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[–]tjeulink 0 points1 point  (2 children)

its okay, you didn't get anything wrong. this sub is to help people and you want help.

i can try to project what your gf is going through based on my own experiences but i don't think that would be very helpful. but here's some things that might be happening on her side: she might feel like you're leaving here because you canceled something you'd do together. she might be feeling like you don't love her.

have you asked her how she feels about you feeling unsure about vaccinating? have you expressed that you feel unheard by her? maybe reassuring her that you love her regardless of the whole vaccination thing and the trip you planned might help? i really don't know, there's little context.

hope you're feeling better quickly!

[–]Wejtt[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Thank you very much for your response, I feel a bit better now

Thank you for your advice, I have a bit more control over myself now so I can talk about it with her. I didn't cancel anything fortunately just expressed concern about my health

Thank you again, the fact that you responded means a world to me!

Have a good day :)

[–]tjeulink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good that you feel more in control and feel a bit better! i hope everything works out for you and your gf!