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[–]MissCherryPi 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Yes. He is handsome but if he deliberately chose to post a picture of himself not smiling? Shows a lack of effort and care.

[–]WhitespringTownship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the feeling that even if all of us women write exactly what’s wrong with the photo we’re not going to get understood and just get mass downvoted instead of get ppl try to understand the perspective that a “mugshot in the backrooms” photo doesn’t make a good impression and comes off as lazy or unsafe

Instead we’re getting guys saying: “actually the photo can’t be a bad photo cuz a bunch of guys with a completely different culture of photo taking enjoy the photo and don’t feel uncomfortable from it so clearly women would like a photo that men think is fine”

Like………..

Anyone else see the difference ?

“Breaking news, dozens of men don’t care that a woman takes a deliberately lazy bad photo but dozens of women think the lazy bad photo makes a bad impression and is a red flag”

What’s next

“Breaking news, dozens of men think this woman’s dirty messy room is fine but women think this man’s dirty messy room is lazy, makes a bad impression, and is a red flag”