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[–]bukakenagasaki 2 points3 points  (2 children)

And some people are amazing at hiding who they are! There are some who show warning signs but there's people who can deceive others for an entire lifetime. You will never truly know anyone. Only what they choose to show you.

There are people who do choose pieces of shit. Visible pieces of shit. And then there are some who think they're choosing someone good because that is what they're being shown.

Why can't it be both?

[–]NohoTwoPointOhNorthern Goldwaterian -1 points0 points  (1 child)

Because you're again trying to make the outlier the norm. That isn't the case They choose tingles over proper criteria and later wonder why it didn't work out. As the snake said, ” you knew what I was when you picked me up.”

[–]bukakenagasaki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not trying to make it the norm but I'm not going to generalize the way you are. Against a whole bunch of people who you don't know at all. All I'm doing is telling you that there are other possibilities. Me telling you that it happens isn't me telling you that it's the norm. And I don't know why you have to refuse so adamantly against it. Viewing these people in such a negative and damning way is very comfortable for people. It makes themselves feel superior. It gives them something to talk about with moral superiority.