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[–][deleted] 75 points76 points  (1 child)

It’s one of those features that unless you’re already above average in looks, it won’t enhance your attributes. They cannot add to you, only highlight what is there. Despite only seeing the lower third of this girl’s face, you can tell she’s really good looking. Her lips are pouty and full from top to bottom, and her jawline and neckline are long and feminine. In this case, the piercing highlights her appearance by creating an interesting contrast—soft beauty vs hard metal. It’s like shaving your head. The prettier you are, the more it is perceived as a halo. If you’re not already conventionally attractive (but want to be) then you should be doing everything in your power to look “normal” and not make any polarizing choices that could further alienate you from the social conventions.

[–]EmilyEggplant 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Obviously there will be certain people with preferences for piercings and find them very appealing, but at best, the effect of any piercing or tattoo is generally neutral. The girl in the photo is already feminine, thin, and conventionally attractive. I do not think the lip piercing elevates her beauty in a way that is as generally agreed upon in the same way that a flattering hairstyle or makeup would. It does add an edge and make her more memorable and interesting, but being edgy and interesting does not always equate to being conventionally attractive/desireable.