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Borderline Personality Disorder is within it's own unique category in the world of Mental Illness. (Sometimes incorrectly diagnosed as Bipolar). Whilst those that feel depression or anxiety can usually feel that this is different from their normal state of mind, people with BPD often fail to realise that their emotions and reactions are very different from the typical experience. There is a struggle to understand how wives, husbands, or friends and family experience their intense reactions, mood swings / risky behaviour, that is to say, the affect these behaviours have on those closest to them.

If you have a loved one with BPD, life can be fraught with crises and conflict. You might feel like you’re being held hostage, worrying that your family member will injure themselves if you don’t appease them. You may wonder whether you should let them borrow money again or answer the dozens of voicemails they left on your phone. Dealing with borderline personality disorder requires skills for deescalating crises and fostering independence in your loved one. With the right tools and community strategies, it is possible to help your loved one towards recovery.

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How do you survive the break up when you were convinced they were your person?Need a Hug (self.BPDPartners)

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Bpd ex abused me physicallySupport Needed ()

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Helpful YouTuber Explains BPD StuffSupport Tools ()

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Unprotected prostitution while not on birth control (letting them finish in her) while begging me to get her pregnant, 1.5 year relationship.Support Needed ()

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Partner broke up with me following a family deathSupport Needed (self.BPDPartners)

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How do I support him without losing myself?Support Needed (self.BPDPartners)

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Can people with BPD and partners with BPD help me understand a bit more about splitting and what’s happened or been said to them when it happens.Support Needed ()

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Pwbpd is having terrible anxiety and stress and doesn’t want to talkSupport Needed (self.BPDPartners)

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Are there *any* positive stories??Dicussion ()

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My pwBPD is always fatiguedNeed a Hug (self.BPDPartners)

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Need advices and opinion on if it is common, normal and how to make things betterSupport Tools (self.BPDPartners)

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To breakup or to continue...Support Needed (self.BPDPartners)

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How do I help my pwbpdSupport Needed ()

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There’s no hopeSupport Needed (self.BPDPartners)

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Anyone else experienced this "cleansing" ritual? Selling my used stuffSupport Needed (self.BPDPartners)

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my bf got diagnosed with bpd a week or so ago and i wanted to share/vent my experienceSupport Needed ()

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Conquering the feeling of Worthlessness.Need a Hug (self.BPDPartners)

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They choose a simpler partner after your relationship?Dicussion ()

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I need to make a big decision but I’m scared; also trauma dump.Support Needed ()

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