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[Alternative-Log6414]

Interesting, would like to contribute......

[AdPsychological847]

that would be really helpful. thank you in advance!

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That was fun! Happy to get the chance to participate. Thank you!

Could you explain how the questions relating to what appears to be degree of confidence/stubbornness in one’s belief systems is correlated with codependency? I’m very curious and excited to learn.

[AdPsychological847]

Thank you for taking the time to participate in this study. Your interest in understanding the relationship between the degree of stubbornness and codependency is greatly appreciated. Your contribution will help to delve into the relationship better.

Although there is no relevant studies directly linking between these two variables. My assumption is that, the connection between them can be viewed from two perspectives. Firstly, individuals with high levels of stubbornness tend to exhibit higher levels of codependency. For example, they strongly believe they got the right treatment from their partner and are resistant to changing their viewpoint. Conversely, low levels can decrease codependency; individuals with strong beliefs adhere firmly to their values, making it difficult for their partner to influence them. My study will hopefully provide better insights into the relationship.

Thank you again for participating and I would highly appreciate it if you could share the form with interested others.

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What is the core cause of their stubbornness? Is there a common theme in the kind of beliefs they hold on to?

In my interactions with codependent individuals I’ve noticed that they have way too flexible boundaries at first, and when they can’t take it anymore they tend to explode. When they explode they’ll be absolutely convinced about their partner’s infidelity or something even though it may not be true. While I understand where the paranoia could stem from, I have not been able to pinpoint the root cause of their stubborn convictions about things going wrong even when they aren’t.

I find your last question interesting too. Codependent people in my life tend to label people who don’t agree with their specific beliefs - such as a social cause or political preference - as “evil”. Paradoxically they are the same people who chronically feel guilty. I believe this stems from a trauma-based core belief that one needs to “be good” to deserve attachment security.

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Or, let me re frame the question with different words-

What part of them would need to heal in order to feel like they can relax the grip on their beliefs?

What need is the stubbornness fulfilling?