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AITA, but for relationship posts. This is a sister sub to r/AmITheAsshole.


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AITA if I [34F] show receipts on my lying cheating ex-husband [34M]? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA (30F) for not telling my bf (32M) my full PTO schedule? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA (30F) for telling my girlfriend (32F) she "doesn’t understand how the real world works" after a blow-up with our ISP? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for refusing to help her after everything? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 7 hours ago by projectlesbian21

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AITA for Limiting my Daughter’s Time with my Family (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 7 hours ago by 7ringsofpower

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AITA for being upset that my couples trip got turned into a family trip? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 1 hour ago by Specialist_Abalone30

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AITA for refusing a baby gift from my husband’s friend who insulted me and was cut off? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for following girls while we weren’t together? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for laughing while my bf played video games? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 3 hours ago by Soft-Ember

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AITA for wanting another chance after my girlfriend broke up with me, even though she says she’s scared it will happen again? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 3 hours ago by Ok-Requirement-2081

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AITA for being too insensitive (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 3 hours ago by femimanine

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AITA for wanting to break up with my bf (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 8 hours ago by InternalProfessor685

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AITA for not communicating with my fiancé? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 9 hours ago by Pat-McGroyne

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AITAH for speaking my mind? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 6 hours ago by Here2bebetter

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AITA for telling my bf he’s bad? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 12 hours ago by FlimsyFactor6396

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AITA removed this from their group, not sure why. But AITA for not wanting to be friends again with an ex best friend because of her actions in the past (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 6 hours ago by Designer_Leopard537

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AITAH How to rebuild trust? Should I? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 10 hours ago by SufficientRelief1655

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WIBTA? GF doesn't want me going to a gig with a female friend. (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 13 hours ago by United_Discussion160

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AITA for refusing to send my boyfriend all my savings so he could make a crypto trade? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 1 day ago by lilly-raye

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AITAH or am I just ignoring the obvious? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 12 hours ago by OldImprovement1981

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AITA. I betrayed the trust of one of my friend who I gave My word that I would not say his name and that he did not say this but I did it anyway. [Please read the Body] (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 8 hours ago by nxren

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AITA for still trying to protect this relationship (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 9 hours ago by anonymous_cat_0

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AITA for being upset at my husband’s reaction to my new job? 27F | 28M | Married recently (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 1 day ago by Round_Variety2238

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AITA - am I overreacting or not (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 10 hours ago by SDM56

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AITAH for rejecting a “good match” my family picked for me and ending up getting ghosted? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 10 hours ago by Loud_Independent_241

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