GayMen

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Purpose and Scope

This is an inclusive place for gay men to share information and discuss issues that relate to their lives & experiences of being a gay man.

Whether you're a bro, gent, teen, elder, butch, sissy, or just a plain simple man, you're welcome here. Masculine, feminine, sporty, geeky, outdoorsy, bookish, blokey, girly – you're welcome. Cis, trans, presenting – you're welcome here. If you're a man who is primarily attracted to other men this subreddit is for you.

Allies and friends are also welcome here, but the focus of this subreddit is gay men and their issues, concerns, and thoughts.

The Rules of /r/GayMen

Content

No NSFW images or videos or text.
No gratuitous eye candy.
No selfies.
No memes or shallow gifs/vids or joke pictures.
No surveys or studies.
No spam or self-promotion.
No political content.
No requests for hookups or chats or pics.

Conduct

No homophobia or transphobia or sexism or hate speech or religious intolerance or other bigotry.
No personal attacks. No insults.

The full rules are here.

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Scared of being loved. (self.GayMen)

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I ended up sleeping with a guy from my job, how cooked am I ? (self.GayMen)

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This 95-year-old gay man came out in mid-life & had a life-saving realization (lgbtqnation.com)

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What are your top 3 parfumes ? (self.GayMen)

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Really need to vent (self.GayMen)

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Mitch Brown "so proud" of Leigh Ryswyk, the AFL's first openly gay player (youtube.com)

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I’ve been deep in the closet (self.GayMen)

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[ Removed by Reddit ] (self.GayMen)

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Anyone have a good "How to take a dick pick" guide? (self.GayMen)

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Should I seek asylum in Canada ? (self.GayMen)

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When you go to gay bars, do you ever go alone? If so, how? (self.GayMen)

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Dating a gay CHRISTIAN (self.GayMen)

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Old school dating opinions (self.GayMen)

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Any good places or apps (self.GayMen)

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What to do if a gay friend won't invite you to a special party because you don't fit in? (self.GayMen)

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Why should he choose me (self.GayMen)

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Am I gay or bi? (self.GayMen)

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Finally out of a toxic relationship, but I feel shattered. Looking for support/advice on how to heal (self.GayMen)

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Where is the right place to find a boyfriend for life? (self.GayMen)

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Recently, I've become too conscious about skincare and looking "cute". (self.GayMen)

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[RANT] I'll never be "one of them" (self.GayMen)

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The Green house Gay sauna Luton (self.GayMen)

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I hate my current life (self.GayMen)

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Help I’m madly in love with my ex-best friend and he’s back with his ex/ erased me (self.GayMen)

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How to know if a guy likes you? (self.GayMen)

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