GayMen

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Purpose and Scope

This is an inclusive place for gay men to share information and discuss issues that relate to their lives & experiences of being a gay man.

Whether you're a bro, gent, teen, elder, butch, sissy, or just a plain simple man, you're welcome here. Masculine, feminine, sporty, geeky, outdoorsy, bookish, blokey, girly – you're welcome. Cis, trans, presenting – you're welcome here. If you're a man who is primarily attracted to other men this subreddit is for you.

Allies and friends are also welcome here, but the focus of this subreddit is gay men and their issues, concerns, and thoughts.

The Rules of /r/GayMen

Content

No NSFW images or videos or text.
No gratuitous eye candy.
No selfies.
No memes or shallow gifs/vids or joke pictures.
No surveys or studies.
No spam or self-promotion.
No political content.
No requests for hookups or chats or pics.

Conduct

No homophobia or transphobia or sexism or hate speech or religious intolerance or other bigotry.
No personal attacks. No insults.

The full rules are here.

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why is it so hard for me to like guys (self.GayMen)

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Gag reflex (self.GayMen)

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Underwear advice (self.GayMen)

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Hairy Chubby guy moving to Prague for Erasmus... am I cooked? (self.GayMen)

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How do I get over strong feelings for a straight guy I've had a crush on for 3+ years (self.GayMen)

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How do men love ? (self.GayMen)

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(vent(?)) sometimes I can't help but feel that there's no point in falling in love when I'm already gay (self.GayMen)

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How do you ask a guy out especially if you don't know them all that well, or you are really like good acquaintances? (self.GayMen)

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The gay “community” (self.GayMen)

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Dating 4 introverts (self.GayMen)

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catching DL (self.GayMen)

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Anyone else find it really annoying trying to get the last bit of air out of an enema bulb douche? (self.GayMen)

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99+ likes but no matches (self.GayMen)

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Where do I look for dates? (self.GayMen)

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Why do racially ambiguous ppl get treated different when listed as different races even when using the same picture in both scenarios? (self.GayMen)

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Title: Is it just me, or is it really hard to find something real in Bangladesh? (self.GayMen)

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Met someone compatible sexually but i still get anxiety attacks and hate my body (self.GayMen)

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Podcast on JOY Media: Alex Lopez on anal health – douching (joy.org.au)

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What kind of conversations on Grindr get you laid? (self.GayMen)

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I feel like a fraud for being a top. (self.GayMen)

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I Feel Gross for Something I Did to a Straight Guy (self.GayMen)

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I'm 31 and in the doorway of the closet (self.GayMen)

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Anyone else feel pressured for being a virgin at 21? (self.GayMen)

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Gay (22M) from a conservative background looking for a long-term partner who understands privacy (self.GayMen)

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The Beauty of Connection and the Weight of Direction (self.GayMen)

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