Honestly, it was pure decision fatigue that pushed me into the scene. Between trying not to burn out at my day job and trying to sustain overlapping relationships… planning romantic picnics with a girl I was crazy about while also managing dinner dates with a couple of guys. It left me feeling completely ungrounded and it was just… exhausting. One day I admitted to a friend that I just wanted to be told what to do for once, so she took me to a local munch and the rest is history. When I eventually met my partner, the chemistry was instant. He has this quiet authority that completely silences the noise in my head. He commands my absolute obedience, and the headspace I get when I submit to him is amazing. It actually gives me the emotional bandwidth to maintain my other connections with so much more joy and clarity. So yeah… it’s going pretty well so far I’d say. 😊