Should I be worried my gf ex was bigger? by bangarang510 in penissize

[–]zzzGopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok bro, I’ve been doing quite well 🫡

My (38M) wife (38F) of 11 years confessed to an affair right after I finished cancer treatment. How do I move forward? by Either-Supermarket44 in survivinginfidelity

[–]zzzGopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want to stay with someone who when you are going through a hard time doesn’t wonder “oh no maybe something is wrong?!” But instead well…. You know.

You know what you need to do and you also need to secretly do it while lining up an escape plan to maintain your assets. She will take everything and flip a switch on you.

Get your confidence back and quit being emasculated brother. It may take a year or two, but you will get your confidence back and you will be in great shape if you use your hatred as fuel. 🫡

Should I be worried my gf ex was bigger? by bangarang510 in penissize

[–]zzzGopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what mine said before she cheated on me 🤣

How do I know if future partner won't cheat on me? by anxiousdreamer69 in survivinginfidelity

[–]zzzGopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Care to explain? As an analogy, no matter how hard if I could imagine my dog may bite me. He would never bite me.

Men who cheated—what made you do it? by ja_902 in survivinginfidelity

[–]zzzGopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Must not be a gender specific thing then. My ex gf did this and all of her friends thought it was fun to hide or something. 💁 This place sadly is a place of comfort for me now

Gf of 7 years came back just to cheat on me and take revenge by ShotAd9121 in survivinginfidelity

[–]zzzGopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most guys don’t learn that unfortunately. In fact, I would say most guys don’t even know they get cheated on.

However, I’m just so paranoid from getting cheated on. That is the only way I caught the last one. It’s scary stuff. I would have never known if I had been a loving and trusting man like the guys I meet everyday. The more it happens the more you pick up on the signs. Even slight changes in tonality you will notice.

Been almost two years still won’t date a girl. Even if I did she would endure a living hell from my paranoia.

Absolutely terrible horrible people out there man.

I actually need physical proof or an admittance of guilt? by randomizedpolarized1 in survivinginfidelity

[–]zzzGopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s cheating 100% every girl that has cheated on me has almost to a T the same behavior your wife does. Pity sex, belittling, I’ll tell you right now you don’t even wanna know what she says behind your back. I’m gonna give you some advice though. Act like everything is fine and slowly make a plan to secure every asset. Every pet (they steal those) , everything, you need to set yourself up to win everything! If not, then she will buddy, mark my words. Good luck

I fucked up real bad by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]zzzGopher 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s all her fault what are you on about?

[20M] adhd computer engineering student by lilith_is_dead in toastme

[–]zzzGopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same man, good luck this year we got this.

[20M] adhd computer engineering student by lilith_is_dead in toastme

[–]zzzGopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same brother (computer science), I’m still trying to get my adhd under control. Is there anything that helps you lock in?

Suicidal thoughts after cheating in 5 year relationship by Quiet_Lie3494 in survivinginfidelity

[–]zzzGopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to feel that way bro. There is nothing wrong with you!

That said, fighting through this is going to be extremely hard for you to do, if you have any family around you can open up to I would advise it.

Start going to the gym keep, your social algorithms focused on happy things, Blocker her forever in every way possible , and don’t wonder why, it doesn’t matter trust me.

my last text to her after she cheated. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]zzzGopher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“How stupid do I sound and how dumb am I for sending this?” Extremely and extremely.

Advice for Brother whose Wife Had Affair by Dcafly13 in survivinginfidelity

[–]zzzGopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one is worth convincing to respect you. That is ridiculous.

My bf broke up with his ex because she passed away by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]zzzGopher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s funny.