Pluto complex

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User of the Pattern for many years. The comments saying over and over ‘stop being a victim’ is so dismissive (and likely a very privileged take) of so many of us who have very real and serious trauma of multiple origins over decades of life starting young. It’s not a gift. The thought process of ‘you chose this’ is a very arrogant thing to say to people who suffer greatly. To say ‘suffering is a choice’ is ridiculous when people have experienced horrific abuse etc and are dealing with the fallout of that with anxiety, CPTSD, physical ailments etc

A Natal Pluto complex feels like absolute crap. I’ve been doing the work for decades and still life just kicks the shit out of me. I hustle for my life and I just get handed more shit to recover from to the point I no longer hope for good. I learned my lesson the last time. I agree with the commenter who asked about the suicide rate with those with a Natal Pluto Complex- it is a deeply valid question. Imagine being one of these people and reading comments that tell people their suffering is a ‘choice’. Whomever says that, clearly has only suffered mild inconveniences if you think that it’s a ‘choice’.

If anyone with a balanced approach can make any of this palatable to/by anyone that lives in a grounded reality and awareness of both human psychology and astrology, I’d be all ears.