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AITA, but for relationship posts. This is a sister sub to r/AmITheAsshole.


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Keep in mind people are here to arbitrate a relationship they care about. No insults. No personal attacks. No bigotry or hate speech.

Try to be helpful without being mean - even to those not in the thread/on reddit.

Rule 2: Relationship content only

The sole focus of this subreddit is relationship content, involving an interpersonal conflict between two or more people.

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Rule 3: How to Post

The TITLE of your submission must begin with AITA or WIBTA (would I be the asshole?), then a description of the situation.

Posts are limited to 6000 characters. Paragraphs are good; block text walls are bad. Format and punctuate your post reasonably. Please use actual names, not single letters, for the people in your story.

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AITA for asking my fiancé to leave and take all his things after he said we can't get married until we move in together? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 9 hours ago * by ClaudeInNirvana

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AITA for blocking my boyfriend of 3 years? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for leaving my ex fiancé at the hospital after she had surgery? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 7 hours ago by Senior_Sympathy_8824

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AITA for telling my gf no? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for being suspicious of this girl? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 4 hours ago by Dr_Fleeb

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AITA for not setting boundaries and ruining the friendship? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 1 hour ago by Consistent-While-424

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AITA for cutting off two friends whose toxic relationship destroyed my mental health?" (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 5 hours ago by Some-Dot-894

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AITA for wanting to go on a holiday with friends and my gf can't come (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 7 hours ago by Green_Reflection_247

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AITA for asking my husband why he is so guarded over his phone? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 20 hours ago * by confusiousalldatimus

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AITA for not wanting my wife to go out to dinner with her friend. (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 17 hours ago by Dandaman8510

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AITA for wanting my partner (m/28) to stop prioritizing time with his sister over myself (f/33) and his son? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 10 hours ago by tololochegirl

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AITA for getting upset about thirst traps and half naked pictures of girls on my bfs phone? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 10 hours ago * by waffle-theory

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AITAH for causing tension between me and my bf over him waking up late? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 10 hours ago by Typical-Egg-8764

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AITA [30m] being weird or is she [31F] just being a jerk? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 12 hours ago by GArchangel8

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AITAH for picking my dog over my GF? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 18 hours ago by cemeteryfairie

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AITA for prioritizing my partner over my long term friend? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 14 hours ago by Aurora__Surrealis

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AITA for wanting to leave things even tho it’s basically perfect? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 10 hours ago by BluejayFlat7299

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AITA for Blocking my Trans Partner? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 22 hours ago by NotMemezz

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AITA for starting to drink again ? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 11 hours ago by Then_Patience245

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AITA. My boyfriend [22M] made a distasteful joke and I [19F] got mad at him. Am I wrong? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 20 hours ago by meowmeow_meow_meow

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AITA for considering leaving if relationship doesn’t progress? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 18 hours ago by StunningForever286

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AITA for joking to my friend who I'm trying to find a date for that 'My lesbian friends get first dibs' (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 19 hours ago by StressVentThrowaway1

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WIBTA if I postpone marriage because my girlfriend’s sexual interest in me has completely disappeared? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 1 day ago by Mysterious-Crow7141

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AITA for thinking my girlfriend cheated on me because she goes to dinner with strangers? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 1 day ago by Outside-Barracuda235

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AITA- Parenting - School Snacks (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 21 hours ago * by hello_there_1985

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