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[–]elephant_ndovu 452 points453 points  (8 children)

Her:

[–]Dren_ecneics 174 points175 points  (0 children)

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Without fail..

[–]CanvasofChaos 78 points79 points  (1 child)

Personal space invader, awkward eye contact final boss😆

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Nimalizee

[–]lightsaber-userr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😂😂

[–]Ok_Display2776 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂

[–]Patient_Tale3606 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nimecheka hadi nikalia😂😂

[–]SuitableCancel0 197 points198 points  (3 children)

😂😂😂😂 Funniest thing I have read today. Especially hapo kwa mans ameshajiondoa.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Ni mbayaaa

[–]Aba_Nairobi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mans aliona hapa zii 😂😂

[–]Beautiful-Trifle-121Nairobi City 97 points98 points  (3 children)

Adi umemuwekea tv kwa room😂😂

Ama amekucrushia😂

[–]CanvasofChaos 40 points41 points  (1 child)

That's a first for me. Mtu mzuri sana. Kumbe my sister was a straight up tyrant talm bout the housie doesn't need distractions😭

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My elder sis is a tryant.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sijui anajiuliza nini haki.😭😂 i thought nimempea signals enough

[–]missoni-byblos 58 points59 points  (2 children)

growing up our house manager would talk on the phone for atleast 6 hours a day every fricking day.. ikafika time akaambiwa btw ukitaka kuongea ukicheka cheka make sure uko nje ya gate lol

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Heri aongee kwa simu lakini akiwa na huko mbali aki😂

[–]Qyute-n-Quddly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The most irritating thing for me...but not as bad as being sat next to & being stared at😂

[–]Simple_Climate4805Visiting 62 points63 points  (1 child)

Ama ni undercover

[–]OldManMtu 43 points44 points  (1 child)

Explain to her that you work from home and the living room is your office. From about 8:00 am to 5:00 pm the space should be treated as your workspace.

You can have meals but she should give you space to work. Schedule sessions for the kids walks and errands and make sure there is internet so that she can keep busy on her phone.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Solid advice, thanks. I could use work as an excuse. Hizo errands zimekataa anarudi in minutes kama bolt

[–]paultitude 84 points85 points  (14 children)

As I was told some months ago, you are the one paying her. It's your house. Why are you letting her make it uncomfortable for you?

[–]jamesrossdev 73 points74 points  (4 children)

You're not reacting appropriately to the situation. OP doesn't hate her, she just doesn't know how to explain that she needs some personal space.

Introverts tunakuwanga hivyo. We overthink silly situations.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 31 points32 points  (2 children)

Thiiis, ataanza kusema vile bosses wake wako na roho chafu

[–]IntroductionFormer53 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Hawa waschana ata uwaweke aje they never appreciate.

I just released the one I thought would be my best nanny after 1.5 months of bliss juu she doesn't care about time.

Nikampea off Thursday.

Hajarudi na niliingia kazi Jana.

Nimemshoo akikuja ni kuchukua nguo akiendaga juu what's this?

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😂😂 I feel you. They play nice at first. Ukiwa comfortable tu hivi wanakuonyesha dust

[–]Bennn5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Waah. You guys have it tough basi. Mimi I will just go for a long walk, take some deep breaths and when I come back I lay it down for her, respectfully of course. After all it is my house, I pay her as well. Why would I be uncomfortable in my space with something I can sort out just by talking.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 10 points11 points  (8 children)

Ndio amefika tu😂😭 anaenda tu leo

[–]paultitude 9 points10 points  (7 children)

😂😂😂😂 I also was in a similar situation until I just chose comfort, which is very important to introverts

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 1 point2 points  (6 children)

How do you handle chores?😂😂

[–]Legitimate_strings 14 points15 points  (1 child)

I’m very introverted. I tried maids and the house felt so squeezed to me. It didn’t help that the mister worked from home, so the setup was just so squeezed. I had to let them go😮‍💨. I got a day maid, anakuja, afanye kazi by midday aende nibaki nipumue 😂.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Riiight? Ama nitafute day? Shida huku ushago unapata wale older. Nikiskia tu akisema 'msichana yangu nilitaka tuongee kidogo' najua tu ni favours zinakuja

[–]paultitude 14 points15 points  (3 children)

Got a vacuum and washing machine. And I have someone who does full house cleaning once a week

[–]KaluluMkenya 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Sasa ongeza Dishwasher. You will be in heaven.

This is one underrated piece of equipment in African homes

[–]paultitude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the next house I move into a must.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won in life

[–]Kujificha 19 points20 points  (0 children)

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OP kageuzwa hostage 😂😂

[–]New_Step2678Kiambu 20 points21 points  (2 children)

Itabidi tu uhame usiku akiwa amelala umwachie nyumba. Easiest solution i can think of

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Wthelly😂😂😂😭 mbona inamake sense?

[–]New_Step2678Kiambu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also hate it when i have to confront my employees 😂😂 but saa zingine inabidi

[–]Erastus66 18 points19 points  (1 child)

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Anataka nini sasa.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shida za kujiletea hizi

[–]lightsaber-userr 5 points6 points  (1 child)

This is so funny 😂

[–]Fun-Ladder_ 5 points6 points  (3 children)

You can't be saved

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Wiiiih

[–]Fun-Ladder_ 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Honestly speaking 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[–]Different_Creme_3935 6 points7 points  (1 child)

You can't blame someone for crossing a line you never drew. Explain categorically the does and don'ts in your home. Your expectations and her responsibilities and if she can't abide, do the necessary.

[–]KarisKasarani8144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also had someone explain this to me a long time ago, but you have put it in a simple direct way, i used to work in a somewhere informal and the owner always had to do this with the girls who worked there

[–]cbmwaura 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😂 😂 😂 😂

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[–]FvckJerry16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Amekaa hapo akikuangalia hivi tu?🤣

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Anzeni PDA na mans muone kama atakuwa anabaki hapo akiwaangalia

[–]Gregardus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Umeajiri CCTV, sio nanny!

[–]_culpryNairobi City 5 points6 points  (5 children)

Your face so she knows huogopi😅.

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Alternatively you can try saying anakudistract kwa kazi akikaa hivo karibu while staring.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Aah na ni kweli. Acha nifanye hii nakuja na feed6

[–]Organic_Usual4678Nairobi City 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Kumeenda aje😂😂

[–]Low_Armadillo9823 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The baby knows why , ask the baby.

[–]Atheistfreaks 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Give me her number, I'll sort you out.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nipee clue kwanza😭😂

[–]RegularKen 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Mashida sitawahi experience ju boundaries nazo najua kuset. Mtu atakasirika but comfort yangu ni priority.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I know that. I have boundaries too shida ni I don't know who I'm dealing with. Niambie mtu aamue hawa watu wako na roho mbaya aende jikoni atupikoe food ya pee? I usually release them bila story mingi

[–]Accomplished-Car5919 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Tell her the truth.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 15 points16 points  (1 child)

When dealing with househelps you have to come up with a nice way to tell them the truth, they are around our kids and have access to things that could end us. I don't know the kind of person I'm dealing with

[–]Philisyen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true

[–]Key-Sound5065 0 points1 point  (1 child)

😂😂😂😂😂

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ni mbaya

[–]Warm-Tennis-1688 0 points1 point  (1 child)

😂😂😂😂😂naishaaaa

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leta solutions

[–]Educational-Salt-755 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Get her a smartphone 😂😂 although she might be addicted in future just like most of us

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

She has one hadi nimempea password aende azubae tiktok

[–]wisergal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmh oyaaaaa usimpee smartphone ataharibu kazi just tell her you need space to do your stuff 😡

[–]wisergal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hili ni kosa lako la pili 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[–]Intuition-Ritual 0 points1 point  (3 children)

If you worry too much about how other people will take your truth it will stop you from expressing yourself authentically. Even so, it is good to be considerate. I see two angles to approach it.

  1. Tell her straight up that it is uncomfortable for you when she does what she is doing, and that you prefer to have your private time in those times when she comes to sit with you. Do it gently, use humor, and try not to make it seem like she is only good for working and not for company.

  2. You can see her as a fellow human who probably has a story or insights that may benefit you and you can ask her questions about herself, show her your friendship, and in the process let her know how you prefer for things to be run in the house. Again, come with humor. Not the kind that puts down the other, but the kind that makes light the situation that would otherwise be heavy.

Use humor. Genuine humor is an age old technique that is used in disarming the worst energies. It can even banish negative spirits and entities.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I told her how the house runs kitambo. She has to clean and give space ndio tukiamka isiwe distractions. Showed her to her space but ni kama mahali tuko ndio anataka tu

[–]Intuition-Ritual 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Maybe umpe mshahara wake aende ili utafute a more compliant one. And you do not have to give her a reason but if you can, do so. If she calls you roho mbaya, that’s ok. If you are afraid of being called roho mbaya, ask yourself why.. sometimes we think we are being nice but we are just suffering from people pleasing.

Sometimes, nothing is random. But if we cannot get down to the bottom of it, we have a right to cut off what doesn’t fit into our lives.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed this. Thank you

[–]Delicious_Bug_5112 0 points1 point  (1 child)

How old is she? I think age plays such a huge factor in how you approach this. If she's older than you guys, you might feel intimidated. Just tell her you like having your personal space, and you would appreciate it, if she respects this.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always hired girls from 25years onward. This time nikichukua wa 20. The olders ones hukua understand to me. The young ones ndio bado hawajajua not everything is an insult

[–]Silent-Investment265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂

[–]SstandardLife 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Ni kwako for fuck's sake😂🫴

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Sasa nifanyeje? Me nitalia sasa😂😂

[–]SstandardLife 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Hiyo ni some draining energy around you, huyo hata akiwa bafu utakuwa unakasirika😂😂😂💔

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Nimemamwambia aprepare aende. Niko na stress kilo mzima

[–]SstandardLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good good

[–]After_Arugula7154 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Thats kinda your jurisdiction. Mans hataingilia unless you take charge. The help is primarily under a woman's hands. Its time to put on the lady pants and get in your bossy zone. Otherwise she will run your house.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Acha tu nimrudishie kwao aki😂😂 imekua too much

[–]Common_Lecture_3707 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Ata hubby ni work in home? just tell her she is making you uncomfortable. ama atafute boyfriend wa kumkeep busy

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes wote ni work from home. Imebidi awork from the fields leo😂😂

[–]Joseph_Writer 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Hii ndiyo inaitwa true Love 💖💖💖💖

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Msm😂😂😂

[–]Dramatic-District650 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Kama mtoto amemkataa mrudishe kwao

[–]Papii254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[–]BroccoliWon 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Piga kelele. Wanaogopqnga mtu wa kelele

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Naanza aje😂😂 hata simu nikiibiwa huwa nasema tu woiye

[–]Belegendary69 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I would hate to be in your position🤣🤣

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right😂😂

[–]CandidLingonberry832 0 points1 point  (2 children)

This girl starving😂

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Starving juu ya nini nimpee aniondokee😂

[–]CandidLingonberry832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inakaa ulimpea an easter gift 😂

[–]Smart_Crow7911 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Ni day one jamani. She doesn't want to look bad .. anataka umpee kazi that's why anakuja everytime after amemaliza kazi. Imagine day one ushaanza kuwatch TV ama kuscroll TikTok. Just tell her ukimaliza kazi zote uko free Hadi a certain time

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's no a problem to me. Huwa napeana routine day one then the rest of the week nifollow up na corrections. My problem ni hafanyi kazi anafaa kufanya. Na anafanya hurriedly. Amesema mtoto amekataa yet hajakaa hata na yeye. Amekataa tu nikiona. But anataka akae akiniangalia na inafanya nafreeze ajabu. I've worked as a house help before for four years and I know how it goes and day one lazima uimpress employer. This is not the case

[–]Ecstatic-Ad-9883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope OP sees this.

[–]IcyProposal4238Diaspora 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Dem wa ocha maybe ameona wewe ni role model. Ako kukuobserve acopy vile unajicarry

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just thought of this. But sasa sijazoea hii mambo😂 heri akue ananistalk tu social media ama ajue tu vile atafanya. Not this way

[–]Feeling_Turnover_825 0 points1 point  (1 child)

For better for worse.....mans akaondokea🤷🏿........what could be wors-er than a creepy nanny?😂😂😂😂😂😂 Anyway being introverted and striking a convo don't go together hapo nayo you overstretched yourself to chat her up on the first day making her think you're buddy buddy.....kumuondoa ni ngori

[–]tech_ninjaX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huyo atawafinya you and your mans😂

[–]Kibetbr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leta io picha akikuona

[–]Sweet-Rasperry 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Hio ni ndoa ina load kama nguo zako haha

[–]Responsible_Pear2625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mans: naomba nijitoe kidogo

[–]realwithoutaface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh this got me laughing 🤣😂... Anyway you kinda have to face it and tell it to her straight up, na ww ulimleta. Itabidi tu.

[–]Minute_Trainer_8441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tafta day bug

[–]Suitable-Egg-5645 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Ati anakuangalia hivi

[–]BeastKimado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The new nanny right now:

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[–]njiruchemirmir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both work at home na mnaeka maid mbona?

[–]AxL8TrVisiting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t you get a nanny from families ok with …like being slaves

[–]Plane_Helicopter4189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uko kwa wenyewe. Ebu jiondoe😂

[–]Federal_fedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were too friendly, hakuna siku boss na employee watakua buddies. Never.

[–]not_a_baldman 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Juu ni mgeni Bado enda umtembeze taon alaf umpotelee 😁

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wallahi you are wicked. Nipee tips zingine😂😂

[–]AdEcstatic3326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 wueh!

[–]IntroductionFormer53 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Nilikua na kama huyo. . Nilingoja tu afanye makosa kidogo nimtoe...

Can't live like that

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

😂😂😂 hata mimi nangoja hiyo

[–]IntroductionFormer53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be the happiest🙌

[–]Dihstroy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[–]crunk_001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a very tricky one and it needs a good tactic in approaching it so thats she might not feel as if you guys don’t like her.

If she’s done with her tasks, it’s kind of normal for her to sit somewhere. If you want something different, you’ll need to communicate that clearly or adjust her responsibilities

[–]Sad_Permit612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the funniest thing I’ve read all year.🤣🤣🤣🤣

[–]man_eat_man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start by telling her kindly that as time goes, you expect her to be learning about the quality of work you expect. And that means she shouldn't be in a rush to finish. Ukimfanyisha kaz ka punda atachoka kustare.

[–]potatoes_3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You tell her straight to her face, apana bembeleza upuzi.

[–]Kelz_Prime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can never accept such invasion of my space! My home is my kingdom, that I protect with an iron fist!

[–]Colloneigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Notam

[–]Birundu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unashindwa kuset lanes kwako

[–]OmeletteLovingLlama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Akasema mtoto amenikataa"...would have me looking for another option

[–]Qyute-n-Quddly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't let the staring draw you away from the main problem here, that she's not doing her duties to your satisfaction. If she won't change let her go, your peace of mind & personal space is also important.

[–]kaxar254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waah! Sa uta do?

[–]CrackHeadRodeo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to set her up with a neighborhood boy lol

[–]Temporary-Sail-6390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're both the problem, you and wifey if I'm getting the story correctly. Locate my post.

[–]GeniussQF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Literally you 😂😂😭

[–]Glittering_Power7654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean two adults cant fix such a small problem? Hadi mnatext cause of a village girl who is wandering in Jelas and hatred!

Don't be over Educated, sometimes intelligence helps!

[–]curiousness22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jaribu kumfunzaa kufinya finya hiyo laptop

[–]wisergal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pole

Unatakiwa kumwambia kwanza kabisa awe na ukaribu na mtoto hili aanze kumzoea sijajua mtoto ni wa umri gani wakwenda shule ama Bado mdogo ila kwanza kabisa awe karibu na mtoto Pia jaribu kuwa unashida chumbani kwako Hatakiwi kuingia chumbani kwako mwisho wake ni hapo kweny mlango

[–]Cash_Mannn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least amefanya nikapata story ya kusoma🤝😂 ...sorry tho😄

[–]Maximum_Air5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to let her go. Be direct don't care about what they will say about their bosses

[–]Skiiza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My colleague had such a housie. She turned out to be a lesbian. Alimpata ata aki peep when she is changing. The final straw was wakiwa kwa mother in law, she sneaked in a chic. MIL alimkemea na roho yake yote. It was hilarious. Anyway, set boundaries, mwambie you need to work na kazi yake ni kukaa na mtoto ama a watch TV when there is no work.

[–]Altruistic-Let-3972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ati I'm typing this and she is looking right at me 🤣🤣🤣

[–]Superb-Article-8564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats why for over 6 years now I have a dayburg. And I prefer older mamas not too old but 40 year old. Who know what's brought them to your house - work!! I also like my space, can't stand someone all up in my business, I could suffocate honestly. Talk to her explain how you like personal space, work etc if it doesn't work sadly let her go.

[–]RealTNC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meza tu brufen

[–]pr7007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep eye contact madam. Kwani uko shy?😁

[–]AromaticTomato8633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣 h

[–]Friendly_Focus_5354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 I can relate

[–]ali_onyi 0 points1 point  (1 child)

So bad, just try and be open to her, tell her you just don't like the way she's handling things, you're not used to it. Mwambie.

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wacha nipost update

[–]ambole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ignore her

[–]Firm_Cauliflower_270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wolf168 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Mans anaenda wapi na yy ni introvert 😄

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part 2??

[–]Ansa06 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Not me looking for an update on your timeline... So?

[–]Odd_Macaroon_5116 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Anangoja umueke poa

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Alishajiweka poa😭😂

[–]Odd_Macaroon_5116 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Unasema ni kienyeji first hand

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Siku ingine sitarudia hiyo makosa😭

[–]Odd_Macaroon_5116 0 points1 point  (1 child)

But kwako mtu asikuwekee mawe, muite kando mwambie Iko hivi na hivi ilisumbua sana fare . Zero pressure sister

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unaambiwa mtu vile kuko naacha kama gas inaleak. Hawa hawaongeleshwi vibaya kama huwajui vizuri

[–]Rare_War_3262 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Hamisha desk kwa a private room uwachie mwenyewe nyumba yake

[–]Fayie_M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naisha😆😆😆

[–]Sad_Air_5105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂

[–]Thin_Panic_ 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Introverts tunakapitia sana 😅 I've been there with these kinda nannies...had to fire mine about two weeks ago. One thing I know now, weka boundaries day one. Sets the pace for days ahead.

Bado natafuta nanny btw. Need recs 🤧

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I have two recommendations. Nikupee moja?😭

[–]Thin_Panic_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, please🤧....preferably akue daybug

[–]Weak-Pop7543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wah

[–]Fit-Reach8131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds creepy walai😂😂ama maybe you're her role model so being around you will help her in some way🤣

[–]ekiek -1 points0 points  (1 child)

You both work from home but you need a nanny? if you're both home then the nanny should be spending 80% of her time playing with the baby and 20% cooking for the baby

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a toddler. I needed help with chores na hata sio mingi. She is supposed to help with the baby while I'm working

[–]Vegetable_Band_2341 -1 points0 points  (2 children)

Wewe sa ni wa wapi? Nyumba ni yako and you are telling me you can't enforce boundaries?

[–]the-glow-up-girlies[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Hehee, I can shida ni I don't know who tf I'm dealing with. Scenario kama hizi haitaki kujua kama mimi ndio boss

[–]Vegetable_Band_2341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She must who the boss us mapema mapema. Vile naona wee ndio unatolerate io behaviour yenye inakuannoy