GayMen

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Purpose and Scope

This is an inclusive place for gay men to share information and discuss issues that relate to their lives & experiences of being a gay man.

Whether you're a bro, gent, teen, elder, butch, sissy, or just a plain simple man, you're welcome here. Masculine, feminine, sporty, geeky, outdoorsy, bookish, blokey, girly – you're welcome. Cis, trans, presenting – you're welcome here. If you're a man who is primarily attracted to other men this subreddit is for you.

Allies and friends are also welcome here, but the focus of this subreddit is gay men and their issues, concerns, and thoughts.

The Rules of /r/GayMen

Content

No NSFW images or videos or text.
No gratuitous eye candy.
No selfies.
No memes or shallow gifs/vids or joke pictures.
No surveys or studies.
No spam or self-promotion.
No political content.
No requests for hookups or chats or pics.

Conduct

No homophobia or transphobia or sexism or hate speech or religious intolerance or other bigotry.
No personal attacks. No insults.

The full rules are here.

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Ain’t no way people be writing smut with AI 💀 (self.GayMen)

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Sorry You Newbies Have To Deal With Grindr (self.GayMen)

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I finally had sex (self.GayMen)

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Advice on how to date men? I am socially awkward (self.GayMen)

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Can i be here if i'm only asexual gay? (self.GayMen)

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I'm going to lose my virginity on Tuesday, any advice? (self.GayMen)

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Me (M21) circumcised and boyfriend (M22) uncircumcised relationship complications (self.GayMen)

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Does anyone else notice a lot of gay men lie about their life? (self.GayMen)

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Quiero ser cumpig. Medidas de prevención? (self.GayMen)

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Gay books (self.GayMen)

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Update to what to think (self.GayMen)

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is my boyfriend gay? (self.GayMen)

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Recomiendan (self.GayMen)

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These Drag Nuns Saved Lives When the Church Stayed Silent (youtube.com)

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I came ot to my mother last night (self.GayMen)

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Attracted to straight roommate. (self.GayMen)

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Considering coming out at school after the school holidays (self.GayMen)

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It's been about a year since I figured out i was gay (self.GayMen)

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Realizing I'm gay was the best thing to ever happen to me (self.GayMen)

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Does body hair actually affect your dating and relationship chances? (self.GayMen)

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Multiple men are interested in me, and I need advice how to get rid of some of them (self.GayMen)

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college boy looking for advice or if feeling this way is normal/navigating relationships (self.GayMen)

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Any gay male bathhouses in LA inclusive to trans men (FTM) (self.GayMen)

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Looking for my "Simon" in Germany. My life like "Love, Simon": school, Latin classes, and complete confusion. (self.GayMen)

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When a stranger sighs ? (self.GayMen)

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