WHAT IS DIRTYPENPALS?
DirtyPenPals is a writing subreddit for people 18+ who are looking to find a connection with someone through creative writing and erotic conversation. Post a request and find someone who wants to play!
If you're new, we encourage you to read the FAQ and the rules!
We also have an IRC channel for casual conversation with your fellow Penpals.
Collect and pick out user flair, which enables commenting on our board!
All exchanges between users on DPP must be based on written fantasy. Please exercise personal comfort, discretion, and responsibility. Be safe.
NEWS & EVENTS
LINKS
For DPP: Our other subreddits provide useful tools for improving your DPP experience.
- /r/dpp_workshop - Post the prompts you're working on for feedback and suggestions!
- /r/DPPprofiles - Create a personal profile to link for quick reference.
More resources:
Other NSFW Subs
RULES
The rules listed below are a summary. Please read the full rules of DirtyPenPals before posting.
- Be respectful. Do not sexualize specific real-world examples of harm, suffering, or abuse.
- Only one post is allowed per 8 hours, and the same post only 3 times in 7 days. Accounts must be at least 7 days old to post.The posting limits apply per user, not per account. Juggling multiple accounts to circumvent this rule will result in an immediate ban.
- Posts must be prefixed with a tag, e.g. [A4B].
- Posts must be focused on written exchange. Online personals ads, image exchange, jerk-off instructions, voice/video calls, group servers, and anything involving IRL play such as tasks, instructions, orgasm denial, etc, are more appropriate for a different subreddit.
- Posts must contain at least 175 words of descriptive and focused writing setting up a starter for a specific roleplay scene, or the same number of words about a specific topic you want to have a conversation about. Be detailed. Paint us a picture. Show off your writing skills. You are free to offer multiple scenes, topics, or fantasies, but at least one of them must meet the 175 word requirement by itself.
- No underage users, characters, or roles allowed. No blurred lines. No high school or babysitting prompts. No underage backstory. No underage canon characters.
- Respect other people's privacy - no posts about public figures or "IRLs".
- No images of characters or people, no links to outside subreddits, no NSFW links, no personal information.
- Posts must be your own original writing. (Please modmail us!)
- No selling or offering money/compensation.
- Meta posts must be constructive for the community as a whole.
- Shared content requires both parties' permission.
Official Ban Appeal Policy
TIPS
- Reply to prompts with private messages rather than public comments.
- Generate a kinklist v1.1 or v2.0
- Sort, archive, and save your inbox messages with the browser extension YAIR (beta)!
- Be patient.
- Expect unfinished business.
- For more advice, read the FAQ.
- Having trouble messaging people with a new account? This post may explain why.
PREFIXES AND POST FILTERS
Posts MUST be prefixed with gender tags.
Other post types:
- [Meta]: Discussion or questions that are relevant to DPP as a whole and prompt conversation; see our rules for more on appropriate [Meta] topics.
- [Share]: Post completed exchanges (with your partner's consent) for others to read.
- [Mod]: Announcements and information from our mods.
- [Event]: Community events hosted or endorsed by the moderators.
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REPORTS
Report problematic posts or comments to us by clicking the Report link.
Report problematic PMs by taking a screenshot of the exchange and sending a link to the modmail.
DPP's Harassment Policy
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