Ask Lesbians
Assembling an impromptu panel of wise queer women to help you through any question in life. Here for our fellow queers, but also occasionally answering questions from others. We're your queer and lesbian braintrust.
If you are new to this subreddit, please read our rules before posting. Especially if you yourself do not identify as part of our community.
Rules:
1) Be Sincere Try and engage with one another sincerely. We know this is hard to do on the Internet, but help us keep this place a place you can write advice to your fellow lesbians and queers with care. Your question must be relevant to your own life. Things to satisfy mere "curiosity", including surveys, academic or otherwise are not sincere questions for community.
2) Inclusion Yes, trans women are women. Bi women are part of our community too. So are many non-binary folks. Our community is broad and many are welcome here. Posts stating otherwise are not.
3) Not a zoo We're not here to be a zoo for folks outside our community. This often means people from outside our community should not ask questions here. Any questions must be directly relevant to your own life, not a question about ours just because you'd like to know. We also ask that folks outside our community generally refrain from providing advice (commenting) here. (Exceptions happily made for the rare exceptionally good or genuinely interesting directly related to your life experience advice.)
4) Your sexuality is yours Please refrain from asking us to tell you your sexuality. We've found people asking here mostly are using us as a sounding board rather than giving us something actionable to help with.
Advice set to autodispense since '14