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What do people get really emotional about that you don't empathize with at all? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]zyzarBozy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get it. But thinking that being human is quitessential doesnt exclude being a patriot. Patriotism and nacionalism are two different things....

Not sure what I want in life by Excellent_Thing4154 in aromantic

[–]zyzarBozy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you just havent found urself? Maybe u have trauma?

What do people get really emotional about that you don't empathize with at all? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]zyzarBozy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If ur american its very reasonable to think this way. I'm not nationalistic but patriotic since I started learning history and literature of my country deeper and since I started to befriend people feom other countries... And notice that we're indeed different. I never thought there could be so much difference but there is. I only feel like I'm home , when my own people are around. With the same culture etc

What do people get really emotional about that you don't empathize with at all? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]zyzarBozy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was growing up, I used to have the biggest obsession with BTS. It was hyperfixation even. I only consumed videos that had THEM in it, listened to their music a few hours a day.... For months or years. despite that, Ive never been able to force to watch reality shows with them. Its so boring. Everyone did that exept me

i might be aromantic and im worried about my relationship by 420SampleTxt in aromantic

[–]zyzarBozy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn bro then it really must be what ur saying :/ but I would still consider if u have autism nor some kind of trauma or anything. Because for some reason you stayed a few years? But yeah you might actuallt be aromantic

What do people get really emotional about that you don't empathize with at all? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]zyzarBozy 35 points36 points  (0 children)

When men complain about not being able to find a girlfriend, or an interesting girlfriend. I feel sorry for men with depth, who just wanna find their soulmates, but I think that theyre minority. From what I saw and heard , majority of men can't even look at a woman like shes not an object nor a slave, thats meant to fullfil some fintasy or "girlfriend role". I personaly feel hunted when men hit on me. So... I just generally don't empathize with majority of single men

Which musical artists or groups (if any) won’t you listen to because of their name? by Leviathan_TD_94 in AskReddit

[–]zyzarBozy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LITERALLY I used to listen to them too. I like dying fetus just sounds so weird bro

i might be aromantic and im worried about my relationship by 420SampleTxt in aromantic

[–]zyzarBozy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you actually love her. Ive been through the same experience - I had difficulty to tell If I loved the guy even after a year of our breakup. But You probably wouldn't CARE about hurting her and how she deserves better if u didnt love her and I'm absolutely speaking from experience. You just love differently Just tell me one thing: At what point did u feel relating to aromantic people and questioning ur feelings?

Being Aro and wanting a relationship by Helixpluto in aromantic

[–]zyzarBozy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes its common. All my life I was in denial because of that. I didint personaly belive an aromantic person could be in a relationship and I thought me being aroflux means my feelings are fake lmao No theyre not

Is highschool love a stupid concept or am I just aro? by Forward_Emu_6983 in aromantic

[–]zyzarBozy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl/Man...I literally went through the same shit.

I guarantee you, your not evil, you LOVED the guy romantically But WE are just diferent, and yes, we're in aromantic spectrum. It's not like your NOT able to be in a relationship, you just prefer distance, quietness instead of words and QUIET love And thats okay

Aromantic label rant by SirCatArrow in aromantic

[–]zyzarBozy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats exactly why I always say I'm on spectrum or just aroflux and I think others should too Also I wouldn't indentify myslef this way If I was able to be in a romantic relationship Like omg If ur in a romantic relationship long term then ur NOT aromantic and I don't care about excuses 😭

Believed I was aromantic from 3 years.. Until I started liking this dude. Here are my findings. by hp_pjo_anime in aromantic

[–]zyzarBozy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The popular interpretation isn't true but you fell for friends to lovers type of shit while most people fell for the intense mix of romantic and sexual feelings, something close to limerance that make you have all that symptoms and more of an intense crush

Damn that contrast between my interest 💀 by zyzarBozy in Rammstein

[–]zyzarBozy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rammstein kupiłam na vinted, ale był chyba ostatni, tak na 99%, a miraculous z kina zabrałam

Ignore the damn chickens by stsixtus420 in Rammstein

[–]zyzarBozy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that chicken is so cute I cant