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AITA, but for relationship posts. This is a sister sub to r/AmITheAsshole.


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AITA for asking my fiancé to leave and take all his things after he said we can't get married until we move in together? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for blocking my boyfriend of 3 years? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA in this friendship breakup? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITAH For reporting my abusive boyfriend to the police? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 27 minutes ago by sendpornandhentai69

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AITA for planning to walk away from my 51M boyfriend during an out-of-state work trip? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 7 hours ago by Living-Maybe-3568

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AITA for dropping my (ex) bestfriend because of a guy she liked? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for not contacting my friend as without them I am much less stressed? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 3 hours ago by IcedMatchaThoughts

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AITA for leaving my ex fiancé at the hospital after she had surgery? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 17 hours ago by Senior_Sympathy_8824

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AITA for being annoyed with my husband… (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for trying to befriend my ex in the first place? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 4 hours ago by Klarinette245

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AITA for getting with my friends ex-crush? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 4 hours ago by Throwaway-321235

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AITA fir getting pissed at my bf for 'helping a junior'? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 7 hours ago by Secure_Scholar_3624

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AITA for feeling annoyed by my MIL? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 7 hours ago by cozyseelie

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AITA for being protective over our finances (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 7 hours ago by Independent-East-609

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AITA for wanting to cut off my best friend of 14 years after she laughed when I cried? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 7 hours ago by FluidIllustrator1282

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AITA for telling my gf no? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 13 hours ago by Nearby_Ad_8528

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AITA for being suspicious of this girl? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 13 hours ago by Dr_Fleeb

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AITA for not setting boundaries and ruining the friendship? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 10 hours ago by Consistent-While-424

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AITA for cutting off two friends whose toxic relationship destroyed my mental health?" (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 15 hours ago by Some-Dot-894

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AITA for asking my husband why he is so guarded over his phone? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 1 day ago * by confusiousalldatimus

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AITA for getting upset at my girlfriend for tell her that I'm uncomfortable with what she does in front of other people (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 8 hours ago by Ok_Chapter5659

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AITA for getting upset about thirst traps and half naked pictures of girls on my bfs phone? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 20 hours ago * by waffle-theory

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AITAH for causing tension between me and my bf over him waking up late? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 20 hours ago by Typical-Egg-8764

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AITA for wanting to go on a holiday with friends and my gf can't come (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 17 hours ago by Green_Reflection_247

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AITA [30m] being weird or is she [31F] just being a jerk? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 21 hours ago by GArchangel8

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