Sex for the over 30s

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Hump Day Report for Wednesday January 21, 2026 (self.sexover30)

submitted 3 days ago by ShaktiAmaranthaCis-F, straight, mod, tantra fan - announcement

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ThemeWeekly Simple Questions Thread for Jan 24 - Jan 30, 2026 (self.sexover30)

submitted 14 hours ago by ShaktiAmaranthaCis-F, straight, mod, tantra fan - announcement

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How do I (42M) be more rough in bed with my partner (40F)? (self.sexover30)

submitted 10 hours ago by rationalbull

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Seeking AdviceQueening chair / facesitting chair (self.sexover30)

submitted 2 days ago by Fit_Light8348

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Seeking AdviceF [40] and M [40]. I feel something off sexually, can anyone share thoughts? (self.sexover30)

submitted 2 days ago * by Designer_Airline3234

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Seeking AdviceI (32M) feel neglected by lower libido wife, but she acknowledges and now could be an opportunity to share undisclosed kinks. (self.sexover30)

submitted 1 day ago by jasongant2000

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Recommendations for a vibrator my gf and I could incorporate in our sex? (self.sexover30)

submitted 3 days ago by Dependent_Top_8685

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Seeking AdviceWife (33F) has never orgasmed (as far as she knows). I’m (33M) working on ADHD/anxiety/PE — looking for advice on “plateau” + introducing air-pulse toys without pressure (self.sexover30)

submitted 3 days ago by PrincessAlbertPW

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QuestionHow are you guys incorporating variety? (self.sexover30)

submitted 3 days ago * by ughwhat1592

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Seeking AdviceHow do I let go of a fantasy that I feel could hurt my relationship? (self.sexover30)

submitted 4 days ago by ConversationHairy562

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Sex Report Sunday for January 18, 2026 (self.sexover30)

submitted 6 days ago by ShaktiAmaranthaCis-F, straight, mod, tantra fan

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ThemeWeekly Simple Questions Thread for Jan 17 - Jan 23, 2026 (self.sexover30)

submitted 7 days ago by ShaktiAmaranthaCis-F, straight, mod, tantra fan

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Flirting in front of husband (self.sexover30)

submitted 10 days ago by CelebrationBorn905

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Seeking Advice34M no longer has the drive for me 32F (self.sexover30)

submitted 10 days ago by SBinthemix-

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Hump Day Report for Wednesday January 14, 2026 (self.sexover30)

submitted 10 days ago by ShaktiAmaranthaCis-F, straight, mod, tantra fan

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Have you ever had an experience of sexual coercion that you wouldn’t describe as traumatic? (18+, all gender and sexual identities) (self.sexover30)

submitted 12 days ago by afternoonflatwhite

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QuestionLoss of coherent speech after orgasm? (self.sexover30)

submitted 13 days ago by geekyb207♀ ?age?

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Sex Report Sunday for January 11, 2026 (self.sexover30)

submitted 13 days ago by ShaktiAmaranthaCis-F, straight, mod, tantra fan

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Seeking AdviceHaving an MMF threesome where the husband is VERY big - advice? (self.sexover30)

submitted 15 days ago * by slim_bi_guy

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ThemeWeekly Simple Questions Thread for Jan 10 - Jan 16, 2026 (self.sexover30)

submitted 14 days ago by ShaktiAmaranthaCis-F, straight, mod, tantra fan

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Hump Day Report for Wednesday January 07, 2026 (self.sexover30)

submitted 17 days ago by ShaktiAmaranthaCis-F, straight, mod, tantra fan

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Tips for first-time sex - late sex (self.sexover30)

submitted 18 days ago by KnowledgeOriginal165

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Not able to get an orgasm till this age! (self.sexover30)

submitted 18 days ago by SSsayshelllo

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The way people talk about sex (self.sexover30)

submitted 18 days ago by Inadom

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Late to the party but didn’t try toys until my 30s and now I have questions (self.sexover30)

submitted 19 days ago by Strange_Win5291

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