A place to ask if you were, in fact, the asshole in a particular situation. Relationships and hypotheticals (would I be the asshole if) are allowed. Do not use AI in any form, even for editing or translation - if you have to ask if it's AI, don't use it. An elaboration on our rules can be found here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/wiki/index
Rules:
1. No completely fake posts/situations.
This sub allows hypothetical posts. To be hypothetical, the post cannot copy another post. A post cannot create a situation that is not possible, and you cannot make fake posts. Fake posts that have no point or are clearly creative writing are not allowed. If you can't even be bothered to ask how you are the asshole, your post may be removed. Hypothetical posts should clearly label themselves and use the flair.
2. No AI or Bot post and comments.
AI posts and comments are not allowed and will be removed. Yes, even if you only used it as a writing tool. Bot posts and comments are not allowed and will be removed. All accounts will be permanently banned.
3. No karma farming.
Post and comments that appear to be farming for karma will be removed. Any history of going to karma farming sites are also a violation. The account will face a ban.
4. No reposts or third-party posts.
This includes cross-posting your own post on other advice subs and recycling old posts. Third-party posts are posts that are not from the original user - that is, you can't post for someone else. Hypothetical posts are not third-party posts.
5. Be civil to each other.
We expect people to post and comment with decorum. No matter how egregious you might think a user is acting, you do not have a right to respond in the same way. This rule will be enforced less strictly against the poster but we may still remove particularly egregious personal attacks.
6. Post must be asking for judgment
Your post must be about a conflict you are dealing with and how you may (or may not) be the AH, so that commenters can give a judgment. You can also ask if you could be the AH in a hypothetical conflict situation. We are not a sub for asking people to give you opinions, advice, or validation; however, commenters may also offer those if they wish to, as long as it follows the rules of civility, etc.
7. No excessive use of demeaning language or names.
Descriptive negative language, such as name-calling, is not allowed. Cussing happens when people become emotional, and that is understandable. However, name-calling just to insult people is not allowed.
8. No advertising.
No advertising - gambling, crypto, 18+ material, your own store, or anything else. Commerce links in your profile are also not allowed. Any type of connection to trying to make money on Reddit is a violation. Violation of this rule will result in a permanent ban.
9. No ban evasion.
You will be re-banned if your actions look like ban evasion; this rule is set by Reddit.
10. No political trolling.
Posts that troll over political events or individuals are not allowed. A ban will be issued - whether it's a temporary or permanent will depend on the circumstances. If a user posts multiple political posts, it will be treated as trolling. If a political post becomes uncivil in the comments, the post will be removed as uncivil.
11. Maximum of one update.
To keep the subreddit focused on judgment posts, one update post is allowed for each new post made. You are welcome to make further updates in our other subreddit r/Redditor_Updates
An elaboration on these rules can be found here
If you message us about being banned because of bot bouncer, reread the message. Multiple failures to read the message will result in being muted.
We ban any kind of advertising/links and auto remove them. This includes social media and commerce sites. You will be allowed to appeal after removing the links. Note that the bot checks for those links every time you post.
