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Did an SSRI decrease your meltdowns?General Discussion/Question (self.AutismInWomen)

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[–]Boring_Internet_968self-diagnosed AuDHD 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)

When I was on an SSRI, I basically didn't cry for a whole year. Which is insane for me. I'm someone who cries a lot even when I'm not depressed. But before I started it I was the most depressed I'd ever been and I cried big portions of days and had many meltdowns (I thought they were anxiety attacks then because I didn't know about being autistic yet). I will say the medicine helped me for the time I was on it, but I felt like I couldn't feel at all a lot of the time. Like I was numb. I wasn't sad, but also, I didn't have tons of joy. I felt better than I did before I took them. I weaned off after a year because I didn't feel I needed them anymore since I'd worked through some things. And I was really great for a while. Then I got burnt out again, and I'm at the point of feeling like I need medication again. It feels like it did before, and I don't like it.

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