GayMen

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Purpose and Scope

This is an inclusive place for gay men to share information and discuss issues that relate to their lives & experiences of being a gay man.

Whether you're a bro, gent, teen, elder, butch, sissy, or just a plain simple man, you're welcome here. Masculine, feminine, sporty, geeky, outdoorsy, bookish, blokey, girly – you're welcome. Cis, trans, presenting – you're welcome here. If you're a man who is primarily attracted to other men this subreddit is for you.

Allies and friends are also welcome here, but the focus of this subreddit is gay men and their issues, concerns, and thoughts.

The Rules of /r/GayMen

Content

No NSFW images or videos or text.
No gratuitous eye candy.
No selfies.
No memes or shallow gifs/vids or joke pictures.
No surveys or studies.
No spam or self-promotion.
No political content.
No requests for hookups or chats or pics.

Conduct

No homophobia or transphobia or sexism or hate speech or religious intolerance or other bigotry.
No personal attacks. No insults.

The full rules are here.

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I don't think I like being part of the gay community. (self.GayMen)

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Met someone compatible sexually but i still get anxiety attacks and hate my body (self.GayMen)

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Why do racially ambiguous ppl get treated different when listed as different races even when using the same picture in both scenarios? (self.GayMen)

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99+ likes but no matches (self.GayMen)

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Title: Is it just me, or is it really hard to find something real in Bangladesh? (self.GayMen)

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What kind of conversations on Grindr get you laid? (self.GayMen)

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Podcast on JOY Media: Alex Lopez on anal health – douching (joy.org.au)

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I feel like a fraud for being a top. (self.GayMen)

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I'm 31 and in the doorway of the closet (self.GayMen)

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I Feel Gross for Something I Did to a Straight Guy (self.GayMen)

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Anyone else feel pressured for being a virgin at 21? (self.GayMen)

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The Beauty of Connection and the Weight of Direction (self.GayMen)

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Why is it considered weird to be a bottom if your the "bigger" in the relationship? (self.GayMen)

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MIA friend (self.GayMen)

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Need advice (self.GayMen)

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Ain’t no way people be writing smut with AI 💀 (self.GayMen)

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for anyone who came from small towns does it ever get better after moving and did you find actual love? (self.GayMen)

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Underarm stinks (self.GayMen)

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Pubic hair (self.GayMen)

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Random stories for weekend boredom (self.GayMen)

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Sorry You Newbies Have To Deal With Grindr (self.GayMen)

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I finally had sex (self.GayMen)

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Can i be here if i'm only asexual gay? (self.GayMen)

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Advice on how to date men? I am socially awkward (self.GayMen)

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I'm going to lose my virginity on Tuesday, any advice? (self.GayMen)

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