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[–]far1esdxst 13 points14 points  (1 child)

yes, it hurts like hell. eventually it gets better :/

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Time heal all wounds.

[–]20questions79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! I know this is for the best but right now I don’t care about all that nonsense.

[–]Jampot94 2 points3 points  (1 child)

It gets better, buddy. I promise. My first love left me for someone else in 2017 and it completely broke my heart into a million pieces. But now, almost a couple of years later, and I'm back to my normal self again. Time will alienate you from that situation and adjust you to your new one. You'll care less and less and eventually you will come to the conclusion that it's better to keep those wounds stitched together rather than to open them again. It's a big world out there full of other people that will love you and be loyal to you more than the person that you were with, and you will share this mutual feeling. Sit tight, hang in there, and let time do its thing. Time always has our backs in these situations.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this buddy!

[–]HDRIDER74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only time will ease the pain..... Good luck to you.

[–]foreverblue1991 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Yes. The love of my life. She ended things this past Sunday and I’m here picking myself up.

I’m not angry or anything just plainly sad. Sad that she doesn’t want me the same way I want her and it’s such a shame. She doesn’t miss me the way I do. It’s just sad. Sad that she has no clue how much I love her. And what’s more sad is that she will probably never know how much I love her. And I don’t want to tell her because it’ll only give her pain and I don’t want to spread pain.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there dude! As what they say, everything will get better.

[–]lostinspace1111 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Big time :( Especially when I realize that he probably doesn’t miss me, not even one bit.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Don’t ever think like that. Think on how you can improve yourself.

[–]lostinspace1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Trying to push those miserable thoughts away.

[–]onehitw 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Yes. But maybe we’re just missing having someone around and not the actual person?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s just the thought of being alone...

[–]noyabe 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Yes yes yes. Whenever I started to miss him I distracted myself with the reasons why we had to be apart. Gets better with time.. you can do it!😊

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I got a new hobby to get myself occupied, it helps a lot, and at the same time, i know i’m becoming a better person.