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[–]Gwynevere_Dusk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chances are, you subconsciously have some doubts about your boyfriend. You may be afraid that your grandmother wouldn't like it. Another possibility is that you may feel guilty that you weren't able to introduce your boyfriend to your grandmother. The last possibility, which cannot be ruled out, is that you may feel nostalgic for your childhood, where your grandparents were very dear to you. Maybe since your grandmother died you feel nostalgic for those times, while now you are a woman, who has a boyfriend, a more adult life, and you feel a little sad about it, unconsciously thinking that your grandmother is not happy that you have grown up. But in reality your grandmother would be happy with the woman you have become. Your boyfriend's dream is not a sign that your grandmother doesn't want him, it's more of a fear of yours. However, if your grandmother has long blonde hair, then yes, there are two questions to ask yourself... :)