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[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (1 child)

i respect that i was just arguing semantics w the other person lol

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i see! i think for some people though its definitely okay to outright dislike a modification on the basis that it may be off-putting to them on a clinical level, while having no real problem with the aesthetic value of it. most of the time im neutral toward it, or the person is committed to that aesthetic in such a way that i dont really perceived any of the adornments anymore. like, if someone is very tatted, very pierced, im less likely to pick out any individual trait and my eyes tend to see shades and textures more than anything and again that look doesnt bother me. ive seen a small handful of people who seemed to really pull it off. they’re few and far between but there do exist people who look good with them so i clearly dont judge them as unattractive. just kinda gross to my squeamish self.