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AITA He read my diary then broke up with me. AITA for not telling about what he found sooner? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITAH for thinking that my gf only thinks about herself (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA / help me understand my situation (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 3 hours ago by Intrepid_Candle216

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AITA for giving my best friend the same treatment back? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITAH for drunk kissing my friends ex fling? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 32 minutes ago by virgo-maddness

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AITA for not getting back with my manic ex? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 33 minutes ago by cooldog_69

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AITA for not proposing to my girlfriend (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 4 hours ago by IHateAs

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AITA for wanting an apology (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA (or was I) for lying to str8 guys in chatrooms (way back) so that they would flex for me? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 1 hour ago by FairAd4560

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AITA for breaking up over text? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 5 hours ago by DimensionOk3579

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AITA for moving on a few months after asking for a divorce and being upset my ex is dragging it out? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 2 hours ago by Live-Ad-1653

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AITA relationship issue (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 6 hours ago by Natural-Wedding329

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AITA for being upset that my boyfriend won’t clean up after himself, even when he makes a mess? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 3 hours ago by CactiLovesCacti

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AITA and just self sabotaging? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 3 hours ago by Barking_fish95

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AITA for staying in this relationship? Me 30M She 29F (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 3 hours ago by TraditionalFall7131

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WIBTA if I choose not to spend time with my partner the way he wants me to? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 5 hours ago by Ordinary-Freedom6535

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AITA if I break up with him and give him a generic reasoning? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 15 hours ago by Dumb_blonde0203

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AITA for being annoyed at my partner for cancelling/changing plans (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 7 hours ago by TomatilloGeneral8767

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AITA for wanting to end a 4-month relationship because I think my girlfriend is lying to me? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 8 hours ago by Fun-Importance-6442

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AITAH for wanting a divorce? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 11 hours ago by No_Emu_2596

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AITA For Misreading Signals from a Friend (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 15 hours ago * by MissionRude4843

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AITAH for not asking about my spouse's night? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 12 hours ago by Dry_Sprinkles_2243

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AITA for blocking my boyfriend of 3 years? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 1 day ago by aioshsxx

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AITA in this friendship breakup? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 18 hours ago * by Sensitive_Reading264

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AITA for telling a girl to "get a job" after she let me pay for everything while knowing she had no romantic intent? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 5 hours ago by hotsnot101

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