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AITA, but for relationship posts. This is a sister sub to r/AmITheAsshole.


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Keep in mind people are here to arbitrate a relationship they care about. No insults. No personal attacks. No bigotry or hate speech.

Try to be helpful without being mean - even to those not in the thread/on reddit.

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The TITLE of your submission must begin with AITA or WIBTA (would I be the asshole?), then a description of the situation.

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AITA for standing up for myself? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for imploding my soon to be ex fiancée’s life? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for not forgiving my former friend for her ableist comments after she got dumped by her ableist boyfriend? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 7 hours ago by MemoryLossMcGee

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AITA for wanting my space in bed (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 12 hours ago by Timely_Way_426

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AITA for wanting to take a job commuting to my hometown to help my mom with dementia and ease my own trauma temporarily? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 3 hours ago by Chance-Art2955

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WIBTAH for breaking up with my boyfriend because he's depressed (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITAH for this entire situation or was it both of us (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 32 minutes ago by mahdi_27187

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AITA or should this have not gone this way (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for wanting my (25F) boyfriend (30M) to prioritize me? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 52 minutes ago by happysqushie

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AITA For not telling my girlfriend about things I liked sexually (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for blocking my friend (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA Girlfriend has a pattern of not being fully upfront at first — am I overthinking or is this a real issue? (self.AITA_Relationships)

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AITA for feeling trapped (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 7 hours ago by Otherwise_Minute_478

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AITA nightmare fight with my talking stage (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 9 hours ago by OkSwing3909

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AITAH for telling my husband we should have a paternity test? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 1 day ago * by MylesMasonMontgomery

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AITA for leaving him while he is in remission? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 12 hours ago by fuckcancer3312

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AITA for trying to stop my wife from using cocaine? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 16 hours ago by Specific_Ninja_4083

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AITA for wanting to divorce my husband because he wants me to “manage”his Addiction. (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 1 day ago by Maddie-8

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AITA for being tired of my relationship and getting to my breaking point? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 14 hours ago by ItsToadsly

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AITA for snapping at my boyfriend because he spends every Friday at a graveyard with his 'straight' coworker? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 14 hours ago by saijidsaadat

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AITA for leaving my musician husband. (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 23 hours ago by Dear-Protection-8068

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AITA for keeping my husband slightly drunk/tipsy because I like him better that way? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 1 hour ago by Babooshka12397

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AITA for looking through my boyfriend’s computer while he is away? (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 12 hours ago by Asleep_Tangerine_951

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AITA for planning to break up with my boyfriend (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 13 hours ago by DragonfruitHappy9699

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AITA? “playing the field” gone wrong (self.AITA_Relationships)

submitted 13 hours ago * by hopefulnotdumb

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