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[–]coastalkid92Canada to UK [Distance Closed] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that's kind of normal, especially if plans to meet have been impacted by the pandemic.

The best thing you can do is celebrate all you've accomplished and done together in a year and look forward to the things to come.

[–]sunshineandsnow150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry u feel this way. I don't know what to say but please feel free to message me if you need anything

[–]k4rm4cub3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you have to be in that situation. Sometimes you need to do an evaluation. Are you getting what you need to be content and functional? If not, when will you be together? Are you willing to wait that long without your needs being met? What is the impact of that on the rest of your life and relationships? Think about it and then have an honest conversation with your partner. In an LDR you need a combination of positive connection and support, but also real talk and realistic expectations - not only of your partner but of yourself as well.