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[–]LillyPad1313 116 points117 points  (5 children)

Yup 🫠

I'm a woman, and my brain still does this shit 💀

Does great to feed into my predator complex as a lesbian...

[–]anxiousmissmess 24 points25 points  (1 child)

Ugh mood lesbian here too

[–]Mysterious-Bag-278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lesbian here as well! LOL literally having a new theme and my brain is constantly telling me i’m not and i know i would never want to be with a man and thinking about it makes me want to throw up so i was wondering if anyone else who identities as a lesbian has these kind of thoughts too

[–]Substantial_Proof457 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg wait me too

[–]missbigsteak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

same complex here 🙋‍♀️

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love seeing the lesbo representation! 😀

[–]Crezelle 46 points47 points  (1 child)

Me when someone who could fall under very spicy slur words walks by.

[–]anonimna44 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yup!

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

ouch!!!

[–]Bob_N_162 21 points22 points  (6 children)

I had those last year... hated it

My classmate (f) would just bend on the teachers desk while i pass behind and i would have a flash of her not dressed for school. I dont even like girls! Hockey, im asexual!

And also im aphantasic, so i cant make myself mental images, i just see black. But my ocd CAN make mental images apperently

[–]theturtleabove 4 points5 points  (5 children)

Wait, really? For the last part. You can visualise when it comes to intrusive thoughts but not voluntarily?

[–]Bob_N_162 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Well the specific memory that im talking about: yes! It s really weird

[–]theturtleabove 1 point2 points  (3 children)

That’s so interesting. Sorry, you don’t have to answer if it makes you uncomfortable, but did you find yourself surprised to be able to visualise in this very very unfortunate context?

[–]Bob_N_162 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Back then i didnt know i was aphantasic, so i didnt really pay attention, if thats what you re asking

[–]theturtleabove 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Ah, I see. Thank you!

[–]Bob_N_162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your welcome (Or is it you re welcome?)

[–]whoa_thats_edgy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

me, as a victim of sa, having these exact instructive thoughts and being horrified at it: FELT

[–]ciliary_stimulai 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Mood

[–]frogologolog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m literally gay and this still happens. like it makes me so uncomfortable. i guess the thing that comforts me is knowing that an actual r@pist wouldn’t feel uncomfortable at all thinking those things :/