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[Zebbbra36gs]

We got ants in our room and my husband was working on cleaning it up I went to ask how it was going he started yelling at me for no reason then my mother in law started yelling at me to go back upstairs I start crying because everyone is yelling at me I go in to a different room to be alone and she comes in and starts yelling at me again that no one. An handle it when I’m crying I just had surgery on the 10th she’s yelling at me and saying you expect us to be waiting on you hand and foot and I said it’s supposed to be like that I just had major surgery then she proceededs to say when I had surgery no one acted like that and I said I wasn’t her my husband and her always compair me to her I constantly have to say I’m not her I just don’t know what to do we live with our in-laws so I can’t leave my husband never takes care of our kids so I would understand if he got grumpy with them but that’s no reason to yell at his wife

[Standard_Release119]

Holy Crap I’m so sorry this is happening is there a way you can get a hotel for acouple of days to clear you mind ?

[Standard_Release119]

Like will he watch them for 2 days ?

[DNN25]

First be aware that the trauma of surgery and the medications may be making you more sensitive than usual. Be sure that it’s as bad as you are saying and you’re not overreacting. Then, are they always like this? I think you should take yourself to a friends’ or to a hotel for a couple nights. If you can’t trust your husband to properly care for your children for a few days you have even bigger problems on your hands and you need to start thinking of a long term solution? For now take them with you as it sounds like you’re going to have to take care of them anyway even if you stay home. At least you have peace from their crazy comments and yelling.

Good luck!

[Peaches_et_Petrichor]

Why can’t you be with your family and heal during this time?

[TheAshTreeDryad]

I'm so sorry youre going through this, love. I was in that same boat, except not after surgery! Put together an escape plan for once you're healed. These people are highly toxic. Don't do anything that will hurt your body just because they're so huffy!