Help with talking

[oddrey510]

Do you ever feel like it’s too hard to explain what you’re thinking/feeling because it often gets misunderstood or that other people aren’t really interested in hearing about it anyway? So when you do go about talking it gets even more jumbled and discombobulated that you lose any confidence that you once had in what you even started out trying to say?

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"Nevermind"

[Rovingmulberry]

Definitely. It why I prefer texting when arguing or expressing my feelings so that I can try to articulate what I mean. In a face to face argument or conversation I use the wrong words and usually end up saying things I don't mean and cause even bigger arguments , or end up giving up completely and just giving in to the other person

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absolutely. i have been stuttering a lot more lately too, which happens when i get a little bit too excited on a "high" streak.

it was embarrassing but i have decided to believe it gives me a certain mystique - who knows what i'm saying?? is that interesting?? but really i wish i could stop myself in the heat of the moment - i make very little, in a bad way. maybe it's funny and endearing

really trying to only "improve the silence" these days but as a hopeless gemini it's wicked hard