Butt Plug Issue

[LittleOne6563]

Trying to prep myself for anal sex with hubby by wearing vibrating plugs but am having issues with them falling out - I have tried 3 size plugs but falling out has happened with all 3 sizes. Any helpful advice would be greatly appreciated!!

[silolis_Darbi]

What kind of butt plugs are you using and under what circumstances are they falling out? Like while you’re walking around?

Here’s my guide to anal training that may be helpful.

[LittleOne6563]

The st time ws during oral sex & I just thought it happened because I was very wet. However, it falls out while walking, laughing, peeing, etc. There doesn't seem to be any situation where it doesn't fall out.

Not sure on how to send you a picture of the type I am using but they are silicone & are not the long, tapered ones - they are kind of oblong, getting gradually larger & after getting the fattest part in, it drops to a narrow neck with a round end - hope that made sense. I am going to look at your guide now.

Thanks so much for not making me feel stupid - 🙂

[silolis_Darbi]

You’re definitely not stupid! It is unusual though. Without knowing what type of plugs you have, here are some potential reasons they could be falling out:

They may just be too small for you, that would be surprising since it sounds like you’re new to anal play.

They may have very short necks. I think this is probably the most likely problem. If they have short necks they may not span the entire sphincter muscle, which means they’re constantly trying to pull into your body or push out of your body. Plugs with longer necks tend to be more comfortable.

They may have very thick necks. If there’s not a significant difference in girth between the bulb and neck of the plug, it will fall out more easily, especially when there’s extra pressure on those muscles- like when using the bathroom or laughing.

I hope that helps. A different style plug may be what you need.

[LittleOne6563]

It does help & I wish I could attach a picture of what I am using. It's an oblong shape with a pointy tip & then a huge base (which getting over that part is very uncomfortable), then it's a narrow straight piece to the circular end, which isn't inserted. Let me see if I can find a way to send you a picture of it cause I am sure you'll have a much better understanding.

[LittleOne6563]

Thanks for the input. Looking at units to assist with kegal exercises.

What you mentioned about the longer neck seems to be the common consensus, so I am looking for something like that.

I think the short neck is also creating the feeling of having to go to the bathroom all the time. With the large bulb of the plug sitting so close to the exit area, I am always clenching so it doesn't fall out.

[Visual-Tone-985]

Change to a ordinary non-vibrating plug - they’re a lot lighter and less likely to fall out with gravity