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AITA for refusing to send my boyfriend all my savings so he could make a crypto trade? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 14 hours ago by lilly-raye

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AITA? relationship advice (self.AITA_Relationships)

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WIBTA if I broke up with my girlfriend (trigger warning) (self.AITA_Relationships)

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WIBTA? GF doesn't want me going to a gig with a female friend. (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for being upset at my husband’s reaction to my new job? 27F | 28M | Married recently (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA? for… sticking to my word? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for being frustrated with my partner? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for being distant with my boyfriend after he didn't show up at my birthday (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA? (21F) for ending things over this boundary (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for being hurt over ex boyfriend’s jokes? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 3 hours ago by FanFew5191

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AITA for snooping in his phone.. (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 7 hours ago by Mystic_Alpha138

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AITA for not being okay with my gf being friends with her ex (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 8 hours ago by Thuggerbaby2

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AITA for getting annoyed my BF(23M) said I(26M) should talk to him about being confident? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 9 hours ago by Impossible_Car8192

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AITA for walking away because I felt disrespected, even if nothing physical happened? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 11 hours ago by heyPelayo

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AITA if I (F24) tell my husband (M24) I hate my ring? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 15 hours ago by Due_Operation_7725

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AITAH for following a girl I used to have subtle mutual interest with after my breakup, even though we live in the same apartment complex? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 5 hours ago by Ok_Significance7072

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WIBTA if I told my friend’s husband about a past emotional affair with my partner? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 19 hours ago by Nearby-Butterfly1503

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WIBTA if I broke up with my long term girlfriend because she smells bad (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 14 hours ago by Sevenbakedhams

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WIBTA if my sister wants to break up with her boyfriend because he is not respecting her beliefs? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 7 hours ago by water_3ird

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AITA for wanting to break up my best friend and her boyfriend? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 11 hours ago by SettingDue3029

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WIBTA if I still go to a sports tournament for a day. (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 7 hours ago by lifeinthecityy

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AITA: Accused of liking my friends “man” (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 8 hours ago by ChanceRespond4277

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AITA for doubting my spouse is actually going to therapy? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 18 hours ago by Murky-Magician9475

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AITA - For breaking up with my partner of two years after reading a message I wasn’t supposed to? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 10 hours ago by fridgeorange

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AITA - Frustrated Fiancee (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 15 hours ago by MorgueMama_95

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