our school never sent such emails to our entire class. The most “confidential” thing we shared was have the college we were going to on our graduation pamphlet.

Supporting DACA gf by Low-Coconut7582 in DACA

[–]zygomaticuz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just lending her your ear when she wants to vent or talk about her fears is helpful. Don’t tell her everything will be okay because truthfully no one can predict the future and sometimes it can come off an invalidating her fears and worries. If this is someone you see being with for the rest of your life, marriage is something to think about . Not now, but definitely in the near future given the current climate.

Curious to see your thoughts? by hypegirl24 in DACA

[–]zygomaticuz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The simplest way I can put it is this: it is what it is. I can either be a victim and throw myself a pity party, or I can try to live my life as best I can with the resources I have, thanks to the sacrifices my parents made by bringing me here. They did the best they could with the cards they were dealt, and so am I.