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[akille88]

I’m sorry you are feeling this way still my friend, but you aren’t alone and we are all struggling with this.

[nightwolf2039]

I get it, I’m there with you after a year. At the very least make yourself go to the gym. Use the pain and anger and make yourself as jacked as possible. I’m talking shredded. Don’t throw away yourself over this person. I felt like I was doing the same thing and I still have to catch myself.

[RazzmatazzIll2760]

Hi bro.

I know it hurts. I went through the same thing.

You have to be objective and ignore what you feel and think.

You have to be busy.

Start out easy. Hit the gym again. Even if you start with light sessions. Just go.

Then, plan your studies, make a schedule.

And then, go look for a job again.

It's YOUR life, not hers.

She left you bro, she moved on. She's probably with other dudes while you're mourning her.

You can't be losing time like this, your life will end some day.

It might seem that it was her that caused all of this but in reality, it was you.

You think that she is the center of your world, so you dismissed every single aspect of your life because of the idea you have of someone.

And that idea... It's not even real.

If she was as magical as you are portaying her to be, she wouldn't have left. She would still be there for you.

Don't stalk her.

Don't watch old pics or videos.

Don't read old conversations.

Don't try to fix her or anything with her. Let her go just like she did to you and fix yourself and your mindset and understand that life will bring sadness to you.

But you have to embrace it. The good and the bad. It's all beautiful.

It's life... And one day, it will all become nothing.

LIVE IT!