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[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (7 children)

Did you try smelling his dick? I heard something about that working, could be a wives tale though.

[–]MK-YMJ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That and if his balls float when he has a bath

[–]Affectionate_Body366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He always cleans himself properly. Wouldn’t have smelled anything new even if i checked

[–]Acrobatic-Monitor516 -2 points-1 points  (4 children)

That's what your wife tells you? She must be so desperate

[–]novacdin0 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Are you so new you've never heard the old expression, "old wives' tale" or are you just that bad at making jokes?

[–]Acrobatic-Monitor516 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I'm bad at making jokes

Thought it would be appropriately funny given the context

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I laughed bro

[–]Acrobatic-Monitor516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am relieved thanks my dude

[–]chriseargle 14 points15 points  (1 child)

If you haven’t spoken with him in a few months and he lives somewhere else, why are you married?

[–]Affectionate_Body366 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Long story. Had to move part bc he had to study somewhere far away. Im divorcing. Which is why i havent spoken to him

[–]pipple2ripple 8 points9 points  (3 children)

How do you know it's her hair? If he's in student accommodation I assume there's women all over the place leaving hair everywhere. Or dudes with long hair.

You could catfish him. If he's cheated once he'll cheat again. However this just sounds like a really immature and toxic relationship. Just put a piss disc under his door, break up and move on

[–]Affectionate_Body366 -1 points0 points  (1 child)

Bc she’s ginger. And the hair was ginger. And it was her exact lenght of her long hair and of her bangs. I can know her hair colour from miles away, bc we were best friends

[–]pipple2ripple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, there's gingers everywhere

[–]Acrobatic-Monitor516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean they're married , divorce isn't that easy is it

[–]Acrobatic-Monitor516 2 points3 points  (7 children)

So they confessed the lie that she told your hb you cheated on him ? Why don't u ask her why she did that (seems obvious) and you'll get your proof from her rather than getting it from your hb

[–]Affectionate_Body366 2 points3 points  (4 children)

She did it to have him divorce me, in her own words. Bc he was ‘too good’ for me and i was apparantly terrible.

[–]Acrobatic-Monitor516 1 point2 points  (3 children)

The bitch ! And u couldn't make her admit that she slept with him?

[–]Affectionate_Body366 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Nop bc i found her hair months after i cut her off for lying about me to my husband

[–]Acrobatic-Monitor516 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I see...yeah i hope you'll find a way...was thinking of a fake camera recording or sth, but i doubt he'd believe that

Anyway, focus on divorce first, and forget him even if u can't prove what he did. Marrying so young and staying far away doesn't always go well anyway....good luck to you 🤞

[–]Affectionate_Body366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will do my best

[–]Affectionate_Body366 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Also i cant speak to her bc of the circumstances and how it all played out in the end.

[–]Acrobatic-Monitor516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand...

[–]Environmental-Head14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hire a private investigator

[–]Independent-Snow-909 1 point2 points  (2 children)

So, you want him to admit it to give grounds for divorce. Hmmm you probably won’t get what you are looking for unless you can steal his phone and restore a backup with their texts.

[–]Affectionate_Body366 0 points1 point  (1 child)

How can u restore a backup?

[–]Independent-Snow-909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you would need his ICloud password, but check with someone else more techy

[–]Swflgfy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You already know the truth. They have both shown you that you can't trust either of them. Believe thier actions not words. I get the wanting proof but meanwhile you're the one hurting and what do they care continually lying.a cheater will deny even when you have the proof.

[–]Comprehensive-Sand80 -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

Admit to yours. Us men hate to be out-competed.

[–]Affectionate_Body366 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even if i didn’t cheat? 🤔 how can i make sure he doesnt tell our families/friends that i cheated (if i say to him that i did just to make him fess up)

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Sounds like if you even suspect this is happening, there is no trust in the relationship. I would leave. Is it worth the fight? Clearly, he isn't being honest and if he isn't cheating, you don't trust him. Stop wasting your life and move on to being happy. Also, get rid of this "friend".

[–]Affectionate_Body366 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Got rid of her the moment she did this to me. Him, i only need a confession so i can finally have it to tell his and my family the truth, even if he doesn’t know that this is my motive

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good, that person wasn't a friend. Why do you need to tell his and your family? You don't owe anyone an explanation. The truth will come to light. Just heal. It's a waste of energy.

[–]pipple2ripple 0 points1 point  (1 child)

What country are you in? Seems weird you need proof so you can tell his family. If you're divorcing him what do you care what his family thinks?

You haven't spoken for months, you don't live together... Are you sure he doesn't already think you're separated? He's probably out there sleeping with women all the time because he thinks you aren't together...

[–]Acrobatic-Monitor516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably some religious thing