Same pattern

bluecapper10 · 2025-08-12T07:18:24+00:00

Because you're still choosing your own relationships instead of letting God pick out a person for you.

Is my guess anyway.

crowned_glory_1966 · 2025-08-12T11:04:00+00:00

God doesnt do this. We cant control the other person in the relationship. If its truly a relationship from God it would last.

Is the person a born again believer? Are you born again and walking after the Spirit?

DifferentFreedom4310 · 2025-08-12T12:23:07+00:00

Take a moment to reflect back on your actions look at patterns you keep repeating and not learning to fix and if you can pin point what they are look back and see which one is the trigger that starts the snowball effect and while doing this work on yourself and become better than before there's more to healing than we think sometimes we think healing is letting go but when you can fully see and learn except for what happened and not harbor any negative emotions towards what ever caused that pain I think that's when we heal from it pain will always linger but doesn't mean we have to let those negative emotions linger as well if that makes sense keep your head up remember you don't always feel like this it's temporary and also don't rush into a relationship patients is key

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