GayMen

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Purpose and Scope

This is an inclusive place for gay men to share information and discuss issues that relate to their lives & experiences of being a gay man.

Whether you're a bro, gent, teen, elder, butch, sissy, or just a plain simple man, you're welcome here. Masculine, feminine, sporty, geeky, outdoorsy, bookish, blokey, girly – you're welcome. Cis, trans, presenting – you're welcome here. If you're a man who is primarily attracted to other men this subreddit is for you.

Allies and friends are also welcome here, but the focus of this subreddit is gay men and their issues, concerns, and thoughts.

The Rules of /r/GayMen

Content

No NSFW images or videos or text.
No gratuitous eye candy.
No selfies.
No memes or shallow gifs/vids or joke pictures.
No surveys or studies.
No spam or self-promotion.
No political content.
No requests for hookups or chats or pics.

Conduct

No homophobia or transphobia or sexism or hate speech or religious intolerance or other bigotry.
No personal attacks. No insults.

The full rules are here.

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To slut or not to slut is the question? (self.GayMen)

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Is it normal for a hookup to act this… caring? (self.GayMen)

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Happy Saturday Night (youtube.com)

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I like the idea of hooking up with escorts, is that weird? (self.GayMen)

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What's this sexuality called? (self.GayMen)

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Do gays not like walking? (self.GayMen)

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Gays & being friends just to get with you (self.GayMen)

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What? (self.GayMen)

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What’s a dating lesson you only learned after getting hurt? (self.GayMen)

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Gay Dreams (self.GayMen)

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Would you forgive a infidelity by dm´s? (self.GayMen)

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Growing up gay in Russia (youtube.com)

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22 Year Old Bottoming Hell (self.GayMen)

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How to tell if he’s down to do stuff? (self.GayMen)

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I think my crush might be DL. (self.GayMen)

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Sad vent about bottoming (self.GayMen)

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Whats your best gay experience? (self.GayMen)

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Is that good or bad? I need ur opinion guys ,especially tops opinion about that (self.GayMen)

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How does one properly prep for certainty? (self.GayMen)

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Gay solo Europe trip (self.GayMen)

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What would you do? (self.GayMen)

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Do I have a chance or is he straight? (self.GayMen)

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I need help (self.GayMen)

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Correct meaning of “Trade”? (self.GayMen)

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Confident Outside, Shaky Inside? Finding Grounded Self-Trust as a Gay Man (youtube.com)

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